ok this might sound really stupid, but it really freaked me out and i want to see what other people think.....
i had a dream the other night that my bf had was online.....my body wanted to wake me up and i wouldnt let it cause i figured it was just a dream.....when i woke up 1 it was an hour past my normal waking time (not like me at all) and when i checked my email my top one was from him.....he was indeed online when i would normally be online......
this really freaked me out cause this does not happen.....
my mom thinks it was a premonition, but i dont know... i think my already exsisting bond with him is getting stronger....either that or im just insane....my mother also said it might be both...
what do you guys think?
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CuRsEdToDaRkNeSs High Sire (157) Posts: 1,286 Honor: 2,184 [ Give / Take ] |
There is also the possiblity that your natural instincts said it was time to get up. Have you ever set an alarm clock and woke up a minute before it went off? Your body becomes adjusted to waking at a specific time in some cases and when that time came your body could have been trying to wake up and you refused it. If he is normally online at that same time then you would have known that and your mind would say hey I need to get up and I want to talk to him.
There is also the option of it being a premonition or a strong bond. It is a hard call in this case.
the time he was only i am normally awake.....
but no he is not usually online that early at all.....and with where is is at the moment i never know when he will get on....if it was the norm i dont think it would have freaked me out as much.....
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CuRsEdToDaRkNeSs High Sire (157) Posts: 1,286 Honor: 2,184 [ Give / Take ] |
Perhaps then it was as you said the bond you share, maybe he was calling you to get online. I know that sounds a bit off but it can happen. I have known when a person was calling for me before and gotten online or picked up a phone and called them, and they say I was hoping you would call or get on line...... When I think premonition I think more along the lines of a vision of the future..... that is why to me this is an iffy thing. It could be a premonition type thing though.
its funny that you mention the whole calling thing, cause i try that often, and i even said to myself that i wish he would feel me calling to him, and the next day this happened.......
i didnt think i t was a premonition, but i also dont know when the dream took place either......
I dont know if premonition is exactly the right word..I do believe that the mental or esoteric link is growing between you both
Our brain can be program just like a pc to react to a certain command, I can for myself wake up on command with no alarm clock, like I program myself ot get up at 9 am for exemple during some amout of days then when I dont even want to I just opne my eyes and voila I am up, fully awake, its purely a progrmaing in your brain that provoc the reaction of waking up. Premotion imply more then just reacting its more of inside and of an emotion provoquing the reaction a fear, or a happy sensation filling you, a shiver for no reason that make you weak for moment out of the time and space you are, then stops as suddenly it has started.
kytrin thats what im believing it is....
no me waking at 5:30 -6 am every morn is my bodys own programing....i just wake up no dream nothing....but as i also said i dont know the time that the dream happened either.....
also was stated that premonitions provoke something like a fear or whatnot...well i get excited when he comes online...maybe it was provoking my excitement to the idea of him being online......the bond thing i really do believe though.....guess there is no way for me to actually know....
the internet is an alternate reality - not a physical world, but a world of information and data - a kind of spirit realm. dreams are also an alternate reality - maybe the two can crossover. one of the pioneers of virtual reality and the internet chat room was Timothy Leary.
i believe it could have been both a premonition and your bond with him calling out to you, next time it happens allow your self to head the message you might be surprised
It just may be a premonition. It depends on what you take it as. As for my own opinion I do believe that you are right about you now creating a stronger bond w/ your b/f.
I think it was a premonition. Stuff like that happens to me all the time.
:)....im guessing this is a good thing then cause i never had this with anyone else ever.....
and trust me after this, i wont be ignoring this.....it just freaked me out after i saw he had been on...and its been on my mind constantly since...
well this isn't anything to be worried about.. but if in a premonition you have in the future it is bad... and it might be true.. i'd start to worry.. but our body can be set to work like a biological clock.. without an alarm we can wake up at a certain time because our bodies are sort of programmed to be alerted time after time..
i believe that you indeed did have a premonition and it wasn't at all bad.. which is certainly good.. i've had good and bad.. so it freaks me out a bit. but the bond you have with ur bf could be a mutual feeling.. try talking to him about and see if the same is happening to him at all...
....i want to talk to him about it, but unfortunately he hasn't been on since then :(
he does get his own things though that i dont get...he dreams of us often...i do not...besides the dream the other night, i have dreamt of him only once prior...but it is also very rare that i dream of someone in general.....and i know he gets other things, i just dont think he mentions them....
If he dreams things about you and is able to do other things, isn't possible that he communicated with you by way of using dreams?
That's happened to me before. I don't think "premonition" would be the right word, due to the fact that the term is usually used to discribe knowing something BEFORE it happens. Since it was in the present, I would say its the bond between you that caused you to know when he was online.
Premonitions are normal i have them once and a while, but nothing close like that mine happen in a few days. its freaky at first then it gets better and more fun when u can see whats going to happen or might happen because it may only be one possible future.
It is possible that you were tapping into some type of psychic ability; however, it could also be that you have preprogrammed your body to be used to certain events during the course of the day. It would become more apparent if you experienced this on more than one occassion.
I think it is more akin to walking... psychic projection. Did you see him sitting at his computer?
BTW, I am not an authority on Projection... I can't do it conciously... There are several people on VR that may be able to confirm/deny my suspicion.
I think it could be both but i am leaning more toward premonition. I have dreams like taht all the time wether they are good or bad. I have been having dreams like that for years, and still it freaks me out but it is hella cool at the same time.
Don't worry about being insane. At least you are a high-functioning insane person.
I wouldn't say premonition because it didn't happen before it happened. Premonitions are frequently accompanied by deja vu when the event actually happens.
A lucid dream? Maybe.
I have to agree with Jenovia on this one...I think it was a lucid dream
ok, people are not reading things i am saying here....i said i DO NOT KNOW the time the dream took place....the dream could have come before it happened.....i wouldnt know since i cant see the time if im sleeping.....
and it was never me that figured it was a premonition....i figure its just my bond with him.....or that i was crazier then i thought i already am...lol....
i am not sure if it would be considered a premontion ....more as a strong connection which brought out a strong dream ....