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can somone please explane to me why even after you have had your heart ripped out byher you still want to be with her ? ~X~

biochemical response.....
thoughts of her are still releasing dopamines into your system...

Hehe .. you don't quit smoking just by dropping your cigarette ...

weird... Same thing is going on with me... and i'm back with my ex...

Because....well, I dunno. That's a hard question... I know how you feel though. Best of wishes to you. .~*~.

'cos you're nuts

"Biochemically no different than eating large quantities of CHOCOLATE...."

You're probably holding onto memories of the past while hoping it can perhaps be the same way again one day.

love for someone is the one thing that never actully goes away. no matter what you will always have her in your heart. time will heal your heart though and being with good friends will always help you move on.

LOL@ my beautiful wife... we are all nuts.. basically.. and i will try and keep this simple... You are concerned about getting your heart ripped out right? You weigh up the + & - , ok.. 99% of the time.. to be loved is far greater thasn not to be.. so no matter how much it hurts how much it leaves you scarred.. you come back for more, time after time.. without love you might as well be dead....

Leanr.. Learn by your mistakes to make sure you don't get it ripped out.. and your the one doing the ripping.... when you know you have found the one.. you will know.. what ever happens before that.. is a learning process.. we are mortals/immortals..... we both feel pain great or small... learn.. and learn again...

I don't think anyone could say it any better than that Dhampir.

i have no idea

Quite honestly, no one could have said it better than Dhampir. To love IS far greater than not to be, even if you get hurt at some point or another, regardless of what it is. Human nature.... is to want and need to be loved and accepted by that one special person. Don't know if that made any sence, but it does in my head. lol

the feeling you try to fix and go back to what you had is "LOVE" but you never know is she the one for you, you will go back many times,but one day you will understand she is not for you and then you will meen the ONE,you will love her as much as she will love you.

And if you would like to know what i felt and what i did in the saime situation read my Journal " Numb and Numb 2 ".
Good night

Cause feelings are difficult to pass and memories easy to rember but difficult to forget.

I can't exactly know how you feel,cause when that happens I hate that person and don't want to see her again.

Anyway I guess you still want to be with her because you were happy and want to remain happy.Also you love her and need to be loved.

In my opinion if a person hurts you, the best thing is to forget her and move on.

I have never had my heart ripped out...never been dumped..so really I have no idea ...however if I had have done...I would go cold...and never think of them again.....they would have no meaning in my life....I would be like ...

'Who ripped out what now??'

It is nuts to want someone who doesn't want you...don't waste your time....

love is a difficult subject to discuss sometimes,... all I can say is that sometimes love hurts, maybe its because you can't get over her. I would strongly suggest some time to yourself, it helps.

Love is hard to discribe if you once loved her turly with all your heart body and soul you must want her back it hurts because some part of you still wants her back with it yerns for her like a craving. You must go find another person just as equal even though you might still love her you will find some one again..... So that it might stop...

Because there's something about that person you cannot resist...even though he/she is fucked up inside.

She might not love you but you love her and thats the problem just find a person that makes you feel the same why...

I have never understood why people go back to emotional/mental/physical abuse... other than they have issues with self worth

Damned if I had a clue......

For some reason, despite all the bullshit we go thru when the person we love breaks our hearts, we still love them.

It's not logical, but since when is the emotional heart logical?

CAUSE WE ARE SUCKKKKKKKKKERS

Because when you're in love, it's the greatest feeling in the world, and most people would kill for that feeling. Personally, I'm through with the whole thing.