These words ring very true.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND
Everyone should think about sayings and their meanings. It's what makes life, what it is.
hmmm very true...*starts thinking my ex is gonna get whats comming to him* lol but yeah that saying does make me think alot about everything
oh yes, my dear dhampir. It related to the idea of Karma.
You are totally right Dhampir. Everyone always gets what's coming to them.
PSSSSSSH B.S. I SAY! its not true just before class starts i like to stand outside and flick the lil kids in the head as they walk to elementary school MUAHAHA! so that is sooooo not OWWWW MY ASSS! WTF!!!!! *long silence..................*
I totally agree with you. karma is true. I totally agree in it.. its happened to me.
::: sigh::::
Okay someone make a confessional...
and make it snappy!!
I gotta lotts confessions to make before this karma and what goes around comes around life stuff comes back to bite me in the ass :: giggles::
Warning tho... some stories may mike your bible hit the floor a few times ::wink::
If that's the case I maybe in a world of trouble one day .. no wait, I already am I must be going in tight little circles then >;^}
Im going to be blunt so excuse me.
Bad Sh** happens to everyone, that doesnt mean you deserve it. Good sh** happens to everyone, that doesnt mean you earned it. What is Karma? I will tell you. Its a good way to think, so that you think twice about your actions. Peace.
You all are talking about something that is. Life is. Just live in peace and hope for the best for mankind. Karma is just a word.
I agree with you 100%! We all desire whats coming to us, its the true so deal with it :P.
i agree with distortedsmile. gotta love it. everything u do comes back to u. as well as others.
lol MrLaven, sounds similar to a quote i heard on this one show from a while ago.
Religion is around just to make people be good to each other.
personaly, i believe in the concept of karma because it makes sense, and it makes me feel like a warm fluffy pillow, hmmm anyway (*walks off to the shadows, muhwahahaha)
"for every event that occurs, there will follow another event whose existence was caused by the first, and this second event will be pleasant or unpleasant according as its cause was skillful or unskillful"----this is the idea of Karma.
Therefore, the law of Karma teaches that responsibility for unskillful actions is born by the person who commits them.
another saying i live by,
What Doesnt Kill you, Only makes you Stronger
From The Free Dictionary.com ....
kar·ma (kärm)
n.
1. Hinduism & Buddhism: The total effect of a person's actions and conduct during the successive phases of the person's existence, regarded as determining the person's destiny.
2. Fate; destiny.
3. Informal A distinctive aura, atmosphere, or feeling:
I have hesitated in posting to this thread, as my ideas on this topic are not embraced except by a very few.
Karma entails more than your actions. It entails your thoughts. Thoughts are things and if you think about murder, your are committing murder. The karmic debt is the same.
If you are serious about putting yourself on a path of enlightenment, you must control your thoughts. It is hard... Far harder than controlling your actions. Actions often carry societal consequence whereas no such consequence is realized with thought.
I have gotten myself to a point where I have about a 2 second margin of thought control. What I mean by this, as an example, let's say you steal my car. My initial impulse of thought will not be good, but within 2 seconds I pull together my composure and issue no further ill-will towards you.
I will often go a step further, and think good thoughts towards you.
Everyday I work on reducing that 2 second margin to zero.
The vast majority of you will not understand this... All you understand is vengeance and retribution. I bring it up because if you live a life filled with good deed, yet at the same time pollute your karmic pool with malevolent thought, your good deeds will not be realized and your self-imposing damnation will be severe.
Hmm I'm wiccan so i believe the what goes around bit it's part of the philosophy.
Nicly put Cancer, you do make alot of sense here. ANd If I had to think about it I'd say that I've got about a 7 to 10 second impluse concerning ill will. The margin was much wider about five years ago.
I used to look at life as a why me attitude, bad karma. Things haven't changed much, but I guess I've matured in my out look and karma seems to be better, which helped close the ratio. It seems that for a big part, when a person changes their attitdue from "Woe is me" to "Hey things happen, how do I adjust", then they naturally go from snapping in a bad way automatically to thinking things out first, to it becoming a natural reaction to not think ill will.
well this is interesting, i agree with the saying and its menin, things do have a way of comin back around.
Thats a good way of dealing with your impluses. Two seconds, it only takes one to pull a trigger, so i guess it is longer than it seems and people need to banish vengeful acts completley from theier mind set.
HellChildDami touched on this a little bit, but if you are successful in controlling your thoughts, the results are astounding.
This swings both ways, because thoughts are things.
But assuming we are talking about good thoughts, he who is positive and admirable will quickly notice a change in his life circumstance.
True, I can't really say much, everything I wanted to say has already been said but I fully agree with Dami
i agree, but let me ask u this, is it possible to live the first part of ur life getting the bad things comming to u before u do bad things, but get the rewards for doing good later in life?
yes i do agree with what goes around comes around
but i think u make your own decisions and u get what u deserve
but u did make a very good point
be wise with what u say and think
I just now read your article in Acrimony on Reincarnation today Cancer and I am at the zero level you are working at. I first think , why did the individual do the wrong action and how can I help them change their thinking, I never give up on them... there is always a reason people think and act as they do...
Thanks for the info Cancer, and LOL at Sunshine.
Dhampir, this is an excellent 'question' (if it can even be defined as such, however thats how it is being taken by many.)
I too believe in Karma, but also considering a level of one lifetime rather than many.
will not so sure what life is but i think the secret of life is to keep ur eye on the ball, and the things that u like theres a song call "the secret of life" BY:faith hill !and thats what the song says and i agree with the song
as i allways ltell people life is what you make of it. youre either happy or not.
there is the thing that i belive in verry strongly which is karma and in the karmatic law. which is stated as what comes arround goes arroung. to each we get out own. its all a matter of what we do in life that determins how our lives are.
as the lyrics in a song goes. (some thing like this i know its not compleetly right.)
ive seen a grown man cry.
ive seen a good man stear.
ive seen a rich man go poor.
well all get our own.
i dont know what song that cam from
"...he who is positive and admirable will quickly notice a change in his life circumstance."
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i totally agree.
I must admit that quote Cancer gave is one i will try and live by... *applauds*
I definately believe in it, similar to threefold...as for bad things happening to you before you have the chance to do something bad, it evens out. There are always going to be obstacles, it's on you to decide to overcome and recognize that even when surrounded by negativity you don't have to be, and make good things happen, take initiative, and you will recieve what you've given. Don't just lay around waiting for happiness to arrive, if you do nothing, nothing will come back.
life is what you make out of it... if you make the right choices....make the wrong choices...so forth and well like you make your own destiny you make your own life
Well, what can I add to this? hmmm anything I would have to say is either been said or would very much pale by comparison. So, I will just say that I agree with everyone. Also, please allow me to reiterate that the name I use does not really imply that I am looking for trouble. I am not!! I believe in doing good deeds without expecting anything in return. I try to always have good thoughts about everyone. It is very hard sometimes, but hate has no place in my heart!
I empathise too much with people and i feel for them if i am mean to them and that hurts more than what they have done to me.
Seems a selfish reason to not be horrid but it seems to be working for me so far ...*smiles*
Cool Idea but to me thats all it is :(
my lil qoute on life I suppose is "don't start nothin then it won't be nothin"
oh shit that means im in for some hell and tribulation then.......*runs and hides*
some good stuff back there Cancer. now i am curious why i also here chistains denouncing reincarnation. i mean if it is in the Holy Book, then why would they say something like that isn't true.
some good thoughts on here, makes me wanna put forth some effort in thinking good, rather than thinking nothing or getting irratated for a few seconds.
P.S. The next time a Christian tells you reincarnation is heresy, you're armed with the actual scriptures that tell otherwise ;)
life to me sucks majorly.....i have the worst life i can get.
Im sorry for that, but its only up to u to change it. Or to turn it to be better.
life is a bunch of little tiny moments that would not matter alone but putting them together then they are an event
a word a saying may have different meanings depend on who is saying or where they are saying it and even circumstance
knock up
a fag
take a hit
all can have multiple meanings
perhaps since languages are so lacking reverting back to expressions of thought without text or verbal is in order?
karma is karma
but are you sure you know the meaning of what is said?
sounds to me like the ocean.....what we do has a ripple effect and it moves throughout society, so there's no wonder it eventually comes back. *shrugs*
i totally agree o the what goes around comes around way because its happend to me hundreds of times and its sstill happenin
.........maybe i should stop doing bad things........
Thats ball's or more eloquently "I tend to disagree" I mean you do something nice nothin happens to you but the min your bad DAMN every shit in the world crosse's over you like a freight train I remember for a whole day i was nice you know opening doors for ol ladies giving spare change to the homeless and helping my mates out then goes home to find my bro has been jailed yeah what comes around goes around how come i didn't get any mystical semi thank you tell you if I was bad all day you know I woulda got shitted on :)
I think we're paying more attention when bad things happen and when everythings peachy keen we're high on life.
what I mean is that when bed things are happening we are on guard, and tend to be more critical of things happening around us.
Chaos, maybe if your bro was opening the doors for old women and giving change to the homeless, insted of doing something that gets him into trouble with the law, maybe he would of avoided jail. What you done out of kindness and helpfullness, you will recieve in return,... Just you wait and see.. you could no way be in control of your Bro, i hope he is doing Ok, can't be easy where he is to say the very least... alot of people are looking at the bad side, but there is the good... really there is.. you can spend years and years doing 'good' and all you ever recieve is the bad.. it gets you dissheartened and makes you feel very low.. and such.. but if you wait and never lose faith.. something good *Will* happen and you know? When it does... It will make all the bad things that have fallen upon you dissolve like an asprin in water.. and you will feel alive again!!
my father always told me " life is what you make it, if you put something good in then something good will happen to you"
i usually don't believe in things you can't really prove or touch, like ghost , religions and stuff..but i do believe in karma, and when something bad happens to me i think back into the past and think it's just coming back around to kick me in the ass...
shit if i believed in karma i would be in shit i have made people's lives hell because what people have done to me will if you look at me you could say that karma has come to get me...... shit i better run........