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just a question but i want to know from people what they think. can you really hurt so much and to the point it makes you feel better to see others hurt?

yes i have expeirenced that before its not right though

yeah i know its not right but can you really control your feelings. yes, i know to an extent you can

hurting enough to want to cause pain to others......rather common I would think.....
as a species we do tend to get rather petty...when hurt ourselves....
and one can only control emotion to a point......more to the point the should only control them so far.....we are emotional creatures....not robots

what you said is a very good point

yes it is very possible for that. i think its odd though but yeah it happens. ive had it happen once.

It happens all the time.. I know when I hurt I want everyone around me to feel what I feel...to share my hate. People always say I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy.. yeah you would....

To see the ones that hurt me hurt. Sometimes when they hurt you and hurt you, and it seems as if they go about their life without giving it a second thought...then when you witness something actually causing them the same pain. It's a sick sense of satisfaction. It doesn't make what they did feel any better inside, but it cam sometimes make you feel a little better anyway if they really deserve it.

I feel total happiness whem a person who has caused me pain suffers.

It does give you a brief satisfaction to see someone else hurt but I don't think it's worth it in the long run at what point should it stop, maybe it's better to learn not to show it when others hurt you so that they don't feel satisfied

yes once we feel pain we tend to want others to feel the same..it takes control to stop wanting to make others feel pain due to our own

I don't like pain and don't want it, what I don't want to myself, I either don't want to others!

i could never do that. i like people to understand any pain i have. but i'd never be happy to see people i care about unhappy.

that's a bit inhuman

hehe I belive daermon said it well ... as an emotional creature myself .... all's I can say is I wish pain upon others as it has been inflicted upon me *shrugs* it's what makes my world go round *grinz* ... I just don't particularly like to physicaly inflict in myself!! (cept for contractions .. wish I could give those to someone else right now :| damnit)

i believe in what you wish for others it comes back at ya! its not only a wiccan believe but humanistic. i hate pain although i suffer alot of emtional pain caused by my own family and society but i dnt revenge myself coz in the end those who cause me pain also suffer much more harder than me. So i sit back and enjoy life as i can with a smile and honor!

Misery does love company. I have been there myself. I hate myself when I fee that way, but it is not inhuman to want others to be in pain with you.

yupp

I have to agree with all the above it's nuts when your in pain you want other ppl to feel it but worse than you wierd I know.

yes it is possible but again its not right, i have done it often but have always made things right with the people i hurt, although i dont tell them why i did it to begin with

Pain. Hmm yeah it is possible. But its also possible to feel so much pain it no longer hurts.

I'm with MissDevilLove here .. the pain that is caused to you will be visited seven fold upon them

its common for people to wish pain onto others for dealing pain to them

i've been there.

just wanting to thank eveyone for their thoughts thanks

you are sooooo welcome, my friend!

Why anyone would want someone else to hurt is beyond me....If I get hurt by anyone ...I take it all...deal with it in time and do my best to make sure I don't hurt people like that myself ..cos I know how bad it is ..why pass that on???..(wretched thought)

If I do hurt people ...I don't do it on purpose and am wracked with guilt more painful to me than how they are feeling ..I make sure of it...

Shameful to want others to hurt ...just cos we might be....dreadful!!!!.

How can the world be a better place if we are all running around wishing pain upon each other???

ppl do it to me alot actually kind of depressing but usually i just remove my self from there prescence

No I dont think, at least I hope I didnt. I always tried to think more on others. But ussually it is really hard to dont hurt others when you feel much pain.

No Pain No Gain

humanity deserves to suffer.....

Does all humanity deserve to suffer?

at one time or another

when im in so much pain, all i really want is someone to understand how much i hurt. It's fun to watch people hurt sometimes, i think it's kinda normal...shit happens.

as lenore said only sometimes if you think about it the ppl that suffer are the ones that dont deserve it and the ones that do well dont

i think it's quite natural to want the people who hurt you, or want to hurt you, to hurt as well... well it's definitely natural for me anyway.

it's happened to me quite a few times actually that i found myself taking a sadistic pleasure in watching someone who hurt me previously crying their guts out...

but then again i'm not a nice person :P

Yes! Pain is what this world go round! there is no country that was founded with peace, they were all made with war and suffering!Luckly for me I hold no attachment to anyone or anything

Yes seeing people hurt sometimes makes you hurt less

All humainty? Thats means your family, your friends, yourself.

Daermon you always seem to be one of the wiset on here...

Hmmm... I know when I see others hurt I hate it!

I think that Daermon has a good point too.
Humans have certain characteristics in common, or at least from my experience. and soem of these include defense mechanisms, which can often be causing pain to others to protect ourselves, or good old jealousy and revenge...

misery loves company
Yes I know it is possible to hurt so much that seeing another persons pain can be pleasureable atleast for me. So much suffering is wasted on those that can take it.

i agree with Gorey, when i feel pain (which is most of the time sadly) i don't want others to suffer with me, i just want them to understand that i am not in a good place at that time

i no when i see others hurt it always makes me feel bad but it always makes me feel better to see someone else hurting more than me

Ah, yes, revenge. Just got done writing a short story in my journal about revenge.

The moral of the story? Revenge does make you feel better. It eases your pain, for a brief moment. And then it hits. You have just done something so horrible, totally out of character. You're not like that. And the pain is back, only now instead of wanting revenge, the pain is out of remorse. The guilt. The sorrow. The loneliness. And you now seek forgiveness. But that never comes.

So is revenge worth it? Only if you can take the pain you feel now, multiply it ten fold, and then live with that pain after you have gotten your revenge.

i cant say for me it does i think ti kind of makes things worse for me to see others hurt.....it even worse when i hurt them...so i dont think it does for me i hate to see others in pain more then myself

At the moment I wouldnt mind vivasecting a few people

That is true, there is enough pain in the world without us passing it on.

If someone hurts you directly and its bad enough you hurt them in return, thats primative but true. If it didn't give you pleasure, or take the pain away in some manner there would never be fights. Isn't that what a fight is?,...someone hurts you emotionally or physically, and if someone hurts you phisically it automatically hurts you emotionally and you want to get them back. You don't want anyone to have higher status than yourself. It's all about competition for being on top or at least equal to. Because we are not animals we can choose not to hit back, or ague against a brick wall. We don't have to berate others who have wronged us. We can choose not to rob a bankbecause we are poor. ect ect. Well thats just my spin on it but it seems pretty universal to me.

Well we ARE animals,.... just more evolved,... remember YOU are an animal too. : )

I know my animal side all too well
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Okay, so I am in pretty bad pain myself due to surgery I had last week. I would not wish this much pain on anyone, but while I am suffering and the ones around me cannot relate on the amount of pain, I would like to say for the record that I would love it if they could feel what I feel for maybe two minutes just so they know what I can and cannot do. Then, maybe they could be just a little more empathetic. No, I don't want sympathy, just understanding and patience. Is that too much to ask. Oh, and one other point, I am not a vengeful person seeking any revenge ever. Revenge is not something I agree with.

yes of course.Am a very sensitive person maybe that's y I take things too seriosly.I can be evil as much as good.If someone causes me pain I want him to suffer million times more than me or maybe that all my enemies would have such pain like mine!So the answer is definately:YES YES and YES!!!