They should rename Ebola to Feelings....That way I know I wouldn't be catching it. LOL!
People are funny. So on a social site, I came across a female's profile picture that was attractive so I sent a message saying hello. She replied by stating I have to come stronger than that. WTF? I told her that she was not even in my state so she shouldn't assume I have an underlining agenda to get into her pants and I was just being friendly by saying hello. Ha! I mean I'm the type of man that if I wanted to be more than an acquaintance or friend with a woman, I'd tell her....and you better believe she would be local or will be local really soon. LOL! I've also been involved with enough women with pretty faces, but fucked up personalities to not attempt to bypass "friendship" and attempt to go straight to "lover"...Nope, not going to happen like that unless we agree that 'Friends With Benefits' is all that we want right now. So basically, those ladies should just Stay Calm and accept a friendly Hello and stop jumping to conclusions.
That's annoying, isn't it? The whole, " You must wanna fuck me, that's why you're messaging me." attitude.
Females on the internet (especially here on VR) need a reality check.
No matter how hot the chick, there is always some guy out there who's tired of hitting that shit.
Also, guys tend to lose their intelligence when a beautiful woman walks in. They even turn on each other. Those are the chicks that I usually laugh at. Why? Because, they probably never met a guy who would turn them down.
"Yes, please come over, beautiful woman and talk to me. I will be more than happy to tell you that YES, YOUR SHIT DOES STINK!"
It also sounds very egotistical of her.
I've always been, just, "cute like a smurf", LOL! I don't get many of those messages on VR- people have to get to know my personality before there are any crushes, because "smurf cute" doesn't attract that without the in-person charm :P But honestly, I exude a bit of asexuality, which helps to not draw in it. Being that I haven't been in the market for about a couple decades... this whole vibe I have going... I guess it's pretty helpful in that regard.
Many here - and on the net in general - need a big reality check, that's for sure.
Without assuming anything, a basic 'thank you' is really all that is required when one is given a compliment.
"So picture a woman wearing high heel pumps, skin-tight anything, or a mini skirt, low cut top or dress exposing cleavage, red lipstick, make-up, wild curly hair.....But what does that image say to you? Is she wrong?
The shoes, clothes, hair, and makeup send a message about female sexuality. About the availability of a woman’s body. About attraction and desire. Men typically have a customary response to this kind of image. So do women. Women may smirk knowingly or judge harshly or sigh wistfully or gaze in disbelief. The way we respond is based upon the taboos of the culture in which we are raised.
What's wrong with a woman's underlying intention to flaunt her female body in all its glory? Sadly, some women spend years completely out of touch with their sexuality. Years being embarrassed about being female, clueless and afraid to wear anything vaguely sexual." ~ Annette Wagner
So I was teasing with a friend that the reason she enjoys wearing high heels is because it makes her butt higher than if she wore flats and we all know how sexual it is to see a woman with a high riding butt. That's why many females take pictures on their tippi toes if they are not wearing heels. So tell me why she tried to tell me she never knew that's what heels do for the butt. smh!
Well I'm back on my Intimate Relationship Hiatus for the Cuffing Season. My annual hiatus since 2011 begins 1 Oct and ends 15 Feb each year. During this time is when people with agendas other than just wanting to get to know a person because they are into them ramp up their game to get what they can and then ghost shortly after Valentines Day and I don't participate in that type of game. So not only do I protect my finances, but also my time and heart. Thinking back to my last divorce in 2011, I've had one intimate partner beginning that year each year since then that has lasted from 4 Days up to 2 months. This has been the longest I've been single since my first divorce back in 1997. The reason being is I'm not under any pressure what so ever to locate her, woo her and then marry her. I'm taking things very slowly and getting to really know these women first. Not saying I'm not sexing them the first chance I get though and I'm up front about that too. Also, I'm not engaging in Long Distance Relationships and my tolerance for DRAMA is at an all time low. Nor do I feel any need to become who they wish I would. It's accept me for me or kick bricks with an open toe shoe.
Nor am I actively searching as I had been in the past due to my being spoiled by my current situation. I've been in a really good place in my life since 2011. I achieved my career goal that has set me up for the rest of my life and I'm comfortable and content living a Drama Free life....No stress...just Serenity, Happiness, and Magick daily. Lots of sex when I have a Play Partner and when I don't, well as the song goes....."I Love Myself", which also includes self-pleasuring whenever suites me without any negative feed back from someone who would attempt to use withholding sex as a means of getting their way and then hating the fact that an orgasm can be achieved solo. I also know where to go to get free hugs too. I do have local family, friends & acquaintances. ;)
So I get to lay back and watch my son grind to make himself independent as soon as he can as I enjoy my many hobbies or choose to do nothing at all.
I feel blessed and grateful every day and realize that the choices and sacrifices I've made has not only benefited me, but those I care for as well as those I've cared for to some degree. Although I still try to do what I can when I can for those in need, I feel guilt free not being able to help those I would like to because I know how I did help them when I had more to give never asking for help or one copper penny in return.
Now....This time is my time and I'm living it the way I choose to....By not answering to ANYONE and as though each day could be my last, but what if it isn't. ^_^
People, like my Ex-Wives, know I don't do DRAMA! I had a former girlfriend who said I be looking to find something wrong in potential girlfriends. But this isn't true. I don't look to find something wrong because no one is perfect. However, if there is something about their personality that just doesn't fit into my life of Serenity, Happiness, Love, Sex & Magick...Then I must distance myself from them. It's not rocket science. I respect when a female tells me that she doesn't feel we are compatible early on while getting to know each other because who wants to invest a lot of time in someone who is deceiving them by pretending to be someone they really aren't?
Well got that Flu Shot....I ain't scared. ^_^
I've always gone against any type of mental programming that says I shouldn't be happy. I've always enjoyed couples entertainment, but whenever I find myself going solo, I find the type of entertainment that can be enjoyed by one and enjoy the f*ck out of it until I find a new playmate. Life is to short not to enjoy it just because you don't have a playmate. ^_^
Many know of the things that I possess, but not the sacrifices I've made to own them. Some know what I practice, but don't understand the path I travel. There are those that know the serene leisure life I live, but not the hell I walked through to achieve it. When I had much more, I gave so much and even though my earnings have been reduced, I still have more than others. I still help when I can, but will never place myself in financial hardship for others. I will believe what I believe and do what I wish. I'm the author of my own story and so far, it's not such a bad read. ^_-
So the eBay business that shipped to me my black & color printer ink refills shipped out a replacement for the color ink cartridge that failed to work. It works just fine. So for only $6.20, I can replace both my black & color inks. That beats the $60.00 price tag by far!
So I have a Lexmark printer in which the black/color pack ink for it cost $51.00 at Walmart and $61.00 at Office Depot. There was even an article about how ink cost more than human blood these days. It's totally ridiculous So I go on ebay and what do I find...The same type of ink for between $5 - $15 including color. So I ordered a combo pack just out of disbelief for $6. The black ink works fine, but the color ink has an issue due to the printer not recognizing the cartridge. Well for $6, Black ink only will just have to do. ^_^
The biggest choice I'm facing right now is...
Hulu Plus $7.99 per month
Netflix $7.99 per month
I have Hulu Plus on hold until the end of Dec while I try out Netflix.
Decisions, Decisions..... *sighs*
Sadly, Netlix keeps bumping up the price for extra streamers on your account. If you want to do 2 streaming at once, it's $8.99.
The good thing about Hulu is that it don't ask you all the time if you want to continue watching whatever it is. Netlix does it every hour.
If it was me, I would stick with Hulu.
But, if you like 90s TV shows and a lot of current shows and movies, then I would say Netflix.
LOL that is funny, I just found myself with the same dilemma last month, and well I asked myself two questions...
How often do i watch movies??
Can I wait an extra long time for Netflix to get my episodes and movies on line???
Eventually, I came to the conclusion that Netflix is waaay more worth it, because not only do they have more of a selection but once the episode is really old, or hasn't aired for a while...it's still gonna be there in a year or so..so long as the producers of the show don't decide to pull it from broadcasting altogether...hope this helps! (:
"I'm an admire of Beauty. Be it art, music, a female, a poem, a landscape, an animal...Beauty can come from any source....even from Pain. Beauty can be found anywhere....even in Darkness." ~ Lord MOGY