I am reaching out. I am hoping anybody reading this post can offer some help when it comes to protecting my aura from outside negative influences. I have tried various methods such as creative visualizations. I smudge regularly. I have even tried positive affirmations and protective"prayers" if you will. I still struggle with this after years of practice. Being in large crowds is difficult for me. We all have to work, grocery shop, etc. I can't avoid interaction with people. I work with people everyday. I know you've probably all been around that certain someone who is exhausting to be around. The one who drains you and does not let you get a word in. Cutting you off and constantly talking about themselves. So I ask. Any recommendations? What works well for you? Any personal experiences with this?Ever had that aweful trip to Walmart picking up all that yucky energy(lol)? I'm like a magnet!!
I know what you mean about going to walmart! As for the people that drain you and could care less about anything you have to say, treat them like the vermin they are. If it's impossible to avoid them just don't listen to anything they are saying, don't make eye contact just don't care about them. All the protection you need is inside of you. Believe in yourself!
It depends on those qualified "affirmissions" that you are posting about, as most of them do not work.
As far as physically protecting, the best course of action is to cross your fingers to where your thumbs meet, your arms as well as feet. This is usually done on a subconscious level so it could very well be instinctual.
An arcane affirmition for the protection from negative vibes and or spiritual manifestation is a prayer to the Arch Angel Lord Michael which is as follows:
Lord Michael before me, Lord Michael behind me, Lord Michael to my right, Lord Michael to my left.. Lord Michael where ever I go, the I AM presence protecting here, the I AM presence protecting here, the I AM presence protecting here.
While you are reciting this either mentally or verbally, you will need to take on a circular clockwise station and repeat each compass direction whilst calling on Lord Michaels protection and rounding the clock when you are asking for his protection the last three times.
You may feel a comfortable or cooling sensation surrounding you, like an air conditioner just turned on to know that it worked. Just don't take advantage of the affirmission or decree since it is only to be used in the time of immediate danger of the aura, soul or if you do feel in danger of either.
My daughter is like that. I call her an emotional vampire because her negative energy just leaves you drained after she leaves.
I am not sure how to stop it other than not see her but that is not an option so I kind of ignore her and only talk to her when I have to.
There are many ways to protect from being drained by other people and the easiest way that anyone can do it is by wearing an appropriate crystal pendant depending on what you want to protect against will depend which crystal you choose or combinations you choose
I visualize the white light surrounding me from a Higher Power.
I hate crowds, so I visualize mirrors with the reflective part away from me...leaving the negativity bounce away from me.
It is hard and it takes lots of condiditioning oneself.
Psychometry could also be a cause when one is so sensitive that if we pick up a object we can get the impressions of the person who picked it up before us.
So the vibration we could get is negativity...or some other vibration that the person left on the object.
Psychometry is a psychic ability in which a person can sense or "read" the history of an object by touching it. Such a person can receive impressions from an object by holding it in his/her hands or, perhaps, touching it to the forehead. Such impressions can be perceived as images, sounds, smells, tastes - even emotions.
Psychometry is a form of scrying - a psychic way of "seeing" something that is not ordinarily seeable. Some people can scry using a crystal ball, black glass or even the surface of water. With psychometry, this extraordinary vision is available through touch.
For example, a person who has psychometric abilities - a psychometrist - can hold an antiqueglove and be able to tell something about the history of that glove, about the person who owned it, about the experiences that person had while in the possession of that glove. The psychic may be able to sense what the person was like, what they did and even how they died. Perhaps most important, the psychic can sense how the person felt - the emotions of the person at a particular time. Emotions especially, it seems, are most strongly "recorded" in the object.
The psychic may not be able to do this with all objects at all times and, as with all psychic abilities, accuracy can vary, but the ability is available to the psychic.
Yes! Yes! Sounds to some degree like what is happening in my life! Could this be mistaken for Empathic abbilities or more or less the same thing?
Example:Sitting at a booth in a restaurant and suddenly not feeling yourself at all! Picking up on yucky energies the previous occupants of that booth left behind! Ruining a perfectly good meal. Thank you for the advice mentioned above in former posts. Last week I sat down and crafted 2 beautiful necklaces with defferent stones.I plan on wearing these alot to see if it helps.
Well if your a sensitive or empath not much can help even using incenses and chants etc.
as was said not much like that is gonna help. I myself and many in my family who have this problem we jsut try to avoid those who give off negativity and things that do.
I know you cannot stay lock up in a box, yet, you yourself, I feel have to control your own surroundings and learn to block the negative and also to locate and know the worst neg. energy that you encounter and stay away from it or just learn to become stronger than it, it is all about balancing your energies, I feel no matter what kind it is. we cannot hide I mean some can yet, most cannot.
I wish you well with this.
I get the same problem and I have found that creating a crystal like shield around myself that blocks negative energy but allows the flow of positive energy to reach me has been effective.
And at the end of the day grounding myself, and having a shower to rinse away anything that may have gotten through.
I also believe that every person we come into contact with leaves a umbilical type cord of energy so when I shower I envision these cords washing away and down the drain leaving me free and back to myself. :)
Well I understand the situation, as I have had that happen to me in my life. Lots.
For one thing, don't allow them in your space. Heed your feelings inside. If you start to feel a sick feeling in your stomach or ache to run away, then politely take your leave and go! It's important to take care of yourself.
If someone emotionally throws up on you, then you can jump around, jog, dance, to get rid of the negative energy. Also, taking a shower gets rid of it.
Then be around positive people. Those that don't want to take from you. And to feel good again, go play. Play with kids, or an animal, dance to music, create art, go outside and sit, be around nature.
Stay away from the psychic vamps and those that seem to think you are here for their emotional dumping ground.
I understand this
you just lay on the floor and close your eye lids gental ly.
make your body inactive make all your limbs and trunk and head inactive may head be in any position.
No act shall be in your body except your breathing
now hover the energy feel the wall going through your body from toe to head very slowly and unpluckyour stiff and stress and strain point and throw them like thorn. And that wall passes your head. do this two time. and move same wall feeling that this wall burns your all negetive energy of the body or around. do this two time.
Now drop your thoughts remove all thoughts one by one. and gaze on single dott in close eye lids. do this for 10 minutes and then open the eye and sit back.
second one most nice exercise shall i tell that?
Depends really on what you believe. With me I just imagine a shield around me that projects an invisible field of protection from Negative energy. Then I chant to my higher beings and ask for them to use that energy that I have in mind to form the barrier. I've never really had a problem with it working when I do it. That is if i remember to do it which I don't most of the time.
I wish I knew the secret to this...I seem to attract negative energy like lint to velvet.
-wear or carry cleansed crystals
-maybe a chakra bracelet with gemstones that cover each chakra?
-a charm bracelet that covers every religion you can think of? Like, crucifixes, the Star of David, Islamic crescent moon, etc?
In any case, I wish you well on your endeavor.
I just make sure my "frequency" is stronger than those in or close to my immediate surroundings,which it normally is anyway.And by that ,I dont mean being loud or obtrusive.Negative,positive...it makes no difference to me.
I have found that a liberal coating of baby oil and then rolling around in chicken feathers gives me all the protection I need
I would highly recommend checking the Journals of members here, We have alot of great Sire Mentors that are willing to share their Valuble information.
Spells, sheilds, pendants, etc.
have you considered a 9mm ruger? i find that is very effective in getting rid of negative energy.
jokes aside, i find that if i put my mind in the role of the hunter rather than the hunted then others negative energy cannot touch me....but...i can touch them.
~W~
Well people may tell you crystals, gemstones, symbols and what not, but what they fail to notice that is not the utensil that does the coating but the person charging them by believing so, then again that is only mentally energized by the notion that those things help on "X" things you are trying to shield from, all in all the individual itself is the one to control the factors not any crystal or utensils of the like, when a situation negatively charge is done by an external agent is the person way to absorb or deflect the charge that comes in play. I understand why is reacting as such, what I did, and how to change or transmute the resolution, when you fight back on a negative discussion you already let it get into your "vibration" if you knew how to deal with it and expressing in a subtle and yet convincing way you might change the charge and even the course of interaction with the ofendant. You could have a dress full of crystals but if your mind is weak and attractive to this charges the tools will serve no good because you are charging them and at the sane time tainting with the way you absorb in all interaction. This can be seen on the effects of water crystalization with the charge of emotion you deliver. So even if it sounds selfish when some comes to discuss in a negative manner think you are more mature to even accept the level and you will see that the person will change or stay with the negative pulse and you would be free from it, that's what the whole ignoring thing is all about.
Everyday I am in constant company of such people.In one
particular person.But I do not allow this person to drain my positive energy,if you allow such one to do so,than you will
face this at all times,try to advert this person into positive energy.How?if this person is predictable,then you already know the out come of this persons behavior.Then you can make a choice either accept this person as they are,or tell them how you feel.Which of course its up to you.
maybe u should keep some objects that are based on positive energy
Yeap, I agree. Some protective charm might work. Invoking your favourite God/Goddess/Spirit might make you feel better as well. Sometimes it makes you feel calm and safe. It might be chaos around you, but if you have something close to you at hand that brings you comfort, you should take it with you everywhere you go. Yeap, and also finding ways to distract yourself might work. I tend to focus on the small details when I feel overwhelmed. If there are plants around me, I reach out to them. Yeap. Hope you feel better the next time. :)
I hope this helps you in some way.
Creating a Shield:
Shields can take many forms and can be created in many ways. The method explained here will be based on visualization. Other methods exist that are closer to ritual magick which work just as well. The general method is to form energy around yourself that is programmed to allow only certain energy to move through.
Begin by clearly thinking through your purpose for the shield. Why do you want a shield? What exactly do you want it to do? Will it allow no energy in, or just allow good energy in? Will it be temporary (just when you are thinking about it), or will it be permanent? Will it be just defensive, or will it attack in response to negative energy?
Once you have a clear intent, begin drawing energy and let it swirl around you. You can picture the energy as anything you wish. Some common visualizations are soap bubbles, waterfalls, balls of light, fire, trees/vines, crystals, feathered wings or fur, tank metal, and armor. Choose an image that is appropriate to your personality and that you enjoy thinking about. Be sure that it doesn't make you feel cramped or heavy. Let the energy swirl around you in that form.
When you feel the shield is strong enough, let go. It will continue to maintain itself with whatever purpose you gave it as you created it. If it gets depleted over time, repeat the creation as needed to add more energy to it.
Shield Styles.
Maintaining a Shield:
Stressful conditions can sometimes interfere with maintaining a shield. Under normal circumstances, a shield will maintain itself for quite a while before becoming depleted. However, large amounts of negative energy, attacks, illness, and lack of sleep can all cause a weak shield. This section details how to maintain a shield more successfully under stressful conditions.
Daily Stress:
The most common difficulty with shielding is daily stress. While a shield often helps prevent psychic energy from adding to the stress, eventually the shield can weaken. The best cure is more rest, planned time alone, meditating, and avoiding environmental factors that are stressful. Daily (or weekly) meditation replenishes a drained shield and also helps relieve the internal stress that weakens the shield.
Empathic Overload:
Empathic overload is similar to, but can be more intense than, normal stress. As many empaths have realized, large crowds, schools, and cities are often filled with intense emotional energy. Empaths who are particularly sensitive to this learn to build very strong shields to keep other people's emotions separate from their own. The first few days of an emotionally intense environment can be particularly tiring if the empathic has not yet made a strong enough shield.
To protect from the empathic pounding of emotionally charged environments, meditation and careful examination of the self are very important. Meditation helps relieve the stress and emotional energy in a controlled way. It also gives time to identify the difference between empathic emotions and personal emotions. By identifying the self carefully (especially emotionally), an extra layer is added to the shield which defines "own emotions" and "external emotions" and separates the two. This helps external emotions bounce off harmlessly.
Effects of a Shield:
A shield can have any of multiple effects, alone or in combination. A shield can keep energy on one side or the other, or act as a filter to allow only certain energy inside. It can convert energy from one form to another so that a filter is unnecessary. Shields can help empaths keep out some of the extra emotional energy so they don't feel overwhelmed.
Shields can also define boundaries in the physical world, which people will tend not to cross (often without realizing why they stopped there). The edge of a shield can be used like a psychic alarm; when someone physically crosses it, the person sustaining the shield gets a psychic warning that someone is nearby.
Shields have whatever effects you intend them to have when you create them. Just like any psychic ability, energy follows thought. Whatever you are thinking about and planning when you create the shield will affect how it is created, so that it best matches your thoughts.
Shutdown:
Shutdown means stopping all psychic activity, totally but temporarily. Shutdown can be useful if shielding is impractical or difficult to do. Shutting down all psychic perceptions can give you a chance to figure out what you have experienced, recover from emotional surprise/shock, and help you return to normal reality.
Shutdown is accomplished by focusing all conscious thought toward the physical world. You can do several things to accomplish this. Become involved with other people, preferably with a lot of social interaction and discussion. Do physical activity; walk around, stretch, jog, or do anything else that makes you more aware of your physical body. Let the thoughts of the psychic experiences float away like a dream, without concern about them. If there is anything you especially enjoy doing, like games, programming, writing, art, etc., involve yourself deeply in that. Do anything you can think of to keep both your mind and body occupied in the physical world, and don't let memories of psychic experiences distract you from it.
When you are ready to restart (and move out of shutdown), simply start opening your perceptions again as you would when you first practice any psychic ability. You can do this at any time, whenever you are comfortable and ready to do it.
have you tried a warm bath in nutmeg &thyme tea burning a white candle lay back free your mind of everything except how fiercely you wish to will the negativity away and say this
O Goddess within; O God within; O Goddess of the moon, the waters and the earth; O God of the sun, the forests and the mountains; I need to feel Your presence. I need to be reminded of You. Assist me to remember Your lessons; Show me the key that will unlock my spirituality. Blessed Be! Goddess Prayer Beloved Goddess of the silver moon! Mistress of mysteries-Queen of the sea! I call upon thee in ancient names- Artemis, Cerridwenn, Hecate! Beloved sister of the hidden wood! Child enchantress-Star of the night! I call upon thee of the untamed wilds- Descend with your laughter and secret delight! Beloved Mother of the ageless womb, From which the many worlds, at once, were born! I call upon thee of the gentle Earth- From whose breast, and whose belly our bounty is shorn! Beloved wisewoman, spinner of fates! Weaver of dreamwebs-bearer of death! I call upon thee of the waning skies- Grant me your vision and open my eyes! Goddess I ask thee to live within me! Grant me your knowing, and show me to see! Lend me your wisdom and love for all things; Goddess of magick, I call unto thee! Artemis, Cerridwenn, Hecate! Artemis, Cerridwenn, Hecate! (Repeat until her presence is felt all around) Incantation Blessed Be! Be silent Be still Resonate at will. Resonate within yourself Feel the energy Feel the wealth. Crystals heart Loves mark Radiant to all. Color spectrum Divine light Echoing its call. Trusting now Flying wide Reaching out within. Listen close Ignore no more For now it is time to begin.......
Nice advice in here. ;)
I will correct the original post remark on being a magnet. You're not but you are indeed a battery! All batteries make a magnet field though and whence the aura.
So you can see why the smudging and showers/ baths help. They clear the aura and remove the yuck that you, and all of us, pickup. Especially in Walmart.
Once you get conscious of this feeling and why it happens, you can also understand why you feel the way you do to other people. They're filthy - literally!
And also, as a battery, opposites do attract. When you get that clear aura and healthy attitude, you will need to make a change in your life. Family and friends will need to change to match your lifestyle. Tough to do but there are different types of "family. " Unless of course you like the opposites you are attracting.
I would venture here that it is far more likely that you are reacting to your own emotional perceptions of the people around you rather than that their emotions are acting upon you. Thus, as you have a more negative perception of those found in, say, Wal-Mart, you react negatively to them emotionally. Whereas, should you enter another environment that you perceive -- correctly or not -- is more positive, you react more positively.
It is, therefore, not they who act upon you... but instead your own attitudes and perceptions, which have infinitely more influence over your emotional state, that is in plain evidence here.
While this will probably not be a welcome explanation given that this places the responsibility for your attitude and your perceptions solidly upon yourself, yet this provides a far more logical and reasonable explanation for your constant struggles with "negative" energy" than in blaming all such on others.
You and only you can choose your attitude and your perceptions of the world around you, whether that attitude be positive or negative.
Two quotes I dearly love speak far more eloquently to this deep foundational truth than anything further I could possibly say:
"We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances - to choose one's own way."
— Viktor Frankl "Man's Search for Meaning"
“Two men look out through the same bars: One sees the mud, and one the stars”
— Frederick Langbridge
- Upir'
I gave the last quote incorrectly. Here it is in its correct form:
"Two men look out the same prison bars; one sees mud and the other, stars"
- Upir'
I've totally been where you are, my dear, and crowds are still tough for me! I have a hard time during concerts because of everyone's energies meshing and invading mine, but sometimes I just ignore it so that I can enjoy the performances that are being given. Anywho, I'm going off topic!
My suggestion would be to not only work on protecting the aura around your body, but practice techniques for psychological protection as well. Usually we forget how fragile our minds really are, and how sensitive they are to the energies around us - we often think energies just go with emotions.
You seem to be good with visualizations, and that is what helped me block people out of mine and it helped me live a little more "normally". The visualization I practiced was to first imagine a sheet of white light around my entire body - the white will protect you from any negativity. Then envision a black sheet above the white - this will absorb the negativity and keep unwanted energies out.
If you have any new age stores near you that sell crystals, it could also help if you purchase stones that have protective energies within them then carry them with you at all times, either as a piece of jewelry or just having them in your pocket. If this idea strikes your fancy, message me personally and I can give you a list of crystals that can help you out. Good luck! *hugs* :-)
"Smile, and the world smiles with you, Fart, and you stand alone."
Good luck.
Pain is a natural feeling that will be expierenced in every person's life
It is the wayt it was meant to be
I agree with UPIR'. Do not even let anyone break a "pleasant" day. Sometimes, it has to be all about you, not others. Not to say that comforting or helping someone through a tough time is not good, cause it is, as the rewards will come back to you. Just pick and choose your fights. This is coming from someone who has seriously seen a rough time. At the end of the day, everyones troubles are different and are of some greater or lesser degree than yours. The question at hand is, how YOU deal with them. There is alot of help on this page, pick some and ask questions, or as one said, read some journals. Good luck.
Mark