You're not yourself when you're triggered.
You become who you think you need to be to survive.
If we remain in environments that trigger our fight or flight mode,
Our identity starts to slip away because our values and personalities
Are constantly bein hijacked by thoughts of fear, panic, and survival.
Some of us have been through things so traumatic,
That the human mind isn't built to handle,
But we fight and persevere every single day and night.
If that's not strength I don't know what is.
You are a survivor.
Many Blessings
Life humbles you. As you grow older,
You stop chasing the big things.
You start to value the little things.
Alone time. enough sleep, long walks and,
Quality time with loved ones.
Simplicity becomes the greatest goal.
Reactive abuse happens when someone pushes you until you act out of character.
Then, they shame you for your reaction.
If you hold a match to a candle, sooner or later, it will start to burn.
We usually don't overcome habits in one fell swoop.
We make tiny adjustments. We nudge one percent.
We shift our focus for one second.
Every little nudge makes a "Nick" in the brain. It's a beginning of a new pathway.
I have no energy, to hate anyone.
I honestly have no space in my heart to carry
The mess around.
I either love you, wish you well, or I hope you heal.
I hope you learn how to let go of everyone's opinion of your life.
I hope you start to see, from a place that lives deep within you.
There is no universally correct way to live a life that is solely your own.
Every human being has different goals, has different concepts of what happiness looks like.
Has a different concept of what it means to truly be alive.
And because of that, people will judge you.
The world will try and change you, but you must continue to move in your own direction.
You must continue to go at your own pace, because if you allow that to altar your path ,
Your are going to live someone else's life. I hope you learn how to make your life your own.
I hope you learn how to make your time here something to be proud of.
Many Blessings
COMMENTS
Great words
Hoorah!
It is certainly difficult.
COMMENTS
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Lamadia79
05:45 Jan 30 2025
This is very true.
Im fighting a battle with myself so I can survive and find myself and happiness again