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What causes you the most pain? Is it something emotional, physical, or spiritual? Details welcome.

I hardly ever feel physical or even emotional pain. I used to love causing physical pain at least for myself and I can't even cry or even feel slightly sad or a sense of sorrow over anything. So I suppose that leaves me with spiritual pain, but I don't even know if I can feel that. I guess my answer doesn't really help; now I'm even more confused, oh well.

physical pain i crave it i invite it, and as for what hurts the most like not in a good wasy= for me is emotional pain

Physical pain is the least of my worries. I'm quite used to it doing what I do.
Emotional pain is what gets me. Some people here have found that there are topics I'm not willing to discuss (few and far between, however some have managed).
There are few things on this god forsaken mud-ball called earth that keep me sane.
They are mine for the keeping. If I want someone in on them I'll let you know. But when someone attacks those things... I become very defensive and clam up and walk the fuck off.
Simple. Cut and Dry.
Fair warning...

Khayman

I completely agree with you Khayman. Emotional pain is the hardest thing i have to face, because it is always there, no matter how far you try to run.

Exactly ladies. Physical pain heals, but emotional pain can last an eternity.

Agreed, Janette.
Emotional pain is the worst for me. Physical is not so bad, depending.

I tend to be very emotional. If I'm attached to someone, you need to try and let me go slowly, or I'll basically flip out. Physical pain isn't too bad for me. I hardly notice anymore.

I have two broken ribs as of last night... unfortunatly... THAT I notice....

Oh dear-- darling are you alright?
What positions are you gettin yourself into where you mananged that?

Professional Pugilist.
Just Kidding! I'm MUCH better at kickboxing than I am at boxing...lol
Nah, old injury from kickboxing many many moons ago...
Rebreaks when it feels like.... course i was hit there last night... maybe that did it..rofl. Who the hells knows, anymore >:)

I ALWAYS wanted to do that-- tried it.... as I tried Rugby, modern dancing,etc.

Still need to get on that bellydancing idea, Squiddy-- my appologies, but it's hard when you're broke... and looking for a full-time job.

ahhhhhhhhh I have to agree that emotional pain can be the toughest - and that being said there are many reasons why to many to list in fact -be it a first love the wrong love your child upset - to a parent succumbing to the end of life - its all there for us to learn to live and carry on ... is why I like writing is my way of letting those feelings become more focused and understandable

Pain?!?! Ha! What is this pain that you speak of? (i'm kidding..of course, but i don't really know pain. We're not acquianted.)

Well, life hurts like a bitch..
And I see most of you have said that emotional pain hurts the most. I agree, though I call it pain altogether. Since I don't really feel anything else than that emotional pain I can't categorize the other types. Like physical pain.. It shows you you're alive. I don't even know what spiritual pain is. Kinda slow on that, sorry.. And not big in beliefs.
I really have no intentions of sounding like a bitch..>.

Uh, yes, I got cut off for some sick n twisted reason..But besides saying bitch twice (3 times now), I said something about loving all of you, pie, and being odd..>.

..And it cut me off yet again! Must be something about that smiley majiger that I type so when i type the last thinger of it it cuts me off..-resists from typing it- Eep I'm sorry for spamming, please don't hate me!

is this a different kind of pain the pain of so suddenly being thrown into the abyss when your mind is so deadicated to finishing a typed message and then the realization occurs that your no longer there to continue seemingly one can feel the fist hit the table lol

ROFLMAO!!!

YES!! :) You understand me completely.

It amazes me how these conversation flee from their original posts... Gahh...

I've pain as of late, mostly abdominal, but not... girly.
Starting to think it's my body telling me it is well enough to start training again.

I dont stuff emotional pain, actually im sure that I do I just dont know it...I can count the amount of times i ever remember crying on one hand.

as for physical pain, i dont really suffer that either, except when i stub my toes of have a papper cut they hurt like the worst pain ever...strange that!

Bein alive sometimes

i rekon that its emotional pain thats the worst. physical pain will go away, but mental ones take longer, and tend to linger unwillingly. think of it this way, bruises may fade, but the scars remain. the hardest pain to bareis the loss of a loved one. and whats worse is that we'll loose themanyway soon. thats what i rekon pain really is. the lose, andthe emptiness that no one will ever fill again...

Pain is not eating enough fibre.

Jason, we had a patient get rid of 8 lbs of pain in the ER last nite! They got REAL religious during THAT process!
(We hit 'em both high and low, if'n you get what I'm sayin') ;-P

I think pain for me would be in seeing people I love get hurt, or treated unfairly.

...emotional pain most definately is worse than the physical. giving and getting physical pain can be fun, entertaining and enlightening - especially with a twist of lime! %^D

Pain is relative based on perception,
but i do have to admit losing a loved one in any sense is the worst i have known

Bones break and heal,wounds can show up and go away,but if something touches your soul good or bad it leaves a mark.Ulness one can totoaly tune out thier emotions it can be the most desistating pain that can be nflicted on a person.

Has any one ever felt an emotional pain so strong that it becomes a physical pain in your very being. what is how i feel.

Has any one ever felt an emotional pain so strong that it becomes a physical pain in your very being. what is how i feel.

Has any one ever felt an emotional pain so strong that it becomes a physical pain in your very being. what is how i feel.

Since it was posted thrice, I'll answer thrice.

Yes, yes, yes.
It's horrible, horrible, horrible.

i have little emotion so i can feel no emtional pain, yet at times i have suffered brutal physical fights and that can sometimes hurt.

yes, Armond. I've managed that several times.
One still effects me to this day....and it started ten years ago.
It's managed to cause a lot of strife in my day to day activities over the years...
But I've come to realize that he never really left. He's with me every day and he lets me know in little ways... pulling up the blind in my bed room (he loved to watch the sun rise)... my shoes are moved around at the foot of the bed...
things like that (kind of like the penny in Ghost, these are things that he'd have done were he still physically here)...
Painfull little reminders of the time we shared... but also a reminder that he's keeping his promise. He will never leave me... and I'm thankfull for that. I know I'm never alone. Occasionally I feel his hand on my shoulder or a brush on my cheek... I'm glad he's here... at least *I* know I'm not talking to myself... (giggle)

That's absolutely beautiful, K.

Thanks, baby-cakes=)

mines mostly emotionally and mentally

I have been drained dry of all of my emotions...

pain-emotional is definitely the worst. It hurts you to the core. Physical pain heals. Mental pain is a close second to emotional. I cant deal with emotional pain very well-but I must. Its my calling, so I have to deal with others' emotional pain all the time. Its very draining and heart wrenching

being hated by someone that i love!....it hurts bad........gives me alot of pain...