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I think there should be 3 public bathrooms Male female and one you pay to use for yourself if the others become a problem. I don't have a problem with women that stand up to pee. Not like I'm the one that has to clean up all that splashes out am I. ;)

Men do not dress up as women to assault us, they just do it. If the problem is so great it calls for a third room to be made available, I think we should cut to the heart of the issue and enforce curfew for men and men shouldn't be out in public without chaperones.

Sorry, I know it's all in jest so I want to come back around and explain my frustration and resistance to laughing about "women that stand up to pee". Every time I bring up the real damage men do and the creepy shit they feel so free to do, someone inevitably turns the conversation toward women to who "stand up to pee". That feels like a dismissal of my message while continuing the propaganda that harms my friends and the folks who make environments safe and welcoming for women like me.

I doubt it's meant with malice, but I still find it unacceptable.

Opinions vary with the experiences that shape us differently in life but I think we still have some common ground. I do recall you coming onto my journal many years ago writing your "Fuck Trump" comment without any follow-ups of an actual dialog. Like I'm not worthy of your attention so the one comment was dismissive. I would think just like you mention the machismo of a man hitting on you while their wife is spouting their position about the group they draw strength from being a part of aka MAGA and party politics is not so different than what I put up with on this site as a real vampire...well as real as they can be dealing with members that draw strength from the admin circles they are accepted in on this site. People get stupid in group dynamics but it does give them courage to do what they can't as individuals.

I'm truly failing to grasp what your complaint is. Are you putting your struggles as a vampire on a website at the same degree of severity as children who are sex trafficked, bombs being dropped in other countries, citizens being shot, the criminalization of LGBTQ+ people, and the racial profiling of citizens being used to put them in concentration camps?

If you need to compare the Admins here with MAGA, I think you need to touch grass.

And, fuck trump.