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i would like to know as many ways of hate as possible...why can u hate smbd?what do u feel when u hate smbd and what do u wish to that person?

i don't give a crap about anyone enough to hate them. It's pointless to hate someone it gets you nothing, and nowhere. If i dislike someone, it's never to the point of hate where i think about how much i hate them and wanna do evil things to them all the time...If i truely dislike some one a lot just give em an ass whopping and it's over with!

why focus on the negative stuff? There's more to life then the negative bull crap...

let's think happy =)

I am incapable of hate for some reason i am such a forgiving person that no matter how much you hate me if i see you in trouble i'll help you holding grudges i've done but never for long. I say hatred is over rated but that doesn't mean if you try to hurt me i wont hurt back but its like a psychotic reflex

i see u re all fine and mostly kind people and thats great!me neither -i cant really hate the people and thats why i wanted to know what for the feeling it is to really hate someone.

hate is a wasted emotion and not good for anyone

i agree, hate is just a waste of time, i can dislike but not hate, there are alot of things i dislike though

I wouldn't nesesarily say hate is a waste of emotion hate mixed with anger can be quiet powerful if you learn to control and chanel it. I do use those to a lot to get tasks acomplished from hatred for my father because i never want to be like him and well i find it while sparing and such hatred for myself to be so slow moving does make me give an extra percentage of energy but i don't know if it is still hate once its control. if this is not too confusing has anyone ever done this??

I learned to never hate anyone. I have been known to dislike a person or their ways, but hate in your heart is bad and it can consume a person. I hate various foods and extreme temperatures and snow, and drugs, and I hate it when a plant or animal dies, and when my son fights with me, but I don't hate people in general or any individual.

I guess once you put it that way i just hate peoples way and sometimes my ways

To paraphase a great philosopher......

"Fear leads to Anger....
Anger leads to Hate....
Hate leads to Suffering....."

Hatred clouds judgements and leads to further negativity......

And although it is impossible to erase Hate.....it is more important to control it.

hate is a very special love you have for someone- quote off of my short hehe

hate is a very special love you have for someone- quote off of my shirt hehe

hey i dissagree with that love has brought me more pain than hatred i know this because i was always able to control my hatred as for love i can't control that feeling its a feeling i am not able to control so i end up getting hurt more by love than hate

Im quite capable of hating for there are many ppl i feel that way towards nothing anyone can say to change its reason i can not forgive the person is cause it was multilple times that they did what they did

Why waste the time or energy?

mmm, hate.

hatred is fun make your opponent hate you very much then they'll slip up lol

It is more like fuel. It keeps you going pissed off for hours and is one of the many things that can keep you awake at night. Also a reson for some people to live, revenge. Desiring revenge from being pissed off just enough to hate. I usually don't hate. I just dislike.

I hate what people do, or how they act, if thats hating the person so be it, but hate is a neccesity, for balance, like yin and yang.

like i said let's think happy! ;-)

People hate out of ignorance , fear , bigotry and just plain stupidty. There are to many other things to focus that amount of energy it takes to hate anyone.
It also gives you wrinkles. So be happy and stay lovely!

i use to hate but i have seen the light

I can say i ever hated someone, theres better way if u dont like some person.
Give dont damn about them, its more sufficient at least for your health .
LOL

hawk2k ,
that was great you finished the point well as so did lking4trouble, hate gets you no where but burnt out

It can't be explained, like 'love'... It's a part of life

I am full of hate.Maybe that's why I have a lot of angst and rage.If I can love passionately I can hate very much.It's all human.I hate all those who hurt me.I don't and will never forgive.I find it to be more of a waste of time to forgive people who will always hurt you than not to hate at all.I suffered more when I loved like someone said before,so hate is part of my life,like love and other emotions.Hate is more powerful that love after all and the world is full of hate.

Hate...hmmm...I can't say that I've ever hated a person. I hate the persons actions more than the person. I hate things that people do, not them. Kinda wierd to explane i guess. uhmmm....Like....I hate some of the choices that people make, but not them because that would be like hating imperfection. Which is a waste of energy because no one is perfect. Its a waste of emotion too, you end up concentrating on how much you hate that person, and before you know it you end up being consumed by them. Hate....complicated....yucky =) lol

And HAWK2K who said
"Fear leads to Anger....
Anger leads to Hate....
Hate leads to Suffering....."? Ive heard it before....but i cant remember who is was who said it.....was it Yoda? lol

hate is a waste of time indeed.....and for
those you forgive and they hurt you again and again types.....the forgive and then forget them kicks in with me.......i am the
kind that trys her best to be kind and not hurt.....to be hated....and am unable to
hate others....

people hatred is good. god its not a waste of energy and my dearest knows that shes capable of hate she just wont admit it. its a part of us and we must welcome it. hate sometimes make you strong. I've experience that before but yeah if you let it consume you too much its a bad thing but generally there isn't anything wrong with hating i like the yin/yang idea for without hate there would not be love correct? so yeah....

I dont really think that I have 'hated' many poeple, and even then, the type of hate you feel can change really easily.

When I was very young, I hated a boy who picked on me for years, but looking back, that wasnt really hate, so I suppose that I could continue thinking that way for the rest of my life.

I htink that lvoe and hate (apologies for the cliche) are very close together, and when you stop to think about this in terms of love and relationships, they really are.

Theres only one person I truly think I hate,a nd when I lok at that, my hate turns to pity... so maybe hate is the extreme part of all the other emotions?

aww you're such a nice person echo.

Yep hate just destroys one's self

hate destroy you if you let it consume you too much but i wouldn't say it always destroy you.

I would be very causious of one who cant hate, its an emotion just like love, one who cant hate is a cold calculated calus person who is probably dangerous to be around.

that is true if you can't hate and hate is an imotion you are potentialy dangerous then if a person like that kills what did he kill out of?

to me love and hate are the same thing, because i can love someone i hate: and i can hate someone i love

I will probably sound insensitive here...but if you cannot hate then you also cannot love.....as the are but two sides of the same chemical reaction.....
you may have taught yourself that hate is not enjoyable....but you are quite capable of it

I wouldnt say this....
Maybe u have so much love inside that u are not able to hate somebody......yet.

Hate
v. t.
To have a great aversion to, with a strong desire that evil should befall the person toward whom the feeling is directed; to dislike intensely; to detest; as, to hate one's enemies; to hate hypocrisy.
To be very unwilling; followed by an infinitive, or a substantive clause with that; as, to hate to get into debt; to hate that anything should be wasted.
(Script.) To love less, relatively.
n.
Strong aversion coupled with desire that evil should befall the person toward whom the feeling is directed; as exercised toward things, intense dislike; hatred; detestation; -- opposed to love.

I agree with Daermon here ... you can't really have one without the other .. how do you know that you can love someone or anything .. if you don't have a negative to show you what is positive?

I could never truly hate another person. No matter what they did to me. I've always said that if I ever felt true hatred, I would kill. And I couldn't bring myself to do it the one time I actually felt that way. Just goes to show... I'm a little too nice for the whole hate thing. I'd rather forgive.. just maybe not forget.

My way of hate.... I HATE DISCO.... thets all.

hatred and killing:
there are different level of hatred so but if it dies out it was probably hate that you were feeling. anyhow there is no one of us that is incapable of hate for no one is perfect and its an emotion instilled inside us. as i keep saying hate isn't a bad thing.

i've never hated anyone. Hate is way too strong. Dislike is better. i dislike alot of people, but i could never hate anyone, even my very worst enemies.......

*sigh* this is depressing no one want to admit of hatred. I really don't see why i've hated before yes i know its supposibly bad but i have and if i am evil for that so be it. was it worth it well to a point. but in the end like i said just don't late it consume you too much. I mean i was on the verge of taking myself and the person down a knotch and i didn't mind the consequences. so hatred is in us good or bad who knows but i don't see why the denial. well... unless i am the only person left on earth capable of hate then :(( may god have mercy on my soul

*sigh* more denial if you iflict pain upon someone its due to anger or hatred so which was it?

some of u wrote here a connection between hate and love.actually i have heard that there s a thin line between a hate and love.can it happen-u love some one and then u start to hate him?hm...