i had a dream about something happening to my daughter it was very intence i just wanted your insight on if i should take it as a preminion or what?
Well it depends on what the feel of the dream was. If you've had premonitions before, then the feel should be the same.
Either way, even if its not, do whatever you can to nudge the situation in a positive direction. Precautions, you know.
KathryynKrypt, I agree with your post, beacuse it is the most sound post and that can be given in this case.
i havent had such a intence dream in a few yrs the last time my hubby and daughter got in a car accident and it came true i am really scared because this time my daughter gets raped.
dreams don't always mean what you think they mean. Like if you dream of a death then if could mean a death of a friendship and not the person. Or if your worried about something your mind puts it into dream form. Look at all the signs from the dream to find the real meaning.
watch the signs hun.
try to think of the dream b4 u go to bed, and try to re-have it, and look all around.
thanx blood &xxdawn i will try to tonight i hope i am not right
most dreams are only dreams, why it affect us more when we dream of our own family or loved ones is simply because they are close to us we notice it mroe, usually when see some stranger we dont pay as much attention.
It can mean alot of things, it can also be simple coincidence.
Perhaps try a dream dictionary? None of us know exactly what you saw in your dream, so it is hard for any of us to offer more than speculation.
ok what i seen was my daughter going to house with this guy he is tall with dark hair about 20's and she knew him couldnt see is face just his back and he wanted to show her something in his house and when she went in he grabbed her and pushed her down on the couch and ripped her clothes off and raped her. if any of this helps
Hey, that matches my looks exactley!
I think we got another clue here!!
id take as a sing to watch her closely but the thing about dreams is that your never sure when its going to happen so id be careful for awhile
If the out come was bad, then do all you can to prevent that situation in your life.
thanx everyone for your help my friend kim got the same feeling as me she told me today about it
Not all dreams are premonitions. If we look at a purely statistic break down, the chance that what you saw is going to happen is extremely rare. However, last I checked 1 and 4 women are sexually abused at some point in their life, so it never hurts to buy some mace and tell your daughter to be careful.
thanx meeper she is only 14 so i do worry but it most likely is a warning of some kind i have had these before and about 85% come true that's what scares me.
85% of your dreams come true? Most people distort there sucesses because they fail to remember all of the incorrect dreams. I'm not saying that it isn't a premonition, but we are humans and our memories are not 100% exact.
sometimes a higher percent i was just giving you a example and i only have these dreams once in awhile only when i need to know something i dont know why they come to me like this but they do. And i remember every detail of my dreams every time.
There are two kind of dreams:
1. those that are valuable because they show you something from the future(very rare for the average persons)
2.those who represent just some of our deepest fears(I guess you must read Freud and Jung about this).
The dreams from the first category are usually symbolic.There is a very little chance that the dream shows something from the future.
Though is not a bad idea to be more prudent then usually.Just don`t get paranoid :P
Tell us if the dream is repeating.
Also I think you must write down all you can remember about your dream.Like a journal.Even nothing happens will be fun.
Your dream is coloured?
thanx dragon good info and if it repeats i will let ya know
I think dreams are very interesting and can even be fun to dwel on and analyze. Personaly I don't worry too much about dreams because they are so proned to suggestion. For me they can be disturbing if they seem real at the time but that is it. I don't think I have ever actually predicted the future through a dream.
It depends actually..Dreams are after all subconscious experience of sequence of images,sound,emotions etc...You might have seen some body's death on T.V before sleeping.....nonetheless its always wise to take precautions and take extra care of your child...
Premonitions are hard to determin, but most likely you just had a messed up dream i would not think about it, everyone has bad dreams like that, but it does not mean it is going to come true...
thank you everyone i feel alittle better about my dream now
Women tend to have a lot of visions, especially when their mothers so ya, take it seriously.
have u had preminitions before? and if u feel strongly about this dream and can take precautions then u should
thanx goth i hope it doesnt come true but i have warned her so hopfully that will change it
In serious hopes that nothing does happen, however go on your gut feeling about it. Do you think that you should take percautions or just blow it off?
Personally, I would take percations, whereas you never know if it could happen or not.
Yeah you should. I've had several dreams about the fiture, about people I've never seen before and then years down the road end up meeting these people. I get deja vu several times a week. Explain that!
yes i have had them before so so i will take this serious
well as said before they might not mean what ya think maybe it is her being raped of here pride or self esteem .. not a pyshical rape.. maybe some one is picking on her verbally and that to is something that should be looked at because being my father verbally abused me as a kid.. it is something i live with all my life that is why we dont talk much...
I have had many premonitions and sometimes i remember them and sometimes i dont which ends me in the Deja vu effect but Yes that to me would possibly be a Premonition i would keep an eye on
I mean if you noticed any colored objects in your dream or was just a black and white dream?If you didn`t noticed it was a black and white dream.
most of the time if its a very intense and vivid dream it is most likely a premonition.i have had a few of them myself
This dream could mean many different things... It may not have anything to do with your daughter at all...But you....
or even a close friend...
The rape could be a raping of self esteem.
Or some other factor that makes one feel helpless.
i never thought about that butterfly&noc maybe it meant that and not pysical rape and maybe it wasnt her but me or kim.
Dreams are not always as they appear...
Like someone else had pointed out.
When I dream...things happen within a 3 -7 day occurance. SO I need to pay close attention to the things around me to understand what it all meant.
If you'd like a better understanding of what I mean feel free to message me (this goes for anyone) and I will be happy to explain.
I believe in premonitions 100% and think if you truly believe you had one that you do everything in your power to stop whatever is going to happen if it's bad or help whatever it is along if it's good.
I believe everything happens for a reason
I do not believe that having a dream more than once means anything, i have had one dream many times and it has never came true, so i do not believe their ar patterns in dreams that you can follow...
deff take precaution when you have dreams like that. Keep a record of them and go back to flip through them. i keep tabs on all the dreams i can remember.
i agree with the person before my post i cant quite rember how to spell the name so i wont jsut to be respectfull and any way just take strong precaustions and maybe if u could get a time fram or something that might help jsut pay close attention i have those all the time
I agee with kathryn on this one. Seems like the best advice.
With dreams you have to look at all the things that were in the dreams the symbols and such , I would take a step back and look at what is going on in your life as to see what it may have portrayed in the dream
i would take it seriously.
i dreamt about my best friend like that last night and it has me scared to death today....
:/
I would try a dream dictionary before jumping to conclusions. Try going to www.dreammoods.com. Based on the information you've given, I pulled these two meanings from that website:
Daughter
To see your daughter in your dream, represents your waking relationship with your daughter and the qualities that she projects. If you do not have a daughter, then it symbolizes the feminine aspect within yourself.
Rape
To dream that you have been raped, suggests a sadistic expression of sexual desire. You may be expressing an unconscious desire to be violated, conquered, or forced into forbidden territory. Some women have a desire to be sexually overpowered, but not hurt. It also indicates vengeful feelings toward the opposite sex. Alternatively, it suggests that you are feeling violated in some way. Something or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. You feel that someone or something is being forced upon you. Dreams of rape are also common for those who were actually raped in their waking life.
To see a rape being committed in your dream, denotes sexual dysfunction or uncertainty.
to give you a heads up on this i havent had this dream again and i am confendent that she is safe atleast for the time being it hasnt came true so i will contiue to watch over her and protect her and hope that it wont come true.
If you are as confident as you are sure, my suggestion would be to look up dream interpretations for your own well being...As most dreams are quite significant. You may be surprised to learn what your dream actually means.
yes, a premmy. just becauful and look for the signs that u saw in your dream.
Lookin for the right signs would be my advice, cause not all the signs are the right ones...
glad to hear it did not happen. Most the time dreams are just worries of yours based on other life events but always try to do anything to make sure it is not possible
i agree maybe she is acting a new way thenshe used to and you are worried for her
Wow.. I've had dreams like that, but the situation was reversed. All I can say, is watch for signs, as many have already posted. Tell her about your dream, and keep her included and she can try and be careful to keep this from happening.
as a parent it is never to late or early to teach ur children stranger danger even if ur dream comes to naught but children must know the dangers of certain actions of others i know that most dont want to teach their children of fear but in this day and age it is a must
i hope nothing bad happens i dont like bad dreams at all they aint cool they sometimes scare the shit out of me
Dreams have so many diffrent meansing when I dream something the opposite happens...just watch carefully is all you can do.
I think you just have to go with your gut on this one..... Your heart will let you know when to worry and when to relax. If you are worried there is probably good reason. Talk with your daughter about it. Educate her on trusting people and not. Teach her self defense.
dreams i take them for real when some thing like that comes .. i would defently do some watching out ..
It might not happen right now but could later on in your daughters life....
i have dreams of my son drawning in swimming water so i wont let him go swimming with out me . sounds like i may be perinoid but thats me i guess..
I've had many dreams that have came true. But, always a few months to a year after. I have yet to have a bad dream that came true though. I would take it a sign and be cautious.
i really apreciate all your support on this everyone it has set my mind at ease and in the future i will defently watch out for signs and trust in my gut feelings. I havent had any dreams about her lately and hope this is over and i dont half to worry as much.
you are all very welcome i am glad so many responded to it children are so very important and everyone should defently montour then online to because you never know.
I'm glad your going with your instints and you feel better. I don't want to repeat what everyone else had already pointed out, but I wanted you to know you have support that going with your mother's intuition is a good great things. Bless you.
Alot of dreams are just from your own stress or buried fears thoughts etc from you sub-conscience yet there are few who have the ability of visions ..
i'd be scared. i had a dream like that but it was complete nonsense i was completely freaked after wasards fpr like a week but it never happened
Your daughter will be fine. Dreams are either a way for us to intepret what is going on, or a way for us to see things we need to watch for. If you know what to watch for you can find the answer as to what to do.
I'm sure things will be fine but just keep an closer eye on your child just to be on the safe side. In most cases dreams like are just our own hidden fears coming to life in the dream. Try not to worry to much.
Sometimes it is premonition but sometimes it's just anxiety working overtime.
Dreams can be premonition or just dreams. It all depends on your abilities to read what is going on.
Sometimes dreams are just thoughts that you have. Things that you fear subconciously come to life in your dreams more often than in reality. Its basically just facing the fact that this is something that could happen.
How can we tell what in our dreams is a premonition and what is merely trash thrown out by our subconscious?
It sounds like you believe your daughter to be in harm because of the dream, how do you know it though?
i would yes because somtimes things come to us when we least expect them to happen and that is a way to make us aware of wut is going on with our surroundings and such