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It has come to my attention that I have had more of a fascination with blood than I originally though I did when I first joined this site. Quite honestly it is (hum what is the most direct word for it?) freaking me out, and I think that it may damage my relationship with my beloved ladyfriend.

On a recent date to the mall to meet up with friends, they had a blood drive going on in the center of the mall. My focus was on the center of the mall for the whole day. I was drawn to it you may say. My ladyfriend somewhat noticed my fascination, as she tired to pull me away a few times.

While partaking in a school function my girlfriend accidentally cut herself. Being the gentleman that I am, I hugged her, and I noticed the blood dripping from it. I was in a diluted form of revery, I wanted to kiss her finger, and taste my lover's blood. She pulled back at first, but that is what she always does when we are in public. I resisted my urge to kiss her bloody finger, and cleaned her wound for her. Yet I was still focused on her finger.

I found out that my girlfriend used to cut herself. I can only say that this strengthened our relationships. We have both had a rough past, until we found each other months ago. Since we have shed our own blood before, I figured that this is a great way to expand my fetish to actually drinking blood.

Is it wrong for me to find interest in my girlfriend's past? Is it wrong for us to drink each others blood? We are both clean of HIV & STDs, however I would like the opinions of people who have done this. I have yet to taste blood on my pallet, and I wish the first few drops to be of my love's.


Am I just some freak that needs to be locked up? Or is it natural to experiment like this?

experimentation can be healthy....research what it is you do....
if you have a fetish that you try to hide from yourself it can turn into an obsession...
be careful about this....but if it is just an interest explore it
find the edges...the places where you are still comfortable being
but you may want to be open about it with your sig. other
they may not be understanding....but at least you can then say you were honest about it

Thank you for Daermon for your advice. My girlfriend knows that I already have a fetish with blood. I just don't know if she knows I am serious or just joking.

On a sidenote, I am honored to have a respected person like you to give me this advice.

respected.....ME?
hehehehe oh thats choice.....
but thanks for the compliment
I was just speaking from experience....I went through adrinking phase also...these days i'm more of a psy vamp than sanguine....but the craving is still there

Excelsior, I will second Daer's response adn add only this:

I cannot stress how important is is for BOTH of you to be tested for ANY blood borne diseases before you take this next step. What could be a good experience for the both of you, should you decide that this next step is appropriate, should be approached with completely open eyes, and with the knowledge that both of you are protected and safe. I cannot stress that point enough.

I agree with Req. Getting tested (to me, at least) is the most romantic part of being in a blood-exchanged relationship. It makes sure both of you are safe for each other, and also brings you even -closer-, if you can imagine that.

Ditto to Req's post.... people be careful... you might think you know where people have been... but you don't.

First and foremost my ladyfriend acts as a doner to me but before i have ever took blood from someone they were tested now second thing dont hide it embrace the feeling if she runs from you then it wasnt meant to be

damn i messed up my post but anyway just do what makes comfortable

remember 1 important thing!!

It is hard for the HUMAN body to digest HUMAN BLOOD!!

It can infact make you quite sick!!
Even more so if you 2 are the SAME blood type! ... taking a lil lick here and there probley wont hurt ya, but actually bloodletting enough to sip from a glass lets say can definantly make you ill so keep that in mind and be careful!

I am getting more and more curious about this. I have only wanted to do this with 2 people. Which neither I never have. Well one I did but I didnt not take from them. Its a VERY big trust and bonding thing with me. I don't let people inside my world. THis is something that would be in total love and trust. Yes I know that both people should be tested. lol I read that loud and clear!

good point nic
blood consumption can cause ulcers...upset stomache.....and other complications

I have done it before. I understand how you feel, but yeah dobe careful. You need to sit down and ytalk this through with her, because, I hate to use the cliche, but people ofte resent and fear things they dont understand.

My bf and I arethinking ofgetting blood vials and swapping them, and wearing them as pendants.But its somehting we aretalking about sensibly and maturely because its not a decision to take in haste, and also a privayte thing as I dont think many people I know would appreciate or undrestand it.

When i was a young teen my boyfriends would let me actually bite them and draw blood ...it always made me feel trusted ..i think that is what i liked more than anything ... i still want to taste human blood but i don't trust people the way i used to so i don't do it anymore ... *sigh*

I completely understand having a fetish or obsession with it .. it can be addictive being close physically to people and biting them ... i am not sure i could drink it from a vessel other than a person ...(i am too 'physical' for that ) tho..I am thankfully disease free and if i were to ever do it again being safe would be my first thought other than my desire for blood ...well i hope so at least...*grins*

Whatever you do or how you go about fulfilling your desires it has to be fully concentual and an enjoyable experience for both of you i think *smiles*

You said it sunshine x x

no i think that it is fine to experment

walkintoevil, I agree that its OK to experiment, I just think it is important that we be careful about things x

Through the ages many have been fascinated by blood. Blood is Life-energy. It is a common interest shared by us all, else , we would not be drawn to this site. Blood......Live it, love it, crave it.
It is why you are here.

Interesting post, creepshow.

Hmmm... Glad this subject matter was posted! I had many questions about this myself and they are now answered! I am glad there are so many on this site that are wise and willing to share advice.

I agree with you there dear. Its a very interesting subject and one that I think many of us have questions about. Good thread x

Blood can be bad to drink in large amounts but then again, it has been proven to be good for you aswell. It got loadsa nutrients in it, so drinking others blood can be healthy

Just remeber ... everything you take into y'r body .. good, bad or ugly .. can be passed from one person to the next .. so if you choose to blood share .. do so wisely .. and cleanly .. know who it is that you share with .. choosing random people is not healthy, and 5 years down the road you could very well kick y'r self for doing it, if you end up catching something...

Did we all mention getting tested? LOL
Nothing shared between you and your lover consentually is bad or wrong. Different things for different people. But heed Nicnivian, Start small. Blood can make you very ill if you ingest too much.

i agree with my darling Daermon, little does he know he will be my next victim mwahahahaha! seriously now, i can understand what you mean, i am the same even though i am a psy vamp i do love the sight and taste of it i've tasted it a few times but just out of curiosity, not passion. i do know of the desire to have her life's blood inside you, you want to make her a part of you. as long as you can keep it on a short leash love, there's nothing wrong with it.

The only "advice" I have on this is.. Do Not Disregard or comprimise your true nature.. seems to me you accept who and what you are ..and so does your significant other.. let it be at that ..

Experiment all you want just as long as your intentions are true and from heart. keep the borderlines in mind to keep yourself from falling into this head over heel. You should also discuss this with your ladyfriend, to exchange opinions. And perhaps you should tell her that you aren't joking about your craving.
In the end it is a matter of trust and honesty, stay true to yourself.

~AmaliA~

Wohoo yet another voice of experience.
Yes get tested
Yes start off small
Yes make sure she knows to the extent of your fetish
Yes keep it in check
Yes do your research befor trying to bloodlett.
Do remember to be grateful to your donor for giving their life force to you willingly.
Do not take without permission,you will never get to do it again
Do not use any instrument you are not knowlegdeable in using,you can damage skin or bruise ares
Do not assume because your donor is calm about what is happening,it may be thier first time and don't know what to expect

My ex boyfriend and I would often engage in vampirism. It is an intimate and exciting experience, especially the first time. Every other time after will increase your trust in one another. It is VERY enjoyable.
I've done a LOT of research on this subject and have found a few things that you might be interested in.
First of all, most diseases [though not including AIDS and HIV] can only be received if there is an open wound [cold sore perhaps] in your mouth. Otherwise, the stomach acid will kill the virus.
Also, usually only a pint or more of blood will make your body ill. Start off with small doses at first though. Let your body get used to taking in it's new elixir.
I hope this helped sweetheart :)

when i met my GF she bit me and ever since i have loved it.

bolth of us now have a fetsh with it but hay i got a fetish with lots of kinky shit like i liked to be choked i love the taste of blood and sometimes i find myself staring at blood and feening for it if its ever in sight

amazing what you can learn from one post.

Seems like you might have found your path.

Niles tends to nibble on me quite a bit-- especially if he wants something and needs to get my attention in such a manner. ;)

Otherwise it's more of a 'wait' type of treat from him to me. Hopefully tonight, if everything goes well.

i am afraid of this thread....so very very..... afraid...

scares you
this one isn't scary
it's intelligent and well thought out
unlike so many of late

I agree with Daermon. This topic is very intelligent. But also as long as your careful i think it's fine to experiment.

"as long as your careful i think it's fine to experiment"

Exactly.

i drink from my fiance and he is fine with it. i never actually bloodlet though. so becareful with that. but i think it is natural. ;) enjoy and have fun with it.

It's all about caution like everyone else is saying. I don't think there is anything wrong with it