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How many times does one drag over the same desire. Stop and think! Is your desire worth all over, or is your desire destructive? If destructive make the necessary changes.One must not be a victim of any type of conditioning! You can write you're own script no more the actors! Only commitment and determination can produce change!
Your comments please!

easier said than done in most cases...

lol you should read my journal Daily Om for friday. I just posted something about desire.

Well if one has a challenging personality, they would find it intresting and they would reach their aim! believe it or not it can be done!

Well winglessangel I didnt read it actually, I just decided to discuss it, not to make u sound stupid but there are many branches opening to this discussion!

lol i don't think you made me look stupid but ok........

Well that wasnt my intention swty! :P
(''Winglessangel'')

it is easier said than done, it depends on ur own personal circumstances, it mostly comes down to money most of the times, many have found that change does cost.

but i do belive that change is possible, as long as ur willing to take thr ups and the downs that may come along the way.

I agree with you nightstalker, where there is a wish there is a way! :P

Desires are very precariuos.. as these may go very quickly.. usually what one desires when one is 10 one does not desire it anymore at the age of 15.. people change and thus one must be very sure when making a change for one must always rememebr that he'she may change in the near future and regret that change.

As NightStalker (hope I got ur nick right) said these changes may be expensive and having done an expensive change one will regret it all the more if one changes yet again. On my part I have to be very careful on changes as my moods change like the wind and thus for something to remain a constat it has to be very deeply instilled in me...

i agree with LadyBlood. People change and their desires change with them.

I think if you over analys urges and desires, your going to regret thinking about shit when the chance to indulge in something has gone past. On the other hand it costs money to make money, That's the way the world is. In addition to the urge thing, it's healthy to want to do and try things, For me I get really fanatic if it's right there in front of my waiting for a yes or no. Mind out of the gutter people I'm not just talking about sex, or drugs, or stealing yard ornimants. Just anything in general that may somehow cause conflict with myself or others in my decisions regarding the temptation afoot!

Where there's a wish there's a way.

Not always.
I know what I want to do with my life... where I want to be and how I want things to go. At this point in time that would be moving from a construction worker to Donald Trump.

Well... not really, considering the monetary scale involved with that. I don't need that much money...

But I know what I want to do. The problem is Id have to get money to go to college to know how to do something that gets enough pay to live like that. :|

Unfortunatly college costs money... money I don't have.

See the cycle?

Some times our own ambitions can quash other dreams, our quality of life, and the morality fo those around us.

However, this can depend on the actual circumstances. I dont know if your a determinist, but sometimes one can abstain from one thing, and find that it opens a door to somewhere else.

I think Gorey has a point though.

To move on in life we have to remove ourself from our comfort zone! To what extent that is depends on the person.

money money money
without it all dreams are easily destroyed or unrealized
money - ability to live

I have changed drastically from pre 2000
it has taken a lot of time and a hell of a lot of money amoung other costs
Some of this change has caused dreams to be lost
but new dreams have been dreamt

without the cash the idea is trashed
meow

One thing: NEVER live for someone else's dreams. Live for your own dreams. Otherwise, you will never be happy.

And money will get you there faster, more comfortably, but it is not always required. I wanted to go to Yellowstone National Park when I was younger, but I was broke, so I hitch-hiked. When I got there, I got a job as a clerk in a hotel, and they provided me with food and a place to live and just took it out of my paycheck. I accomplished my dream, without money.

Everything always works out in the end, broke or rich. Trust me.

The desire should be reached by who ever wished to claim them no matter how destructive they are. If destruction is what follows the path in it's wake, then so be it. Everything is fated to run it's natural course and destruction is a part of that to. Why rearange your desire because it could hurt someone else? It is only natural. Everything in nature destroys.

i don't beleave money does that..iam still going ..i have had to give things up..to do so its a matter of your true desire..if you want it bad enough you will find away

i find that totally true!!!!!!!!!!!

where there is a Whip there's a way ..*giggles*

I have yet to accomplish many of my desires and I know that to do so I will have to compromise on many things and relationships ....but ...I was not put here to live someone else's life and shall do what I have to in order to be where I want to be ..providing I don't have to kill for it....well maybe ...*snigger*

it's ok Khayman, i don't have any $ either

i know what i want and how im goin to get there... but i have bad luck so knowing me somethings gunna screw up bwahaha, but that's what backup is for!

easier said then done

True statement...but what to do with it?

yea true

i agree with most of you,but some dreams just can't come true that's all

i agree with deadnitegirl and the rest of you.

some desires can be done in reality bases while others can be done in our fantasy dream world of our own. some desires can be hard to be done due to obstacles but if there is a will there is a way obstacles can easily over come. desires can harm the others, so desires have to be re assessed and re evaluated.

desires must be worked for in order to happened not just sit back and relax.

mmmm nothing comes with our sacrifies and hard work.

no one can take your dreams away. Your desires are the basically the same as your dreams. No one should even try to take them away. If the one you truly love has some of their own then it is a matter of compromise sometimes and that is just commom sense to have some compromise in a relationship. But, never compromise your goals, dreams or desires for the sake of someone else. That would be wrong.

Aggreed.

true true

also Aggreed.

very good my dear you are right only you can squash your dreams and desires

My desire for other's sake will never die. I like it too much. Especially warm sake. That's good stuff!

I agree with the heading!
=)

I would never ask someone to give up their desires for my sake. That would ultimately be very selfish. On the other hand, I encourage the ones around me to go after what they truly desire.

i actually disagree with the heading,

i guess it is all a matter of how one looks at it though, you could desire destruction for contructive purposes, so sometimes a weird duality comes up.