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as a wiccan and also interested in BDSM. I tend to like ritual and role play. So I got to wandering . this question is for thoughs that play safe and are or were at the time in a imtimate relationship. Did you par take of each other daily? or by the phases of the moon or special evening consisting with a delicious role playing and romance marking it special. Did some do a ritual concerning your pledge to each other. Im not trying to be nosey Wolf and I have done all that as we are Romantics. Im courious as a pristess and clergy of the universal church. always thinking of weddings and handfastings.
thanks ,Silver of Wolfspirits.

oh as an after thought. for people that dont want to write their answer in public, please feel free to email me. your name and info will be kept private, ALWAYS! Thanks
Silver

Sorry, I haven't drank any of my lover's blood... and none of them have been vamps, so there's been no interest on their behalf...

on my own right now, better off that way for a while...

sure thing! thanks for being honest in answering.
Silver

I have never drank my lover's blood, nor dated a vampire that I know of. It would be something new to try. I hear it has great satisfaction?!

Me not,even though there was a guy who wanted to drink from me.

But I know people who do it but not as a ritual,it is more of a foreplay.

i do it as part of a an intimate encounter but not based on any cycles or whatsoever.

None of my bfs have been wiccan, so I have not done it yet, however it would be a good idea to do it while celebrating the great ritual. Especially on Beltaine.

i haven't dun it yet but i would

I did it, once...but not as a ritual...

thaks for all your answers. and I would like to say is par taking of such things is not nescessarily wiccan or lanything else, I dont want to put any labels here..
thanks,Silver

I would

I have been dranken of a couple of times. I have also drank of 2 others. I personally prefer cattle blood

I have all ways wanted to drink someone's blood. I very much enjoy the taste of my own.

But with all those blood bourne pathogens out there I just can't bring myself to do it.

Yes Eviladam, you are so very right. one does need to protect themselves these days. Thats why I said to Play "safe or should I say safer" just like safe sex, there really isnt such a thing, its really safer sex. anyway my point is such acts of intimacy should be with one that you know is disease free and had been tested. ...someone whom you cose to commit to in a serious relationship... and that you be "blood monagamous with(darn wheres that spell check!) Play safe ! be Safe and healthy!

Great advice WolfSpirits.
I've done it, but more as a romantic aliance, not thinking about it as a ritual, but in the end, I guess it was. But no, It didn't had anything to do with the cycle of the moon *laughs* I guess we didn't even think about it. We were more involved with eachother, and enjoying the blood play.

My wife and Ii are the High Priest and High Priestess of a cove, and I ireside over a vampirc house, that has some of my coven mates as well.
She is a psy through and through, and I am a sanguine. We have taken blood from each other in the past, and it is usually during family meetings. Although, special accmodations are made at Sam Hain.

i think it's great

I plan to drink Salem's blood when I meet her...

Silver, the majoritty of my lovers are of the one night stand, or girl from a bar whose name I don't remember variety.
And my last steady relationship was with a girl that was not into that sort of thing at all.

If I ever have the chance with a girl that I've been with for a while and we both know we are clean I will absolutelly drink her blood.

to all those that took time to read and answer, thank you.
EvilAdam, one day you will find the one! (her)
Silver

freakshow and and the rest of you. Wolf and I are both, psy.vamps when we go to clubs and other places where there are many. We extract just a bit at a time through out the night and will do the whole room. this we will do this once or so a month, depends. never to harm !on the other hand We are also sanquine and only with each other. our first time in fully do this we did marked it as a special day an oath and a bond. At times we like to role play as we are gamers and have done LARP as well ,so we might play that way, and lead it into BDSM and soforth. And we have marked it on a holy day like Samhain, like you did. Also on the full moon as well.
Silver

i do drink from my lovers but they must want me to. i will not force it on anyone who is not into that sort of thing.

I consider the sharing of blood and biting to be very intimate-even more so than the actual sex act- to me, that is a form of communion with someone I love very deeply, and not to be bandied about like a game

Here's my 5 cents...

I 100% agree with the idea that blood is sacred, and means more than sex (if you're a blood drinker). Your blood is the deepest, most private part of you and should be shared carefully. Drinking by ritual makes sense too.

Just as you would only have sex with someone you truly feel and care for; the same goes for blood drinking.

But from my point of view it depends on the person. Like, if you're a person who's intimate life consists of one night stands, etc. then Im assuming swapping of blood would follow the same path. On the other hand, if you are a committed lover then you'd take into careful consideration, as with choosing a partner, if to drink their blood or not.

Everyone to their own opinion and dealing with it.

I have never drank a lovers blood...

I am not as vampire but I do have I guess you would call it a fetish to some degree that I like to take the blood of my partner. It is more during an intimate time not just a spur of the moment thing and the desire has only rose witht hat ine person.

No blood, just prana. We tapped into each other's psyche and shared what we both had, in a ritualistic way.

i love the blood of my lover, but he doesnt knwo it yet. he thinks we are just good friends, but soon hell figure out why i like him

I've never done it but would love to try.

done it and well she loved it and well i got more power form this act now she cant live with out being bit form me like it is her little addiction and y i love this add turn on for her i induge her need for this but iam wondering if i shoid stop or not any advice

I have drank my lovers blood before.. not in ritual.. not in celebration but out of need... I consume blood.. im not ashamed of it.. i prefer human blood and i have a very trustworthy donor who is tested regularly.. also helps she is a phlebotomist...when i cannot drink of her.. she finds safe blood for me.. and she is not my lover... just my donor and a good friend who understands a need.

I have never had Communion with a lover, but oh the bloodlust that comes with love! I shared the truth about myself with one girlfriend, but was never able to taste her.

depends on my mood

we all have our needs and well i crave it but not as much as she dose and well she gets off from it and well like bondge or something if u have it enuf u think it is normal and like it and well lol

Very Interesting Answers! Thanks.
RedQueen, the role playing I mention for us is not a game. It's part of Ritual that leads into other sacred things that we would indulge in at the time. The whole act is sacred, from start to finish.

i do drink my lover,, but they are the only one.as of now.most of hte time.. the urge useally only hits us around a full moon,,im not sure why..

i think biting and drinking of ur partners bllod is intimate. i havent got that far wit my baby cause we keep gettin interupted......... :(

oh I understand your point wolfspirit-I didn't mean you in particular- just some kids look at is as some kind of kinky play acting, and I for one don't belive it should be that way for anyone

oh I understand your point wolfspirit-I didn't mean you in particular- just some kids look at is as some kind of kinky play acting, and I for one don't belive it should be that way for anyone

personally i have no drank my lovers blode yeat but i have wanted to, for the sheer fact that i love blood and the fact that i love her makes me want it more, but on the other hand im not so sure how she would react to that. this is about as honest as i can answer this

i havent drank the blood of another...for now i am going psy and cattle blood...but when i do find that one girl i am destined to be with then i will feed off her as she will me...but it wont be entirely for ritual...it will be a way of saying im bonded to you as you are to me...it is to bring our souls together as one...but yes some of it will be for ritual...