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Throughout my life I have had little weird things happen here and there. Like knowing something will happen before it does, either by feeling or dream. I never had a hard time of ignoring these feelings and dreams before. The older I get the less control I have over this kind of stuff and I just want it to stop. I don't want to get panic attacks and have nightmares right before a natural disaster happens. I don't want to feel sick all day because a little earthquake happens a few states over. How can I get this to stop? Any suggestions? I've tried meditation and that has made it worse, what can I do?

This happens to alot of people,and so many do not even know what it is.Changes in Barometric pressures and energy build up in an area just prior to an earthquake can make a person feel sick or anxious.I would suggest just making sure you recognize it for what it is and lean to accept and deal with it.Physical exertion during these times is one way to do this.best of luck!!

i know what your talking about i dont know if i can help or not because im the same way i really dont even know if it works because i still have them and i really want to learn how to control it but i tend to have nightmares true more often when my body gets really hot when im sleeping so when i keep my room really cold when i sleep i dont have them as much and when i do have the dreams i dont know when or where its gonna happen i just know that it is gonna happen and i get a like déjà vu feeling when its about to happen but its not always bad because a few years back i had one about me being hit by a drunk driver and i had that déjà vu feeling and my guy just started turning in to major knots so i was close to my sisters house so i went to her house and woke them up and stayed there for a bit then i went back on my walk and just like im my dreams a truck ran off the road and hauled butt down the side of the road and if i didnt stop at my sisters house it would of put me right in frount of that truck so since then i respected the dreams and spent alot of time trying to learn more about them and i found out im not the only one in my family that has them my mother dose and some people on my grandmals side of the family but try that and try not to go to bed all stressed out that helps too

learn to accept.. anyone with real knowledge has to..

.. or, go nuts.

Earthquakes shake the ground at many frequencies at the same time and there does appear to be ULF involved in pre Earthquake events .We as humans have intuition, as well as being capable of detecting these ultra low frequency waves with our bodies.In your case,it makes you feel sick.
Think about this..Seiche affect is what happens in the swimming pools of Californians just prior,during and after an earthquake. It is “an internal wave oscillating in a contained body of water. Seiche might start just prior and continue for a few moments or even hours after the generating force is gone.The amount of water in our bodies is about 2/3rds our body weight.
Animals pick these things up and so do we.We just have to learn to recognize,accept and if its that bad,somehow counter it..maybe a track of music around the same frequencies..which are normally about 10 htz and lower,and/or again,some exercise.

Here are a few things from my journal that I thought might help you look at this a little ....


Here is what the NewScientist article says: "Many animals can sense the Earth's magnetic field, so why not people, asks Oleg Shumilov of the Institute of North Industrial Ecology Problems in Russia. Shumilov looked at activity in the Earth's geomagnetic field from 1948 to 1997 and found that it grouped into three seasonal peaks every year: one from March to May, another in July and the last in October. Surprisingly, he also found that the geomagnetism peaks matched up with peaks in the number of mood disorders i.e. depression, anxiety, bi-polar (mood swings) and even suicides in the northern Russian city of Kirovsk over the same period."

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The NewScientist study goes on to state: "The most plausible explanation for the association between geomagnetic activity and depression and suicide is that geomagnetic storms can desynchronize circadian rhythms and melatonin production," says Kelly Posner, a psychiatrist at Columbia University in the US. The pineal gland, which regulates circadian rhythm and melatonin production, is sensitive to magnetic fields. "The circadian regulatory system depends upon repeated environmental cues to (synchronize) internal clocks," says Posner. "Magnetic fields may be one of these environmental cues." ....

http://earthchangesmedia.com/publish/article-9162523562...



Does the Earth's magnetic field cause suicides?
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn13769-does-the-ea...




Solar and geomagnetic activity, extremely low frequency magnetic and electric fields and human health at the Earth's surface.
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/klu/geop/2006/000... ;jsessionid=7c6qec08905la.alexandra



Schumann Resonances

A large number of studies have identified significant physical, biological and health effects associated with changes in Solar and Geomagnetic Activity (S-GMA). Variations in solar activity, geomagnetic activity and ionospheric ion/electron concentrations are all mutually highly correlated and strongly linked by geophysical processes. A key scientific question is, what factor is it in the natural environment that causes the observed biological and physical effects? The effects include altered blood pressure and melatonin, increased cancer, reproductive, cardiac and neurological disease and death. Many occupational studies have found that exposure to ELF fields between 16.7 Hz and 50/60 Hz significantly reduces melatonin levels. They are also associated with the same and very similar health effects as the S-GMA effects. The cell membrane has an electric field of the order of 105 V/cm. The ELF brain waves operate at about 10-1 V/cm. Fish, birds, animalsand people have been shown to respond to ELF signals that produce tissue electric gradients of ULF/ELF oscillating signals at a threshold of 10-7 to 10-8 V/cm.This involves non-linear resonant absorption of ULF/ELF oscillating signals into systems that use natural ion oscillation signals in the same frequency range. A long-lived, globally available natural ULF/ELF signal, the Schumann Resonance signal, was investigated as the possible plausible biophysical mechanism for the observedS-GMA effects. It is found that the Schumann Resonance signal is extremely highly correlated with S-GMA indices of sunspot number and the Kp index. The physical mechanism is the ionospheric D-region ion/electron density that varies with S-GMA and forms the upper boundary of the resonant cavity in which the Schumann Resonance signal is formed. This provides strong support for identifying the Schumann Resonance signals as the S-GMA biophysical mechanism, primarily through a melatonin mechanism. It strongly supports the classification of S-GMA as a natural hazard.

http://www.springerlink.com/content/8v55rmjq469fl3dn /

As you can most likely deduct,taking any or all of this into account ,this might be what is affecting your dreams and sleeping patterns during these times.


http://paraquake.com/id10.html

You are negative minded sadly. If one frets about enough bad things happening they are bound to get a ball park to something that actually occures.. here is what I notice is missing.. No mention of being able to "premonition" good things. So ease up on the negative disaster thoughts, and problem solved. think "What good can happen."

dabbler i dont think that has anything to do with the topic

we cant control what we see it just happens and i think bad things have a grater impact on the force of things then good things witch is the reason why i think its the bad things that come to us in our dreams if you look at prophecy even the end of the bible its not good and is my belief that tragedy has a grater impact and can leave an imprint and defy natural law of things even time like something bad happens to a loved one like when my grandfather died before it happend my mother had a dream of it and tried to warn him or something grater the event that happend on 9/11 was so great the tragedy was so great many people had seen the event but unable to do anything about it because what are we to do who would beleave us if we said hey we had a dream someones gonna fly a plain in to the world trade center it would be pretty much the same like when my mother warning my grandfather and in the dreams we have no idea of when its gonna happen and most times of how and where like all i seen was a building collapsing from the inside the day i seen my death i was only able to prevent it because i knew the road and the feeling i had on the day when everything kept falling in place like everything has happend before and i had no idea what it was i just knew something bad was gonna happen and some of the things about me that i have dreamed i got the same feeling before it happend but had no idea about what it was till it was to late untill i ended up in the hospital when i was younger witch has me to be more alert to these feelings and dreams and when i do have good dreams never happens there just a fantasy that i wish would happen and i learned to be more alert to whats around me so when i have these dreams i know what to look for so to some degree i learned how to control my ability on at least a small level so the thing you said about thinking about good stuff it wouldnt work trust me i have tried we cant control it like that im sure alot of us wish it was that easy

For some however it is that easy.
It is important to learn of and understand ,if only in part how a certain technique might help.It might not be enough for you Toxic to think of positive things..but it might be for someone else.Even if their experiences are equal to that of your own...

yeah but thinking positive has nothing to do with the dreams ima really upbeat person still i cant controle dreaming things that come to pass

For me,they can.With dreams.I dont let them freak me out anymore although I am always amazed.

Well then Mr. Toxic,

Then you are investing far to much in your dreams. are you hinting that you are a Prophet? Sounds like a horn blowing party.

never once did i say i was a prophet rain asked for help i am just stating what i have learned from my self and my feelings and dreams i cant control my ability but to the point of paying attention to my dreams and my surroundings wile im awake to help with what she can see and do and to be honest we all who have our dreams thats all we can do as far as i know you cant just think happy thoughts and they just go away

It isnt about "happy thoughts" as in cute and cuddly and all that.I do understand what he means and I am here to say,positive doesnt always mean happy in this context.
Awareness is an important factor..as stated in a previous post.

but by definitions we can be considered prophets since we can see things that come to pass to be more specific me and dream would be put in the category of doom prophets since all we can seem to see are bad things happening and if we can observe and people were more open to us we can probably help others and save a few lives but like i said its rare that we have much to go on even if we do observe whats going on and all the people that think what we say is bs dont really help ither

It always seems to make things better when you follow your gut. ..but to what extent is up to you Rain.

also you can try meditating clear your mind before you go to bed and every morning when you wake up and when you have these dreams wright what you seen in your dreams down and in your dreams try and control what you do and observe what all goes on look for details or markers you can remember so you if the event dose happen make sure you have a chance to get out of trouble if the dream involves you or you those close to you even tho you see some bad things we are in a place to help those we care about if you can get to the point to where you can observe what you need to you might be able to look at a watch get the time and keep an up to date calender get a time frame of when this event will come to pass you may have dreams of things cant change like a big event like a war or an attack on places you dont know but like the smaller ones like those of your friends family and your self are small enoff that you have a chance and i believe we who can see are givin our dreams for a reason and this is why i dont want mine to go away i want to be able to control them because there is so much we can gain from them i think everyone can have our dreams just for some reason there are those of us sensitive to them so we can pick up these dreams a lot easyer then most people and i think some people have the dreams and dont even realize it because alot of people forget there dreams after they have them most of the dreams people can remember are the ones they have when they first go to sleep and before they wake up when we dream we have so many dreams before we wake up and a lot of people dont even know this

Good suggestion, but I believe Rain stated that meditation did not help?
I would like to add if I may that when one has a precognative dream,it normally isnt one you forget.At least,thats been my experience.

I reitterate, accept.

There are things out of your control and things within it, learn which is which...

yes learning which is which is something that i really need to work on more!

i dont know but i wont give up on controling my dreams its something i plan on doing i dout i can stop having them but trying to gain more knowledge from them is my goal and every time i get a chance i talk to and read up on the dreams hoping to be able to have better control of my abilitys

i agree with dabs,
once i had an ability that freaked me out, i got rid of it, and now i realize how it would come in handy.
There's always a couple limits you can place though, like going into meditation, opening your third eye, and drawing a boundary closer around your person so you will only get a panic attack or something if it is going to happen to you directly

Angelus makes an exceptional point Rain. Acceptance of what you are going through is the first step in understanding "why" it is happening.

Meditation opens your mind to higher consciousness while maintaining physical control of your pulse rate and breathing. However, in precognitive phenomenon and lucid dreaming, the whole of what you cannot control in any such event, while devastating emotionally/empathically to the senses...such intensities are prominent for a reason...which is the spirit of this question.."why is this happening to me?"

In my own experiences, I have found it is not so much the actual event that is of consequence as it is the need for lending ones' spiritual strengths to those who are directly involved. Being indirectly involved in such phenomenon does not make it any less subjective to how these things affect ones' psyche.

I simply pray with all that is in my heart for those who are hurting..somewhere in this world..wherever they might be..whatever they might be going through. I release all those who are in harms way into the hand of the Creator. Unless I am directly involved in an experience that I receive actual "specific instructions" as to what needs to be said or done, I find that praying for those spirits who have passed over due to trauma helps to ease the sincere pain that one feels from being tapped into the world's energy.

Write about it - or everything for that matter. Like your dreams - feelings - what you've seen - emotions - all that jazz. Yeah.

And then in time, you'll compare what you've written before and way before and the present.

Write!

"I would suggest just making sure you recognize it for what it is and lean to accept and deal with it."

I cannot stress my words to you enough.It is when we ask why it happens to us that we find ourselves feeling as though we are "burdened".It isnt a burden and when we accept it for what it is,and better yet,use it in the fullest capacity,you will be amazed at how much better you will feel.

Fear is not good in this situation,as this in its self feeds into the negative.
I believe if we are wrapped up in the worst possible outcome it will more likely happen that way..
On the other hand if you can eradicate fear and use what you dream about as a warning system, then you can start to making a positive difference in whatever precognition you might have.
The difference between concern and fear is your ability to act or react, fear has a tendency to render you incapable of acting and/or reacting to your individual circumstances. Concern however,will allow you more freedom to act wisely.

The King is correct, journal entries and speaking to others who know something of these things. Of course, this would expose you, should you be truly different.
It maybe wise to think about the consequences.

Unless I got it wrong the thread was What can I do?

I'm a walking radar gun when it comes to people. I have a bullshit meter that goes off all the time, and I do make people uncomfortable when I come straight out and tell them they're shooting a line of crap.

My dad used to call that the gift of discernment. I called it calling a spade a spade, or being able to stand in a cow pen and not have a problem with saying it's fill of crap, instead of just suggesting that something stinks.

I'm also pretty good with meeting people for the first time and getting a good read on them. I'm rarely wrong.

I don't trust impressions gained on the internet. People can say anything on here, and you have to look for patterns to get a handle on what they are.

Anyway that's what I can do.

I know people who have this problem. Yoga and meditation might be an answer that you need to try.

I agree with Angelus
My condition is even more intense than what you have described...

you must learn to cope and deal with it.
Yes, meditation will make it worse because it has you focusing on your inner persona where these powers lie.

yes this makes sense although I hate to quit meditating because i have done it for a very long time and it calms me down some what after a hectic day!

I have a suggestion for you. There are websites you can go to for weather activity in each state. Perhaps you can link into those websites and look at them a couple times a week, do not obssess, but look at them and when you see or notice activity then use your personal physical energy and focus it on one item even if it is something as simple as polishing the furniture.


The point I am trying to make is that when you start feeling those feelings its a good way to know if its you or the acitivity around you and then focus your personal energy on other things. counter act it if you will.

the way i see it you have been givin a gift

Here is a little on what I was explaining to you RW....


Snippet from
http://www.cabinetmagazine.org/issues/5/acousticsofwar.php
Infrasound is an amazingly effective weapon under the right conditions. A small percentage of the population is so unbearably sensitive to infrasound that they become nauseous near the ocean (which naturally generates low-frequency signals) and can sense, or "hear," earthquakes hundreds of miles away. Ultra-low frequencies will nauseate and disorient most people under the right conditions (that is, if the sound can easily couple with their bodies, which it does under water or in a high-pressure chamber).

There are notable cases of people encountering low-frequency sounds under such conditions. In one case, Walt Disney and his team of cartoonists slowed down the 60-cycle tone of a soldering iron in a short cartoon. At a low-frequency 12 cycles, they became sick for days afterwards. The inventor Nikola Tesla experimented with low-frequency vibrating platforms that he motored using simple "eccentric" wheels. He found that standing on the platform for a minute created a pleasant buzz through the body. Remaining on the platform for any longer than a minute aggravated his subjects' hearts and dangerously raised their blood pressure. His friend Mark Twain once got on the platform and refused to descend. As the author Gerry Vassilatos writes, "Tesla's concern was drowned out by both the vibrating machine and Clemens' jubilant exaltations and praises. Several more seconds and Clemens nearly soiled his white suit."3

In 1957, inventor/robot scientist Vladimir Gavreau, attempted to build a low-frequency weapon after accidental exposure to infrasound. While working in a concrete building that housed his laboratory, he and his fellow researchers periodically became debilitatingly nauseous. He discovered that the nausea ceased when certain windows in the building were blocked. Eventually, engineers traced the problem to an improperly installed motor-driven ventilator that activated an infrasonic resonance in a large duct where it sat. The motor, coupled with the rest of the concrete building, itself a large enclosure, formed an infrasonic amplifier. Shutting the windows altered the resonance of the building and shifted its infrasonic pitch.

that is interesting as well, sometimes the frequency sounds can give me a head ache, which has me wondering about other things as well now sense reading this article.

I know someone who can do this,what shes does to stop things,is to send energies around yourself with crystals to keep things from entering your mind,expecially in you sleep.

Similar to the working at something to cause a diversion, the Zen meditation technique may provide relief. Get in a comfortable position with the least outside stimulae (street noise, tv, radio, etc.). Close your eyes and concentrate on nothing. Imagine a starless night or a blackboard to start, as this technique will require practice at first. Stay in meditation tuning everything out as long as you feel comfortable. The more you practice the technique the more effective it will be.
My sincere wishes for your emancipation from the phenomena you describe.

"I don't want to get panic attacks and have nightmares right before a natural disaster happens. I don't want to feel sick all day because a little earthquake happens a few states over. How can I get this to stop? "

-easy, stop saying shyt to get attention on message boards or do something to prevent these 'disasters'
People in america claiming to have some sort of esp are a dime a dozen, though not one of you has every done anything to save a life...you just wine to those poor souls who are desperate to believe in anything other than the real world with the hopes of gaining the attention mommy and/or daddy didn't give you.

If you have a problem w/anxiety GO SEE A THERAPIST!

Seriously people if you are going to fit about having 'magical powers,' esp, or whatever - prove it!

There are so many good suggestions here. I hope you can find peace with your talent! And I would continue meditating if it helps you.

Please, don't hate me for my comment. LOL. I am going to Psychoanalyze you in according to your question. You wrote: "don't want to get panic attacks and have nightmares right before a natural disaster happens. I don't want to feel sick all day because a little earthquake happens a few states over". To me that tell me that you are young and most of the time don't believe in the paranormal activities that are happening everyday of our life. to have a panic attack, is because your emotion and feeling are controlling you, and is suppose to be the opposite. So, if you have those specially quality, use them to best of your knowledge. I assure you, this is the beginning of a journey, the most you open yourself to them, the most you will learn about you. Bye!!

A little something about Empathy that hopefully might help a little...

Author: Oceanne
VR Publish Date: Jul 25 2010


We as empathic beings might always find ourselves picking up other people's problems and emotions. If they are sad, We are sad. If they are happy, we are happy. If they are in pain, we are too. Many times separating our emotions from theirs can be difficult and really confusing. It can indeed make living life rather challenging. However, don't despair, as we all have the ability to choose to experience the emotions of others or not.

We naturally fluctuate our energetic vibrations to match those around us. Everyone does this to one degree or another. If someone is sad, angry, hurt, or happy we have a tendancy to match our energy to theirs so we can feel what they might be feeling. Much of the time, we do this automatically in an attempt to experience and take away that person's pain. But we do not need to feel another's pain in order to ease it.It is very important to remember that.

So how can you stop yourself from matching the emotions of those around you? You do this by keeping in mind the mechanism of entrainment. Entrainment is the tendency for two vibrating bodies to lock into phase and vibrate in harmony.This is natural, all humans tend to do this and it is found in almost everything. From the sounds of crickets chirping in unison to the tick of the clock.

Have you ever been around someone who was in a really good mood and you found yourself beginning to feel good too? Or how about when you are around someone who was really sad or mad. You start to feel the same way.
This is a result of entrainment, which results in empathy.

The soloution to keep from constantly feeling another's emotion is to keep your frequency higher than those around you. And in doing so, your frequency will not drop down to match the frequency of their sadness, anger, pain or frustration, but will cause them to match yours. The result?They will begin to feel better. So how can you keep your energies high? There are several techniques to help you do this, and I will cover them in another article.

They say that misery loves company, but it isn't very nice to have a room full of miserable people. Nor is it very helpful.

Take it upon yourself to be a beacon.... a shining light during the storm.

This will truely help raise that person's spirits as opposed to making you feel sad or mad by lowering yours.
~end~


Also,as far as you dreams go.I have had these type of dreams all of my life,and often. What I noticed early on is that the dreams that have proved to be precog have a very specific feel to them and I learned to recognize that feeling and act accordingly.Learning to do this might help alieviate some of the anxiousness you feel.

sometimes the side effects are worse when you fight against the gift, where as if you let the energy flow and fully relax the side effects will lessen

This post caught my eye having dealt with a similar experience myself in my younger days. I used to think in all honesty I was nuts when I would have these spurts of knowledge. I met a women who explained to me not to fight it, not to let it scare me, and not to wish it away. She pointed out that I was actually focusing more on it when I worried about it which increased it. Sometimes the best path is the easiest one, except it, don’t fight it, and look for the positive aspect of it. When you become relaxed with the idea it’s no longer a problem that haunts you.

I did not gather the symptom exactly what you are suffering from...

mediation can not worsen the things and meditation is the name of bringing the person to balance mind state may there be paranormal happenings or deja wu effects going on. Person doing mediation remains most balanced in such circumstances and takes it even happening such as how the birds are flying here and there, everywhere. ;)

This is interesting. I have similar experiences, being able to tell when something bad(or something at all) is going to happen by feeling or dream. I also have an anxiety disorder, you've made me wonder if they are connected.
Have you ever tried treatments(non-chemical) for anxiety aside from meditation, breathing exercises, etc. when you're feeling anxious? Kind of a conventional method for a unique situation, but it would be good to try every option :)

Wow...Will love to meet you. Premeditation of event, is coincidence of time. Mean, is what your ego and your subconscious that are telling you that you think that you are. But, is not you. There is no human, who possess cells, that can see the future or even, feel when something is going to happen.

Maybe it's your approach instead of thinking of it as a hindrance maybe you should try to make peace with it. Strengthen your gift and exercise your body and mind so the physical body won't develop symptoms that cause you pain. As we are approaching 2012 i'm afraid your symptoms are going to get worse.

a suggestion, when you know it will happen, so focus on the after once all is over and all is fixt and everyone is safe.

Just a suggestion, you could even warn people, that are close by and aware of your hability

You know Mem,have you ever tried anything like bio feedback?So you could hear the results of your attempted meditation.

That happens to my mom. She feels ill all day because an earthquake is about to happen and stuff like that. She just has to put up with it :/ But there's probably a way to stop it, if you think about it (I'm not that much help XD)

The problem is one never gets a little geo locate google earth pin point.
Its just a felling followed by dreams.
I normally get the country but details...no...so its almost useless.
P.s.(Nothing on the radar at present)

You sound like an empath. Changes in the EMF, electrical lines, faults in the earth, all sorts of things can affect the empath. Some depending on the belief system will refer to you as a "sensitive," but most are influenced by the nature of their surroundings on a variety of levels. Precognitive dreams are not unknown but are not the provence of the empath alone. This would be a side issue but it can set things off for higher levels of consciousness to kick in.

I also have a question... I have dreams and visions.. i cause storms and leave my body. i can see the future and the past...sometimes i dream what will happen if i dont become what i once was in the beginning. My memories have been stolen from me. there are a few things i do remember before this life but not as much as i should. i have had demons tell me its my turn that times up ive had lucifer shades etc attack me.. i am blocked someone has done something to me and i cannot defend myself. what do i do? i need council once again.

I am not sure about dreams they are hard to control but according to the folks below Doomsday is going to happen this Saturday 21st with an enormous earthquake.(9.8)
The minister has spent 140 K $ on a New York Times add, yet I and other sensitives feel nothing ( as yet )

I will wager 140 K they are wrong, all the bad starts starts in 2012 and doesnt finish until 2028.


http://edition.cnn.com/video/#/video/bestoftv/2011/05/19/exp.nr.avlon.doomsday.real.cnn?iref=allsearch

I found that the best way to deal with this type of thing is to keep a journal net to my bed. When I have a dream, as soon as I wake up i write down as much information that I can remember including colour and smells, date the entry also.

Keep that or a seperate journal to carry around with you, write any thoughts in that one.

Over time you get to see patterns in your dreams and meditation, pointers for your own life and how to deal with it. You can also refer any thing you feel is a premonition to news articles and see how accurate you are or not.

Many dreams of disaster are coincidental because there is always disasters happening all over the world. Earthquakes, fires, floods, murders they are day to day occurring. Picking out the details in your dreams that pinpoint your premonition to a specific location will help to see if what your experiencing is indeed a premonition, thats why you must write it down as soon as you wake up before the dream gets lost over the day.

The only way to deal with this is too accept it until you can prove one way or the other of its really a gift or just an overactive imagination,

Good luck

Indeed this does happen to a lot of people. In my past experiences with this type of thing i also got panick attacks before something happens. I have learned through time to accept this as a gift rather than a disease and through that realization i have been able to calm myself down tremendously when an attack comes on. it will get better though. Best of luck and blessed be

Does anyone have any suggestion on.. keeping demons out? i wake up and im face to face with one or i wake up and i see dead bodies in my room. they come in different forms.. i keep seeing this particular one in dreams in foresight.. across land.. and no i dont have an overactive imagination what i say is truth

One thing you might consider looking into is Atonia.
Here is a link to an explaination.
http://www.medterms.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=9811


Best luck.

I knew someone with the same thing but he harnessed it to help him discover things.

i would try going to a medicine women, or try yoga and those kind of relaxing things. good luck!!!

I find it remarkable that even though there are several explainations for these type of events,we still insist that these are paranormal .Granted,some things are beyond our scope and cannot be explained as of yet,but even so,there are things that can be.
If you get sick before an earthquake? Hmm,a rare gift of the paranormal? I doubt it, because this is actually pretty common in people as studies are beginning to show.There are several reasons this could happen to us.Take responses to piezoelectric energy.
You could be feeling sick simply because of this.
Perhaps your house sits on quartzlike cap rock or some other quartzite rock structure.
Seeing ghosts? Try looking around to see if there are transformers or other electrical things that can emit ELF and the like.ELF is known to cause feelings of being watched and other unpleasant feelings...including hallucinations.
There is just so much out there when it come to natural phenomenon and its affect on us.
Why do we always choose to ignore them?

I guess what I am trying to tell you mindbender is to maybe consider everything..mundane as it is, and take a good look around your enviroment and instead of automatically attributing this to somekind of paranormal "gift" that only a shaman or medicine man can help you with and only a few peeps have.You might be surprised at what you might find.
most times we CAN help ourselves in these situations fairly easily if we only look.

and Oceanne, you forgot to mention Mental Illness as a cause for what many describe as Paranormal. There are many mental illness' that cause halucinations, paranoia, the feeling of being watched, talking in your ears .....the list goes on

maybe there just mad

try and learn to embrace it and control it a bit you might find it very helpul at times.

This is very true LB.and thanks for adding that aspect.But unusual things do happen to so many people ..those who arent mad.
Im am a firm believer that some fantastic things happen .Based on my own experiences..but I also believe we miss identify most of them, attributing them to the supernatural or rare,when in fact,they arent rare or supernatural at all.

there is really no way to stop it ...you have to learn to control it ..not let it control you.

I am not so sure control is an absolute, you may control the physical side and lean against it.
However at critical times it may take you down or alternatively force you into knowing or suspecting that which is to others is the unknowable.
I predicted an unlikely outcome today? madness? no, it was more prophetic. A question, so I see a littel of the future here and there? What does it matter?
It matters not, for our own self worth is blown out of all proportion.

Acceptance is hard when the results are so upsetting. Small steps are useful. Perhaps start with one aspect, say the idea that something will happen. The actual event may still rattle you, but if you can accept that you are able to premonate events in the future, you are one step closer to accepting the whole package.

As was said somewhere above me, "you have to control it, not let it control you." That's absolutely correct. You can't live your life in fear of knowing these things. Maybe you can use it for good. If you know something bad will happen, you can warn those involved.

I was born precognitive as was my father. It has saved my life at least once. Use it.

Of course Oceanne I fully agree, I only feel a small percentage are maybe mad so to speak, and the rest well its there own ego and sense of self importance that makes them jump up and down screaming i'm psychic. I have seen so many people behave this way in the spiritualist national union movement here in the UK

when, like you said, it happens more frequently than most would like to admit

Or led by furious spirits?

i would see a psyciatrist or however u spell it. not saying ur crazy... just they are the best to help people figure out how to fix these kinda issues i think... : sorry im no help