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How would you choose where your loyalty lies when it comes to chosing between friends and loved ones?

I pray that I would never have to make a decision like that. And to tell the truth I don't really have either so I don't think I ever will. But if I ever did I think instead of taking one side or the other, I would just focus on being a peacekeeper and trying to resolve the conflict. Worst thing that could happen is I remain alone having lost the trust of both parties. I don't really see how that would differ from my current situation.

My friends come first.. I don't love often anyways.. Doesn't matter. Most of the time my "loved ones" don't like my friends.. which is too bad for them.

I feel this is one that cannot be brought to so vague a point...
it would entirely depend on the circumstances at hand....
I am not a puppy dog who's loyalty is unwaveringonce given....my loyalties depend on the other persons actions in a given event.....you must be worthy of my loyalty to hold on to it......and I expect the same back...no more...but no less...

Aren't friends "loved ones"......?

But when it comes to trust.....

I trust no one but myself and those that fight along side me.

It's just who I am.

My friends Are my Loved ones. Sorry no difference. As for trust: 'I will trust someone 70 times, if they break that trust - I shall trust them 71 times.'

It's late at night and my Budda nature is showing.

In the past I tought friends come first, but when they betrayed me,I began chosing loved ones,and was then when I started to realise what love is.Then when even that was a mistake I changed my mind.So my answer will be:

No one, I choose myself, cause no one is worth it!!!

mine is with family first. then myself.for be true to thy self all other things will fall into place

trusting myself worked out

Friends and loved ones fall into the same catagory for me. The people I truly call my friends I have more of a family tie to then most of my blood family.
The few people that I am that close to have nearly complete loyalty from me, untill they choose to betray it.

my loyalty lays with both as they are my loved ones.

Well, it does depend on the circumstances. If i family member dislikes a friend...it is always the friend i stay loyal to. And it is usually friends at any given time, but if it is say, a friend who haas betrayed me frequently...i may think twice or more.

trust no one

that's what i said karla
You copyrighting doll!

Be loyal to those who are loyal to you for those who are loyal are the ones who should have your loyality

I consider my friends my loved ones so it doesnt matter to a point.......
However blood is thicker than water and as said before it depends on the circumstances. eh the more I think about it the only true loyalty I have is to my children and myself everyone else has to earn it....

Put it this way... loyalty is with me and the people i trust, if they abuse this trust.. then they will suffer greatly..