**Note: If you add me as a friend, please tell me so I can do the same.
Thanks!
Also, I have been a member of this site for over two years please do not welcome me. My site was taken over by someone who found out the password to my email address and then clicked for a new password to be sent to that email address. So my account has been stolen. If any of you knew Damagedrose that was me.
† How I rate †
A short word on how I rate profiles since I get some angry visitors. I rate a profile based on the information or even the graphics that it represents. These profiles are here to be a publication of who and what you are. So naturally, the ones who make an effort to make their profiles into something that is enjoyable to read and interesting get a 10. I rate very fairly otherwise and I do not down rate any member for the "fun" of it.
♥ My Marital Status ♥
I am happily married to the greatest man in the world.
Scarred is his name on here. He means everything to me. He has made me believe in love to the fullest and he has brightened up my life considerably. I know that I am being a little sappy, and that is something that I also blame on him. He has made me that way. I would not give him up for anything in the entire world. He is my Baby-O's.
† My Good Friends †
They deserve nothing less than tens just for being the people that they are. They have all always been there when I needed them and they have been the best friends that anyone could ever ask for.
Mat, my baby
Samantha
Tara
Penny
† About Conversing with me †
1. If you are going to bite me, be forwarned, unless I am in a very good mood your message will go unanswered. I find bites an ineffective way of trying to gain someones attention without actually putting forth any kind of effort..you know as in something like "Hello".
2. I will not put up with insignificant chatter. Allow me to explain on this one. I
love intelligent conversation. I love talking about all kinds of things. If all you are going to do is ask me "whats up" Whats going on" Whats happening" over and over again there really isnt any point in me trying to have a conversatiion with you. So, you will be quite effectively ignored.
3. Do NOT try hitting on me. I am MARRIED. I mean, people still are messaging me asking if I have a boyfriend or trying to flirt with me. I mean come on. I wrote it in neon green right on the top of my profile. I even headed it with marital status. How much more obvious can I get? So if you do any of these things, you could possibly be ignored, or at the very least cooly corrected.
4. Please please please, if you are going to message me at the very least read my profile. I know that it is long but if you must, skim it. I cant stand when I get messaged and asked questions that are written right in my profile for all to see. I didnt spend all the time making it to not have it read.
† A Bit About Myself †
My name is Melissa, but most refer to me as Mel, I guess it makes it a wee bit shorter and it gets my attention, so hey why not?
I don't care for stereotypes, but being the logical person that I am at times, I know that we all use them in some distinct way. I don't consider myself a "goth" I may dress the way most consider to be "Gothic", mainly black, black boots, chains and fishnet, but that is not what it means to be goth. I don't follow any set lifestyle to allow myself or others to call me by that title.
My moods vary as any other living, breathing creature. I am very easy going most of the time. I am very easy to talk to and i am a very good listener. I am blunt, if asked a direct question, I will repond in kind, i won't tell lies to spare feelings. I believe in complete honesty, even if it is sometimes brutal and may come off as being bitchy...at least I can never be accused of being a liar.
I'm not in any way shape or form perfect. No one is. I will never claim to be. I have my moments where my temper snaps, though it isn't often. I sometimes say things that I don't mean to say and/or let my anger get the best of me.
I have a small tendency to be sarcastic when the moment for it arises, though I'm not overly. I have a few pet peeves, a couple of things that really irratate me... 1.) I dislike when people judge others before they know them. 2.) Stupidity, not meaning a lack of intellect, hell, we all lack the smarts in some areas, but people with no common sense bug the hell outta me.
Lastly, people whose vocabulary only consists of "dude", "fag", "gay", and "idiot".
There is one other thing that gets under my skin, something that deserves its own little publication if you will. I despise those who mutilate the english language. For one thing, it just makes them look stupid. For another thing, it takes MORE time to write all fucked up then it does to form actual words and phrases. I don't understand those who choose to "wRiTe lIkE tHiS" Which for the record just took me forever to get it right, why take the time? Or people who think "Writin lik thi" makes them look smart. One of the most horrible phrases to me and sadly the most common ones, are those like this... "B bak l8ter" What the hell is that? Numbers do NOT belong in, or create a word!
I'm also pagan, but not devil worshipping; I’m into more of the Celtic and Wiccan side of the religion. I am in no way a preacher or basher of any religion. I believe everyone has their own choice about following a religious path or not following one at all. I studied multiple religions before settling on my own. One for personal reasons, for I wanted to choose one that followed the closest to my own beliefs and secondly so I couldn't claim ignorance as so many other people do when this topic pops up in conversation.
My Loves
♥My Husband Mat♥
My friends
Individuality
Sense of humor
Courage
Honor
Trustworthyness
Tattoos
Work of Jhonen Vasquez
Piercings
Swords
Daggers
Biting
Black eye liner
People who don't care what others think of them
Storms
Rain
Fire
Candles
Incense
Seclusion
Nature
Animals
Night
The stars and moon
My Dislikes
LIES!!
Arrogance
Pity
sterotypes
Cheaters
Snobs
Drama
People with shallow minds
People pretending to be something their not
Those who mutilate the english language
Child abusers-stupid fucking bastards
Animal killers-again stupid fucking bastards
People who complain about their lives constantly
Religion Bashers
Stupidity-No common sense
My Favorite Music
Static-x
Evanescence
Slipknot
Cannibal Corpse
Deicide
Hanzel and Gretyl
Rammstein
Cradle of Filth
Mudvayne
Nothingface
Shadows Fall
Disturbed
Inkubus Sukkubus
Megadeth
Kittie
Black Sabbath
Iron Maiden
Pantera
Twisted Sister
Stone Sour
Sublime
Tenacious D
Mushroom Head
Spineshank
Ministry
Slayer
Adema
Scars of Life
Nine Inch Nails
KoRn
Ill Nino
Metallica
Led Zepplin
Andrew W.K
Hatebreed
Rob Zombie
Godsmack
Stained
Tool
