Time was, this forum was new and an exciting place to meet kindred and kine alike.
To find that one place, a sort of haven, for those of us with no other home.
With his own time and energy, Cancer has spun bits of information into a finely crafted and Unique website.
Its goal: To catalog and coordinate that which goes bump in the night and uses the common name of "Vampire".
The forum was a late addition, but it too was designed to be used for conversations that would not dare exist elsewhere on the tangled web of the Internet.
He appointed two fellow caretakers, myself and Scarlett. Our tasks initially were to add to the databases and keep an eye on things in Cancer's absence. I enjoyed my new duties, scavenging my library, adding entries to the database based on my personal collection of Vampiric lore and literature.
I enjoyed posting in the forums, meeting new people, and discussing topics of many types. But when it came to moderating the forums, I allowed myself to not become strict. The recent addition of the ability to close threads however should have been an indicator of things to come.
I do not get to visit VR as often as I'd like. As conversations seemed to devolve, I found myself getting buried in messages that I didn't even bother reading. Some were fun at first, but no, I care not to know the color of everyone's underwear nor their favorite sexual position. This is my personal taste and since the threads were lively, who was I to judge their worth?
I find the profiles just as arduous to wade through in order to find a gem worthy of rating, but the ones I have rated, I rated them honestly and welcomed them to our shared home. Some are delicious, others atrocious, but beautiful one and all.
The addition of new moderators, I'm not even sure I know how many yet, is proof that we know something has changed here at VR. They are still settling into their new roles; give them their adjustment period as Cancer, Scarlett and I have.
I have made some very good friends here, and enjoy making more as time goes by. This fact and my loyalty to the true purpose of this website have deterred me Time and Again from handing in my notice. I believe in VampireRave.com. I will be its champion to the end.
I hope you all will decide what it is you like and dislike and band together instead of fighting amongst yourselves. The forums are a vital piece of the whole. This website will only be as strong as we make it.
The Elder Lurker Daniel
** as a silent respect passes over this set of keys... **
Elder D has summed up everything I've been feeling for the past week or so. Thank you, sir, for putting into words what I was only feeling as flashes of angry color and vehemence.
Long live the Rave in it's most pure form!
I wholeheartedly agree with you and I am in it for the long haul as well, that is unless I get kicked out for some reason and if not then like I said I’m with you on everything that you addressed. Glad to see you on again too, always a pleasure;-)
I agree everyone, I think a lot of us have been feeling this way for some time. Hence why me and Nara tried to influence everyone on posting "intellectual threads." I too can find any of this inane banter on any messageboard... the rave forum has lost it's eccentricity and mnid stimulatnig conversation. I'll look forward to the new changes that await us.
I appreciate your words, Elder Daniel. As one of the new appointees, I appreciate you bringing to light that we need to adjust.
Being a MOD is not about making friends, or taking sides. I hope we can get the forum back to it's intent: VAMPIRE EDUCATION, AND LEARNING ABOUT OUR MEMBERS ON A INTELLECTUAL LEVEL. *oops... caps*
I still love Scarlette Room. *giggle*
Respect to you Elder Daniel and i agre with you
lets keep the rave as a good site
Ok. I feel like a child now lol. Dan is so ... laid back, and serene in his posting it seems. And I ... can can be a purely intolerant shit. I know this.
Thank you for your reason and your words, Dan.
I'll let you all in on one of my best kept secrets.
I write all of my posts in a separate text editor. This gives me the chance to calm down when upset, form a thoughtful opinion, and edit the crap out of it repeatedly until satisfied.
Spell checkers are good, too.
Just the writer/editor in me I guess. ;-)
D
P.S. Whoever thought a Malkavian would be the voice of sweet reason? ;)
Dan will most likely understand what I am about to say. However, for the rest of you....
I don't think many of you fully understand the challenges involved with running this type of site. When you give people an open forum, you invite the lowest common denominator. It is difficult to maintain a higher standard without imposing many limitations.
There are several things I could do. I could greatly restrict the forum. I could limit the number of daily posts. I could make it so all posts must be pre-approved by administrators. All of these things would detract from my original intent.
For now I fully intend to keep an open Forum. When users stray from what the administration considers appropriate behavior, notice will be given. I can ban IP addresses. I am not going to get into the technicalities of it all, but it can be done.
Like you ElderDan, I find the changes in the forum disconcerting, as I also have no interest in hearing what people’s favourite sex position is, or how they do it. That’s personal. I feel the days of July to September are lost and the value of the forum rather missing lately, but as a VR minion I felt I could not complain or suggest too much, other than to leave the administration details up to the administrators. Since none of them seemed to mind the sex chat/whatever silly topic chat, I thought that was the way things were just naturally turning and so my responses to the forum became very few and less and to be honest as I lost heart in it. Then after a while I started to believe that, that was what the forum all about! That was actually what people wanted!
Well, I for another am glad you spoke out.. You rock ElderDan .. but long live the Rave.. Amen!
Elder, I have always admired your reserved manner, and now I have even more respect for you.
I tnd to be hard on certain people, but it's only because this -is- truly my only haven, as Orlando at times is not the best place for an open psyvamp.
Certain people think I'm a 'poser' of sorts-- which I find funny, as I put myself on full display, and show no remorse (for the most part) in doing so. I am about as honest to the site as I can be, and yet little 'gothlings' still try to bring me down to make themelves look better. I can just barely shake my head, stunned in disbelief of those here and now in these times.
Ah well, let them come.
Again Cancer, Elder and all my beloved Master Vampire/admins, thank you.
--Narakyndryn Mae'ere Shayrd
this is so interesting wish i could think of stuff like this
well this one is for Dan....I have never really talked to you....though I have often contemplated your wisdom...i'd love to go far a cuppa jo and conversation with you....and that is an invite I rarely give...
you are the example we all ought to strive for
OHHH i agree completely.........................ish.
I made a decent post not inloving sex positions e.t.c inanity/immaturity or off topic subject yet it was closed after i myself made sure that ppl stayed on topic an not dev8 to sexual innuendo or it being a waste of a thread so.................. i do agree just some1 wanna tell me why??
All respect to Elder Dan and all who want to keep the Rave alive.
**claps hands** and Bows with gratitude.. With the utmost respect to Cancer... I am not a Haven kind.. However I enjoy it here...