09:05 Jun 18 2009
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If a guy asks a girl "What's wrong?" or something along those lines they should NOT respond with "You should know" or anything similar. Guess what, unless you tell us there's no reason we should know. Saying anything like that is petty and a cop-out. Personally, if a girl says that to me I stop caring at that point, if she can't tell me than it's her problem not mine.
All those 'What guys are really thinking' articles are basically crap. Out of 100 things they say guys think they maybe get 4 right. Most of those come from guys who are players or are actually from women who think they know. Most men are pretty straight forward about what they're thinking if you ask them, unless of course we're thinking about something we shouldn't be. If we're not supposed to be thinking about what we are we may doctor the truth but that's more because we don't want to upset someone than because we don't want to get caught.
If you want to get something across to someone, anyone, don't hint. Just say it. If it's something you're too embarrassed to say than don't. If you're hinting because you think the other peson should know you well enough to figure it out, that's childish and unfair. Hints are only for helping you find something in a video game.
Don't ever use flirting tips from a magazine or website. Most tips for guys are written by guys and don't apply to all or even most women, the same can be said the other way around.
Ladies, your man isn't different when you're alone with him. He's different around anyone. Almost everybody is. Different people and situations tend to bring out different aspects of our personalities, that's a fairly standard human trait.
Shit, damn, piss, fuck.... People swear, if you don't like it get over it or don't go where you might hear it. Don't expect anyone to change their speech habits just for you.
I'm not a smoker but I think these state smoking bans are bullshit. If a person doesn't want to be around cigarette smoke they shouldn't go where people are smoking. If this means not going to the bar than all I have to say is waah, it's not like going there is a necessity and I don't think smoking should be banned because non-smokers want to go somewhere, if it's somewhere you have to go like the grocery store or something than obviously it wouldn't be fair for them to smoke there. Get over it and leave it up to individual businesses to decide if they should allow smoking.
Weed does less damage to us than the combination of cigarette smoke and alcahol, it's been proven. Tell me again why it's illegal?
Most women think confident men are sexy, most men feel the same way bout women. If a woman isn't afraid to show a little skin that doesn't mean she's a slut, it just means she's not afraid to show a little skin. If a guy touches a girl a few times on a date it doesn't mean he's touchy feely, it just means he's not afraid to let you know he's interested. If he is practically molesting you it's obvious what that means.
If somebody doesn't agree with your point of view that doesn't mean theirs is wrong. If you think you can avoid an argument, discuss and even civally debate with them about it. Who knows, maybe you'll both learns something.
I keep hearing about these 'studies' that say most males become intrested in sex around the time they're in middle school. The truth is, most guys have some level of interest in it in the 3rd grade.
Never ask your signifcant other to choose between you and a friend or relative. If they choose you in that situation they aren't a good friend or relative. There are exceptions to this, like when the friend is intentionally causing you problems.
Well, that's all I've got for now.
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