hi, my question is how would i block someone from getting my emotions going then sucking off me??
Im not positive but fairly sure that this is happening to me.
Is it possible to remove yourself from this person to see if that is the case?
If it is, some people have taught me to learn "shielding". Many people do it their own ways , which is probably the best since it mainly requires you to focus on yourself and imagining placing yourself inside of a "bubble" so to speak to ward off those who are trying to do so. I'm no professional here, just going by some hints that were dropped to me by some friends of mine. :)
You can use black tourmalines and labradorite crystal gemstones to provide a shield of protection against psychic vampires.
To repair the damage created by them you can use Rosemary. Rosemary tea or a rosemary bath will help heal you and your aura.
A good physical shield is to cross your fingers to where the thumbs met the thumbs, the arms, and or the legs. Since any of these combinations block anothers aura as well as their psi energies from coming into contact with your own.
I agree with Soulshroude crossing any part of your body will block them from feeding off your energy.
I'm pretty sure that staying away from anyone who has the potential to drain you is also a good solution. Sometimes peoples negative energies drain us way too much..
Amethyst works for me. I carry a piece of it on me most of the time. I also try to focus on my inner lightbody to help ease and balance my emotions if someone is trying to provoke me for some reason. I just do that by focusing on the present moment, and looking at myself from within. It's hard to explain, but it is similar to quieting the mind.
I have shields that work for me as well. I picture light emanating from the sky above descending upon me, and more light rising from the core of the earth. I circulate this energy around me to form a protective sphere. Then, I visualize a bar of energy projecting outward coming from the axis that links all the chakras. I spin this bar around me so that it forms a moving barrier.
I also recommend Konstantinos and some of his books. He has a few techniques to help you learn how to conceal your thoughts. I've found that they are helpful.
I'm not sure how someone would consciously do this. I'm naturally amune do to my specific form of autism.
Once they stir your emotions, it is too late. A true Psy-Vamp knows how upset you to obtain the maximum energy drain and I am sure you can feel the effects. The only way to block the vamp is to control your emotions.
there's a great book by Melita and Denning Phillips called 'Psychic Self-defense and well being'
I recommend it to anyone in our society.
well, if some is sucking things from you without your consent you should avoid this person since most psychic vampires have a very strict rule about not doint that to unwilling people. And I've heard that most simple blocks and shields are effective in stopping them. It doesn't really matter which block you try just make sure you believe in it all the way since its the intent that counts.
doru is correct you must learn to control your emotions the others are good sugjustions but a powerful psy-vamp can always find ways around these things believe me i know
is this thread about psy vamps or empathic vamps ??
you ask about blocking psy vamps but talking of emotions.
2 different forms of vampirism one feeds on negative energy the other on emotion.
as for blocking a psy vamp I would say learning how to balance yourself and centering one's self relaxing and having a strong will should be plenty to block a psy vamp
as for empathic vamps I will go into it just incase since your question was derived from them.
that one is a bit trickier however showing a lack of emotion the void of having any usually waivers off a empath because it would be pointless to try and dwell into one who seems too droll to drain.
kinda like an artist with no muse for inspiration it becomes a form of writters block and they move on to the next target.
Visualization is a good tool to help along with the crystals and such mentioned. Something as simple as thinking of yourself in a bubble, even a plug being pulled from a socket and seeing that socket sealed up.. something simple can help you focus and funnel to seal yourself off from having energy syphoned.
people telll me its hard to ward me off but easy to get my energy which i dont get.?
lol im stiil triyin to learn to focus
Many people always think the moment they get drained that it is a "psy-vamp" doing it.
Maybe if you look at it from this aspect, it could just be you're overly stressed. Take a bath, listen to soft music, and relax, I can bet you won't feel so "drained" afterwards. :)
Well if you lear to partition your mind than you can usually keep emotions, thoughts and such out of reach of those who practive getting in there. It has been something that has always worked for me, but i have been using this for years.
If you don't want some one to feed off you then just stay away from them. If you can't do that then you should try building a mental wall to shield yourself. Some amulets can help you with that.
stay away from this person and keep some distance and see if it affects you in a more positive way.
By blocking your emotions and walking away so that you wouldn't give these people enough time to feed on your energy, thats what I would do
you can block off most psy-vamps by doing simple blocks. usually if you cross yourself you can keep them away.
A swift kick to the crotch works wonders. Avoidance would be ideal...if that doesn't work, kick 'em where it hurts. Drain their energy.
There are some sheilding spells techniques that could help. Also you could try a stone or such that helps keep you grounded or centered. Once you are more grounded it will be easier for you to contain your energy, instead of sending out everywhere.
Does anybody think something like occulmency will work??
Hmmmm... i think this could work... but also I wonder if that only work when you have to deal with Legilimency ...
anyways.. my oppinion is that the best is avoiding psy-vamps.. that of course works when you know who can drain you...
I'm in agreement with TigerLilith- I would say shielding is your best bet. There are also some crystals that help protecting yourself psychically.
Does Occlumency and Legilimency even exist outside the Harry Potter books??
Although yes, you can teach yourself to put up walls within your mind, I don't think it's necessarily called that.
As to blocking psi-vamps, first you'd be best trying to figure out if the person even knows they're doing it. If you know who it is that keeps feeding off you, simply speak to them. They may not be aware of what they're doing. Once they're aware, they can work on it themselves and you need do nothing.
If this isn't an option, then you may need to consider blocking your energy flow, but until you get used to it you could feel sluggish.
There are many different ways to do this but probably the most popular, and easiest, is the one already mentioned; imagine yourself in a bubble.
Personally I like the 'shock-em' technique, although it doesn't work all the time; if I feel a psi trying to drain me, I send a blast of energy their way which stuns them. But you need to know who it is doing the feeding for it to work. But they don't do it again!
i find this article is most helpful, I hope it helps you.
Creating a Filter.
Stay away from the person, for one. There are lots of people that come to you because they know you will listen to them for hours, or dump their crap on you and feel better when they leave. It comes in several forms, those psychic vamps. I got rid of them in my life. That means I have mostly online friends now. I can click off if someone is taking too much.
But if you are forced to be in the company of someone, you can see a white bubble of light around you, like a force field keeping things out and that helps. Also, you can jump around and take a shower afterwards or dance if you are around them. That helps to shake the energy. My Reiki teacher taught me that.
But really, you have the power to allow or not allow people around you. Choose wisely who you allow in your space. This is your life and time is ticking. It's too short to hang around assholes.
The most I can tell ya is try to avoid the person if possible (if you know who it is specifically) or, if you can't, visualize a protective bubble surrounding you. But that will only work if you really believe it will.
I'm in agrement with Doru on this one. Learning how to control your emotions is the best way to stop it. You can also use gems stones and crystals that can help protect you from being drained as well.
Hope that you find your answers.
Thanks to ALL of your imput Ive stopped contact and it seems to have worked although i miss this person i see it wasnt a healthy relation..and in the future i will try the bubble tech. if need be ..thanks to all again. JJ
This discussion has run its course, and I am closing it to reduce redunant posts.