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22:14 Aug 31 2011
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People keep telling me everything will work out, everything will be fine.



I can't make it work out in my mind. I can't plan ahead. I don't see how anything will work out, or how anything will be fine.

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PAGAN
PAGAN
22:25 Aug 31 2011

*hugs*






BlackMetal888
BlackMetal888
22:42 Aug 31 2011

Fuck it,., some times its not gonna be allright. It's how you handle it (whatever it is) That counts!! :/





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
23:55 Aug 31 2011

I like what BlackMetal said. The way you grown, learn, handle what is coming... is life. *hugs*





Requiem
Requiem
00:29 Sep 01 2011

That is the truth. We WANT it to be alright, to be peachy, to be perfect. Life's messy. ::hug.love::





 

20:37 Aug 31 2011
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Well, that was an annoyingly vivid dream.





I find it odd that often in my dreams the sky is pitch black the whole time. Interesting.

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19:46 Aug 29 2011
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I seriously, SERIOUSLY need to stop dreaming about sex.



Especially on the days when I wake up alone. How frustrating.



-.-

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Isis101
Isis101
02:47 Aug 30 2011

Well - sometimes those dreams come in handy if you're a writer!





 

09:07 Aug 29 2011
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I had every intention of getting some things done after work today. I am beat though. I think I'll take advantage of the fact that my work week is only two days long, and work on it Tuesday. I only work 10 or 11 hours a day (usually), but I come home exhausted. I think it's a combination of being (as someone I worked with called it tonight) 'in the family way', and my job just being mentally draining. I come home pooped. All I want to do is eat something, check my messages, and pass out. I don't know what I'm going to do when baby is born, I can't work like this and care for an infant.







I picked up a sympathy card tonight for my close friends back home. His brother passed away last week. Very sad times. I'm sad I can't be there for the funeral, or to even give them hugs. I hope I get to see them the next time I visit. I miss my people so much. It just wont be the same not hanging out at his brothers place when I go back for visits. He was so young too, still in his twenties. He will be greatly missed.

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LadyDarkRayne
LadyDarkRayne
09:15 Aug 29 2011

Aww hugs PD... I know what you mean about missing your people back home. I miss mine too.

I am sorry for your loss.





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
09:20 Aug 29 2011

Nah, I'm the one who is sorry for their loss. I feel bad because I can't be there for support. Maybe I can make a donation to the memorial fund they set up for his son when I get paid again.





Isis101
Isis101
14:56 Aug 29 2011

Wow...I hope that you get some more rest ASAP; you and the baby need it.

And I'm sure that your friends will understand why you can't attend the funeral. Still - I understand the need to be there.





 

03:23 Aug 28 2011
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It's a sad fact that I crochet way faster than I read. =l

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Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
22:08 Aug 29 2011

Wow- did not know that. :)





Requiem
Requiem
01:11 Aug 30 2011

No, honey, it is an AMAZING statement on your crochet skills! I crochet like I run. Sllllooooowwwwwlllyyy but with determination.





 

03:52 Aug 27 2011
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The stitches came out of the top of my head today. Had I known I would not be seeing MY doctor and her nurse, I would have snipped them out myself and stayed home for the afternoon.



The doctor I did see seemed rather silly, and didn't tell me anything I didn't know. 'Call in the event there's a sign of infection.' No lady, I thought I'd let my head get all raw, and red, and swell up until puss flows from it.



The only crappy parts about having the cyst removed were the sounds of it being ripped out. Like a more quiet version of carpet being pulled up, and the pain once the local wore off. My genius ass went to the store after the procedure, so the local wore off while I was in target. I'll be damned if I didn't actually feel like I had my head cut open, and a something ripped out. The pain onset was so quick it made me dizzy. Luckily I didn't need any Tylenol for it. I came home and slept the pain off. The next day it was much less sore, and within a couple of days it was fine. My head is still a little tender if I push on it where the cyst used to be, but that will go away eventually.



I just hope the damn thing doesn't come back.

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Mystic
Mystic
04:13 Aug 27 2011

I hope it doesn't come back either =}





Isis101
Isis101
14:58 Aug 29 2011

Oh - just reading this gave me the willies...

I hope the damn thing doesn't come back either!





 

Yes... this is really the kind of shit that goes through my head.

12:25 Aug 26 2011
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You know... if aliens had better anesthesiologists people would neither remember, nor be traumatized by anal probes. O.o

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Requiem
Requiem
00:54 Aug 27 2011

You know ... You're right.



Maybe they ought to go to ... what the hell is that medical school? Damn. Somewhere.





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
03:10 Aug 27 2011

Hah! We're better at it than other foreign species that have mastered space travel. We have anal probes here on Earth too, they're called colonoscopies! Hahahahahahaaa :p





NocturnalMistress
NocturnalMistress
05:24 Aug 28 2011

Now that message made perfect sense.



;)



Ironically, my avatar and kismet was put up way before I even read this entry.





The aliens are communicating through me, to you.





O.O





 

10:15 Aug 24 2011
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I will NOT cut my stitches out again..

I will NOT cut my stitches out again...



I will NOT cut my stitches out again...



Only 3 more days. I can do this.

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atyourwindow
atyourwindow
13:09 Aug 24 2011

"You Can Do It!"





 

02:56 Aug 24 2011
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I was told that I need to get new shoes to wear to work today, because mine aren't 'professional' enough.



I don't know if I should go shopping for hooker shoes, or a big ugly butch pair. The butch shoes would probably piss them off more. =l

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MooniePie
MooniePie
03:00 Aug 24 2011

Butch shoes. Fuck them. :D





Deity
Deity
03:08 Aug 24 2011

What about your shoes is unprofessional? WTF?





LadyKrystalynDarkstar
LadyKrystalynDarkstar
05:09 Aug 24 2011

Get thigh high boots with spike heels!!!





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
19:50 Aug 26 2011

Yeah- what he hell do you wear that they are unprofessional? Dicks...





 

08:29 Aug 20 2011
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*sigh* I wish

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Nicnic
Nicnic
08:42 Aug 20 2011

I'll take 4...





Requiem
Requiem
11:36 Aug 20 2011

You do the same thing I do. I also am a WHORE for floor plans.





Confusion
Confusion
12:37 Aug 20 2011

damn.. Thats my dream house right there.. it would suck to clean though lol





 

09:12 Aug 18 2011
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I'm really nervous. I have to go to the doc in a few hours and have my head cut open. I'm not looking forward to it, but if it's something crappy I want to know as soon as possible.



I anticipate there will be needles, and stitches. Neither of these bother me. But if doc thinks she's going to shave a bald patch in my head, we're going to throw down. =/



I hope I don't cry tomorrow. Crying is what makes me dehydrated and dizzy.

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NocturnalMistress
NocturnalMistress
14:25 Aug 18 2011

Good luck PD. ♥



I'll keep you in my thoughts.





MooniePie
MooniePie
19:05 Aug 18 2011

♥ ♥



Just pretend the bald spot is from a hawt night of wild and kinky 'OH EM GEE you pulled my hair out and now I have a bald spot' sex. :D





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
22:22 Aug 18 2011

Wow- let us know how it went. *cross fingers*





 

08:59 Aug 18 2011
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Hahaha looking at my last entry I guess I'm a nasty bizzle that spews about tmi.

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NocturnalMistress
NocturnalMistress
14:24 Aug 18 2011

Not nearly as nasty as my comment.



She gagged, remember?



;P





 

ugh.. the volcanic ass gods are angry

02:58 Aug 18 2011
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They obviously didn't like the offering the cafeteria people gave yesterday.



=l

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Requiem
Requiem
03:45 Aug 18 2011

o.O





Oh. Oh, ICK. :(





NocturnalMistress
NocturnalMistress
08:53 Aug 18 2011

So, was there corn?



;P





 

09:19 Aug 17 2011
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I had a small panic attack yesterday. I know it's probably silly, but I'm not exactly emotionally stable these days. The frequent crying is enough of a sign for that.



I was sitting here thinking about how fast time is going by, and before I know it it'll be winter, and I'll be in the hospital. And then it hit me...



It's going to come out of my hooha. o.o

It's going to come out of my hooha. O.O

OMG... IT'S GOING TO COME OUT OF MY HOOHA!




I never thought at any point in time, I would actually want my vagina to be large. It sure would come in handy for this. =/



My books say the body makes chemicals that make your muscles stretch down there... the same chemicals that allow your belly muscles to stretch. I'm still a little panicky though. Some new experiences are scary.

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atyourwindow
atyourwindow
11:52 Aug 17 2011

C-Section?





BlackMetal888
BlackMetal888
16:38 Aug 17 2011

Listen, i know im not a female, so i really dont know what it would feel like to be in your shoes, and im not gonna pretend like i would. But if it helps any just remember women have been giving birth since time in memorial, and have managed to survive just fine! And i have witnessed birth on more than one occasion, and i can tell you that the pain dissapears the second a mother see's her child, and is replaced by joy! Good luck!!





Requiem
Requiem
00:54 Aug 18 2011

Yeah. It's coming out of your hooha. Unless you get a C-section. But, yeah.



o.o





 

hmmm

09:43 Aug 16 2011
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I should probably call my doctor and arrange to have that thing cut out of my head.

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DarkShifter
DarkShifter
09:45 Aug 16 2011

That does not sound good - I told you to wear the foil hat lol





Requiem
Requiem
12:40 Aug 16 2011

Umm. Honey. It's a brain. You kind of need it.





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
19:09 Aug 16 2011

Unless I'm sprouting a much smaller brain on the outside of my skull.... o.0 Wait! Maybe that bastard brain is attempting to escape.





 

10:41 Aug 15 2011
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Bed time for me!



I only got 4 1/2 hours yesterday before my craptastic morning shift. I was ok until I came home from work. I managed to choke down a yogurt, and then I tried to read my book. I ended up dozing off for a few minutes while I was reading. When I woke up I started shaking. I'm not sure if you'd call it shaking or mild convulsing. It sucked either way. I put the book down and took a nap. I felt much better when I woke up. Sleep deprivation, and long hours are a little harder on me these days than they used to be.

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KamarillaKaine
KamarillaKaine
03:22 Aug 16 2011

i lup joo :)





 

07:32 Aug 15 2011
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Blah

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InsanityHasPigtails
InsanityHasPigtails
07:52 Aug 15 2011

Bleh bleh bleh





Lullaby
Lullaby
10:45 Aug 15 2011

*licks* o_o



PD, chin up. The positives will soon outweigh the negatives. :)





 

09:38 Aug 13 2011
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I'm unhappy... and also surprisingly enough, not in the mood to talk about it.



I think I'll just cry myself to sleep.





Stupid hormones. I'll never get used to this crying business.

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LadyDarkRayne
LadyDarkRayne
10:22 Aug 13 2011

Hugs you tight - never like to see you unhappy.





atyourwindow
atyourwindow
11:01 Aug 13 2011

:(





Requiem
Requiem
14:08 Aug 13 2011

::pat pat soothe::





sahahria
sahahria
19:57 Aug 13 2011

While it won't "cure" what's happening it can help the body balance and "deal" with it better... consider finding someone near you



http://www.communityacupuncturenetwork.org/



and if you ever have questions, don't hesitate to ask me.





KamarillaKaine
KamarillaKaine
07:32 Aug 15 2011

you know i love you :)

and you know how to reach me :)





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
10:11 Aug 16 2011

I don't know about a bunch of needles. I don't have a fear of needles, but it was all I could do to keep from punching old biddies the last time I had a blood draw done. The more I get stuck the crankier I get. =/





sahahria
sahahria
14:12 Aug 17 2011

These don't feel that way- at worst they feel like mosquito bites, typically you don't feel them at all. I'd say come see me- but that would be a bit difficult. ;)





 

20:10 Aug 12 2011
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Rather than looking forward to going to work. I now dread it. =/





It's not supposed to be like this.

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00:46 Aug 12 2011
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My day started out crappy. When I woke up, the room was spinning. I've never had it do that sober before. After that mess calmed down I started to get ready for my doctor appointment.



So I was sitting on the toilet brushing my teeth (shut up I was multitasking... ok so what really happened is I had to pee about halfway through brushing my teeth.) when my body decides it needed to hurl. I didn't have time to flush and assume the position at the porcelain bowl, so I leaned over the edge of the tub and dry heaved into that (butt still on the pot). I don't recommend that. After two heaves I realized that twisted position hurt like a mother fucker. So I straightened back up and grabbed the trashcan instead. As much as it sucks to throw up, it's soooo much worse when your stomach is empty so you just keep dry heaving over and over.



I grabbed a muffin at the panera around the corner on the way to the doctor. I didn't get very far into it because I swear it tasted like salmon. It was supposed to be an apple muffin. -.- wtf?



With as fat and bloated as I've been feeling lately I'm surprised to find out that not only have I not gained any weight, I've actually lost a couple of pounds in the last month. The doc says that the dizziness is likely from dehydration and I should keep water in bed with me to help combat that in the morning. She says that the panting I've developed in the last week when I carry crap up the stairs is normal. Apparently my body is working over time, and gremlin is hogging all of the blood.



If anyone needed proof that this little bastard is WC's brat, it took the doc about 20 minutes to find the heartbeat with her little sound machine. Just when she was about to give up and send me to the ultrasound room gremlin decides to cooperate. Stubborn just like dad.



In 4 weeks I go back for another doctor visit. Two weeks after that we do the gender ultrasound. YAY! I can't wait to find out what it is. I wont be sharing that in my journal. I'm not sure if I'll share it with anyone on VR. WC doesn't want to know, and people aren't very good at keeping secrets around here. Lol We'll see.





Doc says the throwing up should get better sometime in the next couple of weeks. If it's not better by my next visit, I'm giving them the evil eye.

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MooniePie
MooniePie
00:51 Aug 12 2011

Awww ♥



You've had a hard day.

Kick him in his ass and make him do everything tonight!

YAY! hehe





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
00:55 Aug 12 2011

Hard day but safe... just keep safe, both of you. :)






Mystic
Mystic
02:26 Aug 12 2011

Damn girl that is aweful. ya i had a hard time with dehydrating with Alex as well and lost weight instead of gaining because I was constant puking. Big hugs, hopefully you will get to feeling better soon.





Deity
Deity
03:00 Aug 12 2011

I'll get better soon. It really will. :)





Isis101
Isis101
06:05 Aug 12 2011

Jeesh - I hope that you feel better ASAP!



I go see a doctor tomorrow, for my wierd stomach ailment that has caused me to lose 30 lbs in 1.5 years...Sure, I need to lose weight, but not this way!

As to the hurling: I usually keep doubled plastic shopping bags under my sink cabinet when I get the urge to hurl while sitting on the throne...they come in handy, I swear!





Confusion
Confusion
13:06 Aug 15 2011

congrats hun!





 

15:43 Aug 11 2011
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I don't feel good today.

It's a good thing I'm already going to the doctor.

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MooniePie
MooniePie
18:45 Aug 11 2011

Ohh Noes! :(

xoxo Get feeling better.





 

17:24 Aug 10 2011
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I am up WAY too early.



At least I get to do some shopping today, and I get to go see a movie today, AND I have a package waiting downstairs that my mom sent me. ♥



Plus we get to have a home cooked meal tonight. We've both been working ridiculous hours, so our eating at home has been not cooking, but more like scrounging. =/



We're having bison pot roast for dinner tonight! =D

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Mystic
Mystic
17:54 Aug 10 2011

that sounds very yummy - enjoy your dinner with the oleman =}





atyourwindow
atyourwindow
19:27 Aug 10 2011

we never have bison! :(





 

20:55 Aug 06 2011
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So it seems the company policy on maternity leave is that you either A- use all of your sick days (Which is a stupid policy, and I made sure to tell them that. It sets you up for termination which is ridiculous. Plus if your baby gets sick, you don't have any sick days to take care of it.), or B- if you refuse to use your sick days you have to use all of your earned vacation time.



By the time I have the rugrat I will have saved up 19 vacation days, and a personal day. So the first month will be covered. When benefits open enrollment comes around I'll sign up for short term disability. I can get up to another 2 months at a percentage of my pay (a shitty percentage, but at least it's money). I had to basically pry that information out of the HR benefits person. At first she made it seem like I couldn't take short term disability. Then I said, 'ok then, what exactly DOES short term disability cover then?'. She listed off all kinds of things including maternity leave. Yeah... I thought so.



I hate going to HR, every time I go there I feel like I'm being dicked around.

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MooniePie
MooniePie
21:04 Aug 06 2011

Ugh. What a bunch of assholes.



Cut them all! Cut them I say! With extremely dull sporks so they never forget the pain!



erm.. -shifty eyes- I mean.. that sucks.





CarnelianMyst
CarnelianMyst
21:08 Aug 06 2011

I suppose they'd like it if you just strapped the baby onto your back like a papoose and just carried on? Sheesh. Damn coldhearted HR people.





Morrigon
Morrigon
21:20 Aug 06 2011

Be stubborn. Look into employer laws for your area. If I'm not mistaken, this is toeing the line of something illegal on their behalf.





LadyDarkRayne
LadyDarkRayne
22:13 Aug 06 2011

Sorry to see you getting dicked around PD. Of course they never want to just hand you that information, the whole while as they are acting like they are there to help you. Hugs





Deity
Deity
00:17 Aug 07 2011

FMLA.





FMLA.





FMLA.





FMLA.





FMLA.





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
08:20 Aug 07 2011

FLAM says they have to give me up to 6 weeks off, but I didn't see anything about actually paying me for the time off.





 

Rhodonite not rhoholite

23:47 Aug 03 2011
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Considering I acquired them sometime last year, I'm not surprised I forgot the exact name of them. I paired them with black glass.



I also made another one for my mom last night, but I had technical difficulties with the plastic I was stringing it on. It seems I'm a bit brutal for plastic. I'll take it out and restring it later.





Photobucket

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Deity
Deity
01:12 Aug 04 2011

Beautiful. Simply beautiful.





LadyDarkRayne
LadyDarkRayne
22:18 Aug 06 2011

Very pretty. I like the shades of green marbled through the beads.





 

21:53 Aug 03 2011
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I keep dreaming about work. I don't know if I'm adjusting to my new position, or if its my brain trying to tell me something.



This morning I dreamed that I was on my lunch break at work when I got called to deal with a medical emergency. I walked up to the guy who looked fine other than being disoriented. He said that he was attacked by a bear. The fire dept showed up and decided to take him away because he was likely on drugs. He became hostile and was fighting with them while they were strapping him to the gurney. The weirdo looked at me and said he was going to come back and get me back after he got out of wherever they were taking. So I spent the rest of my dream continuing to work, and waiting for this crackhead to show up and try to attack me.





Weird dream.

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Sulks
Sulks
22:03 Aug 03 2011

o.O





Isis101
Isis101
22:46 Aug 03 2011

Now this was wierd...!

If you are dreaming about work, you need a serious vacation, woman.





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
23:27 Aug 03 2011

Maternity leave is my vacation... sometime next year. Lol





 

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21:38 Aug 03 2011
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12:23 Aug 02 2011
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I just got home from a 15 hour day at work. I want to pass the hell out, but gremlin needs to eat.



Speaking of eat. I'm kind of glad the fat bastard cats can not only knock over their food bin, but undo the locking lid when I work late. The one time I'm not mad when the little turds help themselves.



Thundercat spooked himself trying to hop into my lap when I came home. I now have several puncture holes in my leg and a ripped up kneecap. Upon inspecting the choices to scrub the wounds out with in the bathroom, I settled on betadine rather than the rubbing alcohol. I don't imagine I've had enough sleep to have my normal pain tolerance, and given the amount of blood running down my leg it seems deep enough to sting a bit. My leg now looks liked its developing jaundice in random spots. It's better than getting an infection from icky kitty claws.



Ok, time to eat. Then maybe I'll read until WC comes home. We'll see if I can stay awake.

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Sulks
Sulks
12:27 Aug 02 2011

Damn cat poor you.





Requiem
Requiem
23:45 Aug 02 2011

::hug::





LadyDarkRayne
LadyDarkRayne
22:16 Aug 06 2011

Yes it is good when they can feed themselves if need be. Saddly mine will just eat any and all b tead that is on the counter, they eat right thru the plastic bag... Weirdo Cats





PhoenicianDream
PhoenicianDream
17:19 Aug 10 2011

Oh yeah, the little sons of bitches eat most things left on the counter too. Mostly bread products though. =/





 

03:27 Aug 01 2011
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Lawd almighty. You've gotta love religious debates in the work place.



Th Christian boy is saying the Jews killed Jeebus.

The Jewish boy is saying the Romans killed Jeebus.



The Muslim girl is staying out of the debate, but she wants the Jewish boy to stop attempting to convert her to be a Jew, because she doesn't want to go to hell.





I'm keeping my comments to myself, but it's slightly amusing.

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Deity
Deity
03:34 Aug 01 2011

LOL @ Lawd almighty.



I busted up when I read that. :)





Sulks
Sulks
10:04 Aug 01 2011

LOL








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