"Lead me not into temptation....I'll find it myself." - Destiny R. Gonzalez
Hello. -waves- ^.^
The name that I go by is Dez. I am twenty four years old and I live in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma with my husband of eight years. We are in a semi polyamorous relationship, which means that most of the time we like it to be just he and I focusing on us. Although we are both open to dating other people. I am also the director of a paranormal team and cohost a paranormal radio show. Those two things in particular keep me pretty busy.
As for my sexuality I am pansexual. I can find someone from any gender or orientation sexy as well as being emotionally and intellectually attached to them.
On the note of being intellectual. If you cannot mentally stimulate me, then you're more than likely not going to be able to sexually stimulate me. So if you have nothing interesting to add to a conversation then more than likely you will be the person I automatically friendzone. I want someone who can be my intellectual equal and be my part time best friend, not just my fulltime lover.
I am also just not looking for potential partners, lovers, what have you. I also just want people I can straight up be friends with. We can click together like magnets and just enjoy each others companionship.
List of my interests and things you can talk to me about to break the ice:
Anime (shonen, ecchi, zentai, mecha), manga, cosplay, role-play, aniconventions, video games, LARP, RPSing (role playing stories), comic books, graphic novels, fantasy book series. I am a big geek at heart and love people who can share in my nerdom.
Anything that deals in the paranormal, occult, secret societies, conspiracy theories, cryptozoology, demonology, ufology, angelology, parapsychology, psionism, and so on. Practically anything that ends in an "ology" or "ism" that deals with creepy and spooky things.
I am a science, biology, and history nerd. I can spend my day or night binge watching: NOVA, Dnews, NatGeo, Vsauce, Sourcefed, and All Time 10s. This also goes for architecture, theology and anthropology.
My musical tastes very over a broad spectrum: variants of rock n' roll, industrial, rave, SOME dubstep, electro, experimental, ska, reggae, comedy, kpop/rock/rap, jpop/rock/rap, vpop/rock/rap, pop, r&b, country, opera, mashups, and several other genres. It would be simpler to ask "I like these musicians, do you like any of them?" The same would go for books/authors and movies. I have read so many books, watched so many movies, and have listened to so much music. It's just simpler that way.
I am also up for book/comic/manga/anime/music/movie/show suggestions.
And if you use tumblr or the PSN then send me your tag.
|Member Since:||Apr 19, 2008|
|Last Login:||Apr 10, 2015|
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