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Discoveries

20:12 Mar 31 2008
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I'm learning that right now I have very little patience for stupidity or people that just want to act up. My hold on my temper is frail and I fear loosing it a lot. Understand I don't like being angry matter of fact I truly hate it along with the fighting and hurt that comes with it. But it seems I'm overly sensitive right now at least for my normal way of handling things.



Watching my behavior constantly to stop before I do or say something I wouldn't normally do is getting on my nerves but I don't know any other way to handle it. I mean I got behind a fellow on the road the other day and it's a 2 lane road with a 55mph speed limit. It's clear and dry but he's only doing 40mph until we finally get to a passing zone where nothing is coming and when I move over to pass him he speeds up until I was caught by another oncoming car and had to fall back behind him again, then he slows right back down. I so wanted to lay down on the horn and introduce him to my 3rd finger while riding his bumper so close he'd see the pissed off expression on my face. Not Cool! Yes he was a jerk but the behavior I wanted to act out would have been much worse, a dangerous jerk isn't the response I ever want to give to another driver's mistakes. But that's just one in dozens of instances where I am so close to flying off the handle that I scare myself.



Grief takes time, I've been down this road before and know the turns but I don't have to like them or find it easy.



My family and friends have been very wonderful both in real life and online which has been a true blessing. There are not enough words to ever thank them all enough.


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temporary2
temporary2
01:10 Apr 01 2008





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
03:11 Apr 01 2008

No thanks necessary, as it is what you would do for me and anyone else. It will take time and time to adjust as you said. Its part of the process, just do some things for yourself and know we are always here for you dear.



KCRC
KCRC
03:39 Apr 01 2008

Hang in there, it's all part of grieving. Cut yourself some slack, you've earned it.



Back when I lived in North Carolina there was an incident on I-40 outside Winston-Salem. Someone was driving in the left lane driving 50 in a 70 MPH zone. A long line of cars was in the right lane. A car came up behind the car in he left lane. It tailgated the slow car for several miles, flashing the high beams. Finally the driver in the car that wished to pass hit the bumper of the slow poke several times. He pulled over and let the faster car pass. Luckily a Police Officer saw the incident and pulled over the faster driver. They let him go with a warning, however, as the faster driver was Richard Petty! Only "The King" could get away with that.



I hope that story brought you a smile....The best part is that it's true!





Nightgame
Nightgame
12:58 Apr 01 2008

Thanks KCRC, yes it did give me a smile as I'm still a King fan. I'd have let him go too! *hugs*





Elemental
Elemental
20:28 Apr 01 2008

No causing wrecks allowed but........if you wanted to stop him and beat on him a little......I would think between Rat and I we had the money to bail ya out. :) Course.....you could just gather with us and all three of us tie one on....:)





 

23:03 Mar 22 2008
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I don't have any real ideal of what I'm writing or wanting to write at this moment just that I feel the need to let some of this spill out of me. This has been the hardest week I have ever experienced. My father died 20 years ago but I didn't have to deal with all the arrangements that time it was shared with my Mom and 3 brothers and sisters. This time it was just my sister and I as one brother lives out of town and couldn't come right away. (I suspect he was having to work his way up to coming home to face the loss of mom) the other brother decided this was the time to throw a hissy childish fit and toss away his family. His choice and his loss and we've moved on since he direspected our mother so horribly and though he agreed to help make the arrangements he then refused to even help set the time for the funeral. Piss on him, I'm tired of being the one to have taken care of mom so many years giving up much of my life and most of my freedom to do so while he did whatever he wanted and pursued any interest or traveled as he chose. Then when I needed his help to make simple decisions to ensure the proper respect was shown to Mom, he acts as he did and refused to come to the visitation or funeral. Hell he went to work while the rest of us were at the visitation making sure everything was just as Mom would have wanted it. I've decided I don't want to deal with him anytime soon. I did everything I was supposed to or was asked to and then when it comes to the crunch he bails. I may allow him back into my life in the future but not until I'm in a much better frame of mind.



The Rat and Birdy saved my sanity and health over the last week, keeping myself and my sister going even when we fell down. I cannot begin to explain how much they did or how much I and my family appreciated them. Even if one of my uncles decided Rat and I were "partners" lol


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Elemental
Elemental
00:19 Mar 23 2008

Birdy got left out of the threesome....gah...

In any case..it is what friends are for Con. Love you!





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
00:23 Mar 23 2008

In times like this, you tend to see the true colors of people. I'm sorry dearest.



I'm glad to see you vent your feelings in here. I'm also glad to see that the Birdy and Rat took good care of you and your sister. *hugs*




KCRC
KCRC
00:28 Mar 23 2008

*Hugs*



Everyone deals with loss differently. It is sad your brother chose to deal with it in this manner. I am sure he will regret his actions sooner, rather than later.



I'm so happy that the Rat and Birdy were there for you.





RedQueen
RedQueen
08:23 Mar 23 2008

My brother did the same thing, sugar- both when my mom passed on 14 years ago, and when Daddy left 4 years ago this month....it isn't as hard for me, cause I knew he was going to do it- I expected him to be an ass, and for once he didn't disappoint me on that issue...



We love you, all of us- and we will do whatever it takes to get you through this...just let your brother go his own way- you don't owe him anything.





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
13:38 Mar 23 2008

well I think he is a fuck tard and I will say so if I see him any time soon. :)



But that is alright... you and your sister handle it perfect. Your mom would of been proud.



Yeah- You could knock me down with a feather with the "You and your friend come over... we accepted you both" Damn lucky I did not bust out in laughter. LOL






 

Awful Pain

08:25 Mar 18 2008
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Mom was feeling sickly today but I couldn't get her to go to the doctor or the hospital or anything really but fuss with me. I wasn't able to sleep tonight because I was worried about her so I sat with her and near midnight she would no longer respond to me. An ambulance ride later to the ER and she's dead of a heart attack. I cannot believe how much this hurts even though I knew she had emphysema and it could get bad I thought I'd have more warning than this. She felt no pain they say and probably doesn't remember anything since this evening when we were talking about tomorrow.



My darling Rat came to the hospital and hugged me and my sis and helped us get home. She also did the one thing I just couldn't make myself do and that's let down the recliner that mom was sitting in (and did all the time) that the ambulance folks lifted her out of and left up. I just couldn't face that but Kay did it for me. I finally had to make her leave and try to sleep a little since she's got a very early job today.



My aunt and uncle came in just then so she did promising to come back as soon as she gets back to town. An hour later and they finally go home, my uncle is going to contact the preacher mom would have wanted and get that arranged for us. My sister and I will go to the funeral home about 11 and pick out the casket and music and stuff. My elder brother is making arrangements to get home asap.



Now I'm alone in the house we shared and it's very quiet with the oxygen machines turned off and the tv Mom always listend to so quiet. What the hell am I doing here you ask? I wanted to put this all out of my head so maybe just maybe I'll sleep a bit because there's an awful lot of things to do tomorrow and all I really want to do is cry.


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meeper
meeper
15:39 Mar 18 2008

~hugs~





KCRC
KCRC
16:11 Mar 18 2008

I am so sorry.



*Hugs*





artemka
artemka
18:55 Mar 18 2008

There are no words



*hugs*





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
21:14 Mar 18 2008

Dearest as I said in the forum thread, lean on those friends you have on here and in real life. You are a wonderful friend and were a incrediable daughter. Your mother knows she was loved and you were there for her.



*hugs you close and offers you a shoulder to cry on*




RedQueen
RedQueen
21:37 Mar 18 2008

You are in my heart, and in my prayers, honey- I can share that pain with you, as you well know. If you need to talk, you know where I am, I am only sorry your puppy couldn't be there to give you a hug in person...





queenmorbid
queenmorbid
12:59 Mar 19 2008

I am thinking of you and your family. I am sorry for your loss, and as the Owl said, you have friends who are here for you and love you, if you need us. You are in my prayers.





NIGHTSHADOW13
NIGHTSHADOW13
16:30 Mar 19 2008

Madam N?



My own father passed away when I was 19 of emphysema, and I remember well a similar scenario, so thus can fully understand and connect with your present situation. I am here to offer valid support, ok?



Sincerely,



Ade Xx



PS: the ones who have left us have gone to a better place, have just gone 'a little earlier', and always leave something of themselves behind, so are very much still here.



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Fun time

02:56 Mar 15 2008
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Love the new vamp box it's awesome even if I still have a few bugs with it when I use it but I'm sure I'll figure it out eventually.



Met up with a bunch of friends there tonight and spent a couple of hours (wow) in the box having fun and stirring up trouble. lol Some folks would come into the box while about 7 or 8 of us where talking hot and heavy and yes several of them were admin's but they were there just like me, talking with friends and checking out the new box.



A couple of folks came in watched a minute or two then got a bit nasty claiming the admins were abusing their power and doing things they wouldn't let anyone else do. I'm sorry but I was there for the whole conversation and they were not. The conversation was fast at times very silly but in no way abusive toward anyone in anyway. The members could have joined in and been made welcome if they had wanted to but instead tried to be mean. I don't get it, we were having fun and hurting no one. I think the new private room function might be the way to go from now on when we want to have fun but then others cannot look over and see their friends playing and join in. :(


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LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
17:14 Mar 15 2008

As I asked for it in the middle of the idiot's rant at us for the swearing, I think a ignore button would be a wonderful addition, so if you don't want to see someone's comments....you have the option not too.



I was in on that conversation....as i pointed out then, its all in the context. Me calling you a bitch and then laughing about it because of a comment you made, well that is a joke between friends. No harm no foul. But when the person you are swearing at doesn't like it, or it is done mean spirited, that is when it has to be stopped by our Admins. They are volunteers, so I wish people would give them a break




Nightgame
Nightgame
19:32 Mar 15 2008

You're right the context makes all the difference. An ignore button might work but I think the new private room chats will be fun to work with too.





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
01:55 Mar 16 2008

*smiles* yes- the zoo in a private room would be great.





artemka
artemka
20:38 Mar 16 2008

Yup, but the problem with all these rooms is which one to go in ..... I get confused





 

A very good time

01:30 Mar 14 2008
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I came out of lurking tonight since I have been in way too long wanting to get my head together and be a good person to talk to and finally tonight I felt whole. So I peeked out and sure enough I got to talk to some of the greatest people in the world, some old friends a couple of new folks talked with me and it just felt so darn good. lol



Thanks everyone but especially Radu and LadyKrystylnDarkstar, you make me remember just why I love this site so much.


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radu
radu
01:31 Mar 14 2008

You are very welcome.





 

Quiet tonight

02:53 Mar 13 2008
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I've had a fairly quiet night and spent a lot of time reading through some of my favorite journals. Catching up with friends is more like it as I have followed most of these for a year or more.



I still think there are some amazing minds here on VR, personalities that awe me and tickle my funny bone a lot. I am in a quiet place myself right now and finding little to inspire me but not really down either. Just floating along with no oars or motor seems to fit me at this time.



I see there are flare ups around the rave with seems like a lot of the same people stirring up trouble "again". I don't get the joy they find from messing with other peoples lives or happiness or even doing their jobs.



Makes me want to be able to grab them and shake them and say "you agreed to the rules when you signed up- live with it or leave!" or on the other hand slap them silly and tell them to grow up and quit acting like a 3 year old. lol



Probably a real good thing we don't have virtual computers yet, can you imagine a hand suddenly flying out from your screen to slap your face for being an ignorant ass? Oh yea we need to invent one of those- not!


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LAZARUSAD
LAZARUSAD
22:59 Mar 13 2008

You've definitely got your eyes open and I agree on your thoughts. Kudos.





RedQueen
RedQueen
05:32 Mar 14 2008

occasionally I find myself needing to use the "virtual bitch slap" option...lol





Nightgame
Nightgame
14:33 Mar 14 2008

Ah RQ, that's it the very name I was trying to think of lol





 

Not Cool

01:15 Mar 11 2008
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Was reading through some of my favorite journals and chanced to glance at the vamp box and find the following comment posted twice.



XXXXXXX: actually Im trying to figure out if this girl in my neighborhood is mature enough n pretty enough for a relationship or at least a good bang or two.



Any way I read it I find it offensive but it's probably just my age showing.


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KCRC
KCRC
02:06 Mar 11 2008

MMM...No, that would definetly be offensive!





MysticMoon
MysticMoon
02:09 Mar 11 2008

i have to agree offensive and immature





meeper
meeper
15:44 Mar 11 2008

It is completely offensive. Thereis no reason to broadcast one's sexual life in the vamp box. In fact, it seems to indicate a lack of maturity on his part.





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
03:31 Mar 12 2008

Nope not your age, just shows the kids now days really have no respect for other people.





RedQueen
RedQueen
05:32 Mar 14 2008

Nope- it's offensive-





 

Strange day

20:39 Mar 10 2008
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I tried posting to a thread a few minutes ago only to be refused and told I had to be of level 2 mosquito before I could post to the forum. I blinked a couple of times and looked again at my information, yep still says sire. lol So I clicked out of the forums and then back and tried again and it worked fine but for a moment I thought I'd been judged unworthy and sent back to start over.



In a way I wish I could recapture the idealism I began on the site with thinking I'd make some interesting friends and have some interesting discussions. Yes that did happen and I'm thrilled with my friends and the things I've learned since I joined. I still miss the competition of the games but it's just the way people behaved that caused the problems. Too bad since all they did was hurt other members.



I'm back in my house today and very happy to be home though I had a wonderful time visiting my friends in the Coven of Covert Correctitude but home is home. I am back with all the fan fare my friends there could give me but I do have to wonder what I'll need to do to earn Sabastion's mark back. It took 10,000 Favor the first time but now that's sure going to be hard to come up with. lol I don't need it to be sire I've passed the need for that up long ago but I do miss the way it looks on my profile. lol I know I'm silly but I'm happy that way.


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Home Sweet Home

20:38 Mar 08 2008
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I am truly enjoying my visit to the Coven of Covert Correctitude, the people there are very friendly and intelligent and know how to have a good time too. lol No doubt Ade has something to do with that snippet.



But it is strange to not slide into the halls of Umbrae Octo and chat with the ladies and gents there. I have always enjoyed the people in UO and part of it is such vast differences in us that makes conversations so interesting. Add in that we all have quirky senses of humor and you can imagine the fun we have there.



So while I am having a wonderful time and happy that I went on furlough when the time comes to slip back into UO I will be very happy.


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temporary
temporary
15:36 Mar 09 2008

I am happy to see you having a wonderful time, my dear friend. :) They would never bar the life of the party. It is better without a wet blanket like me, there.





NIGHTSHADOW13
NIGHTSHADOW13
14:15 Mar 13 2008

Madam N!



I fully appreciate and understand what you say, as a good team is one to feel loyalty to, always, but I must say as an Honoured Guest of CC you were perfect, and the honour was all ours!



Sincerely,



Ade XX



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Thank YOU for risking a trip in the NIGHTMARE CARRIAGE...;)




Priss
Priss
02:14 Mar 14 2008

That's 'cause we have pix of your breasticles...and we're not afraid to us'em...LMAO...





 

Anxious

01:38 Mar 07 2008
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I'm out of Umbrae Octo for a weekend visit to the Coven of Covert Correctitude. I really enjoy doing this sort of thing and the folks there are some of the best VR has to offer starting with Ade, the coven Master. He leads by example and it shows in the folks there.



But I must admit that even though Sabastion gave me permission to do it and promised to let me come back home Sunday night there is that small part of me that wonders if they will now bar the doors and thank heaven the nut case is gone. lol



I'm going to have a wonderful time I know it and will have lots to talk to my house mates about when I get back home.


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LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
04:10 Mar 07 2008

Well if you come and visit us, we will bind you in our "Padded Room" and allow the resident Dragon to bar b que. *Giggles as she skips away*



meeper
meeper
04:13 Mar 07 2008

Enjoy traveling around. It definately is an eye opener to see some of the other communities in VR, but luckily you're only headed to ones that you know is full of good folks.





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
16:49 Mar 07 2008

I heard it was a trick. They just using it as a way to make you leave.....



*grins*






Nightgame
Nightgame
21:45 Mar 07 2008

There's my dirty Rat! lol





NIGHTSHADOW13
NIGHTSHADOW13
16:36 Mar 10 2008

Madam N?



It was a genuine privilege to entertain you this past weekend for the MARCH MAGICK WEEKENDER, and I thank you sincerely for joining with us in Hellcat Manor, having been deposited there by the NIGHTMARE COACH of Covert Correctitude, your presence amongst us appreciated by All!



Sincerely,



Ade XX




 

Way Overdue!

03:45 Mar 04 2008
Times Read: 1,198


Just recently I've went back through the rates I received especially when I first joined the site and before my profile was fixed any bit. So well over a year later I decided to send a message to those who rated me below a 6 and ask for a re-rate. I expected a few messages asking me if I was nuts or just rate crazy but I'm not about to change my user name especially just to up my rating and yes I know there are many other reasons for the change, I'm not judging you just saying how I feel about it for me.



But I received nothing but nice messages and even nicer ratings. Thanks everyone for coming over and having another look at it since I have redone it quite a bit lately.


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Maledicta
Maledicta
08:25 Mar 04 2008

Yeah i've found that in the majority of cases, all it takes is a friendly, polite request for someone to re-rate you. It's those members who demand a re-rate that tend to get ignored.





RedQueen
RedQueen
21:19 Mar 04 2008

I did the same thing not too long ago, and of the dozen or so people I messaged, NONE of them came back to either answer me or re-rate





 

Feelings

19:34 Mar 01 2008
Times Read: 1,224


I feel like a whirling deverish out of control and not sure where or when I'll come to a stop. Fed by incoming winds from every direction no way to turn off the flow. I would love to have a switch I could throw to halt the flow if only for a little while. Calm eludes me at the moment and all I can do is go along for the ride.





*for my friends- I'm not upset or depressed actually just feeling strange*


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RedQueen
RedQueen
06:08 Mar 02 2008

*puppy wanders in and reads entry*



*puppy goes back to puppy pillow and digs out a chew toy*



Wanna borrow my chew toy?





Nightgame
Nightgame
06:37 Mar 02 2008

Sure you won't mind cat cooties on it?





temporary
temporary
16:22 Mar 02 2008

Is there any way I can help you?





LadyChordewa
LadyChordewa
06:54 Mar 04 2008

The song comes to mind..."People are strange..."



*hugs*





Vampirewitch39
Vampirewitch39
15:49 Mar 04 2008

* NOT touching the strange comment above* LOL









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