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Ok i know this is so over played and exscuse me if im not good at this this is my first post.... My mother died Dec 19, 2007 and it has now striked my attention that stuff around here seems to be out of the ordinary... Like stuff is moved, missing, or broken... No one around here claims to be doing it... I have even been cut and scratched from nothing... My electronics and pets are acting strange... It stay freezing in the house with even a fire and the heat going!!! Could it be the soul of my mother trying to carry on with life???

Last january she was diagnosed with cancer and started losing abilitys... she went to treatment but it was too late they said, it was too progressed... slowly and tormentingly dying, she fought to live as long as she could... a month later i dropped out to take care of her... i made it through thick and thin, but we still had spats.... Her dying was not expected at the time she did pass, and she didnt expect it either....

My question is from your expieriances could the stuff around here really be my dead mothers soul??? And if so what should i expect???

could be... i understand that people who died normally comes back to their place to communicate...
you just be calmed and (i dont know your belief) try to do a prayer for her... or simply talk to her...
as if she was there with you... that helps a lot...

I agree completely.
If she has somthing..yet left to do,
she will remain untill she gets the job done.Weather it's staying to watch-over..or to do somthing that has yet left undone.
Don't worry about it.

yeah just talk 2 her & pray u know cuz it iz hard 2 know if this is true or not but just what ur heart tells u

All I can say is, if you're being "cut and scratched by nothing", then I sure hope it's NOT your mother's spirit doing that.

if you think it is her. Then try to talk to her and help her find peace.

First of all I want to say sorry about the passing of your mom.

Things that are moved are they favorite things of your mom's are they moved to places she liked them to be in?

The cold is a indication of a spirit especially if only one area is cold.

Try talking to her and see what happens

what about the broken stuff

i believe stuff break for a reason,could be a spirit,or the change of the temperature

it might be that your Mother is trying to let you know she's around, talk to her and say a pray for her. if it starts to get scary take a deep breath a say loudly "spirit go away!" this usually works.

This might sound a bit unsensitive, but was there something in particular that she really wanted/needed to acomplish before she passed on? If so, try accomplishing that goal she set.

she said ahe wanted to be there when i got married and had children and stay my friend through thick and thin....

It could be your mother or another soul and comforting the spirit and calming it would be the best bet for settling things down.

It could be the spirit of your mouth, or any other soul.

It is possible, you need to sit and talk to her, try to help her feel at peace with her passing, that its ok. let her know that you grieve for her but will be ok even though she is gone. you may have to do it more than once. but its important to help her be at peace with her passing.

I would have to agree with you, that it is your Mother. I have had several family members die,and can feel their presence at different times. She may be knocking things around because she died too soon, and she is angry. There may be something you are doing that displeases her. Like others have suggested, talk to her. There are things that only she knows. You'll eventually know for sure if it's her.

Uhhh ... in my previous post, I meant mother ... not mouth ...

sounds like your mother might still be around if you ask me

Sorry about your mum I wish I knew a quik spell being wiccan however it would be entirely up to you I cannot an will not mess with anothers will,this is sensitive,did you have an argument or anything shortly before she passed?

yes about a guy....

was the argument about the prementioned guy enough to stir her up. Like get the thought on the back of her mind all the time?

the guy i lost my virginity to!!!!!

That would do it she is soo pissed no seriously I think she had gone through the anger part but maybe still needed the ok now we come together n talk about the ins n outs of your relationship protection that stuff chat with her about how you feel then sleep well sweet pea...sachamoon embraces you.

yikes shes gonna kill me

Think of it as an unseen consiousness. Let her begin to realize that you not exactly her 'baby' girl anymore and your old enough to make decisions. Shell get used to it and leave you alone....unless she just straight knows this guy is a punk that aint right for you. Im sure they know better in other-world.

No ,lol she's your mum she loves you.

when he found out i may have been pregnant he split..... she wanted his number... i wouldnt give it i told her if he wanted to leave he could

Your mom will always be there to watch over u and try to guide u in the right direction

since she is mad about that, what will happen if he comes over???

youll probably get a hella bad vibe. Ya shell be pissed, but i agree with sachamoon, shes prolly just lookin after you. Dont take your bad vibes for granted anytime in the near future. Its your lookout 'talking' to you.

so she wouldnt attack him or anything???

and ive also been feeling like im being tickled and she loved to tickle me is that her too???

From what your saying, she doesnt seem like poltergeist type entity. The tickling on the other hand may be your fond memories of her and your just having wishful thinking, or it could be her missing you...a lot. Just let her know that if she does continue being pisses as she is, that her behavior is scaring you. Hopefully her caring for you will cause her to cease

if i leave here can she follow???

Ussually spirits of that nature are bound to a specific area. In this case your house. I can say for sure, but they ussually are.

dont they call it releasing the spirit

Perhaps you should tell your mom you love her and its ok to move on. Tell her to come back and visit when she can, but she has more work to be done elsewhere also. Let her know one day you will be reunited again. Help her to find the peace she is looking for.

At least try to talk to you about this all. If it helps. imagine her image in your mind and speak to her.
I wouldn't hurry with your friend coming over to your house, but maybe you could try to explain to her about him, too.
If that's the reason, your friend, why she is around, then she will not be at peace until she is satisfied with something.
Are there any persons near your house who could help, anyone who could talk to her spirit?

Sorry, in my previous post i thought "talk to her", not to "you.
I apologize again.

I am sorry for you for the loss of your mother, my prayers are with you and your family. I think that you and your family should pray for your mother soul, pray to have her released from earth.

i have two friends that do that kind of stuff but im nervous to tell them whats happening and one of them my mother hated

Your mother is probably still there in spirit form and is dealing with her untimely death. Seek help definately for her to help her complete her passing.

update: ok there isnt any more noted paranormal activity around her but my cat is acting strange and always sitting in my mothers recliner, could this be him grieving or her doings... he is very very attached to me now, if I leave the room he freaks out!!! I'm cocerned...

Your cat is probably grieving her passing also and perhaps reacting to your emotions also.

Sounds like it could be a little of both. Its really hard to tell for sure though.

You know you may want to try a cleansing ritual, such as burning sage to help clear whatever spiritual remnants are left in the house.

animals are usually sensitive to just about any energy. so, its highly possible that ur cat really is reactingto u and/or is reacting to something else. I've been around cats all my life, so yeah, I know what I'm talking about.

Wel I agree with raven001, animals are really sensitive with energy.It can be both, your cat might be sad and probably feeling the loss or it can also be a sign from your mother.

It depends on if your mother was violent.

You say you've been scratched?

Would she have done that when alive?

If not, I'm thinking it's something else.

no shed never hit me at all

I'm sorry to hear about your mother. I'm a parent, I would never hurt my child. Your mother wouldn't either. There is some good advice in the thread. If you talk to here and it feels right it is her. If not, be careful. Do what you have to do. When my father passed away, my mother swore that she could sense him in the house. He smoked, and sometimes she smelled the smoke. I visited his grave several times a year for the past 15 years, and have noticed that his presence is no longer as did my mother.

It sounds like things have calmed down for you. But, tf you feel things aren't right, call your priest, minister, coven leader, whatever for help.

Sorry for your loss.I am about to lose my dad.This at a glance is why the bed side rites are important to family in the passing of a loved one that is the sad part death evry uncertainty can be aired before passing.yet untimly death and tramatic happen as well but if the activity is slowing then the morning may have settled expect to feel tugs from items dear to her alter a few of her belongings so all can see that you paid attention.When the mind is bare of a person there is a static to hyper-connect missed people with present objects.Through that static come mishivious grain geist those that take energy from the morned and use it to posses and exploit momentary portals created by a passing. Leaving a connected soul to linger and witness it.Remeber back to the last talk you had about her passing and think the answer out.
That will be bane to any mishivious entity.

my father is still with me after four years, I know that his crossing over was difficult and confussing for him. He also died of cancer. It took his spirit well over two years to settle down. He still turns on the tv when no one is home especially if he wants my attention. It could be your mother and she could just be having a difficult time with the transition and communication.

could be her i dont know it COULD be anything

my aunt dyed of cancer a few days before accually and so faught for 11 long years and in the eand she couldnt eat and she suffer for a while but she never regreted anything so i believe that she is at piece

sounds like u might have ur mom and another ennity both in the same place at 1 time , My husband is a paranormal ghost hunter on the side from his job as a asst mortichion at a funural home . I suggest gyndelins advice burn sage and sprinkle sea salt around the house and windows if a bad spirt is there it will leave but ur mom will stay if infact she is really there watching over you and the house still. Prayer does also help aswell.

I wouldn't dwell on the paranormal too much, but's that's just my take on it. If it's really causing you problems, ask a specialist in this field.

Yes it very well could be,as for what to expect that is totally up to the spirit and how much energy it has to expend.

If you said that you are getting scratches and you said that your mum will never hit you then I think that it is someone else or it can be both your mum and someone else. You also said that your cat needs to be with you so probably your cat can see what it is and realises that it is not your mum and is just scared.

I think it depends entirely on what you want to believe, if it's not your mother and you believe it is then you may call her to you, and that will work it out for you. if it is her (and it could be) then you just need to keep believing and talk to her

its possible that it could be the soul of anyone thats passed on around your area

Sounds to me like she is trying to get ahold of you. I wish mine would. My Mom passed in Nov. 2007. We were very close, best of friends. But I have had very little happening around here. A few things that I could constrew as her, but I need more. I am an avid ghost hunter and we always said, whoever goes first, has to get ahold of the other, to let them know there is life after death.

They saw time is different on the other side. I keep reading that all over. It also depends on what they are doing. I have studied this all so long now. But I need more proof to feel secure about it.

I am sorry to hear of your loss. But it sure sounds to me like she is trying to communicate.

Sorry for your loss. Many of my friends have had similar experiences.

Some spirits are simply drawn to trauma and hightened emotional states. Keep an open mind that it may NOT be your mother. It could be something completely unrelated that simply "found" you because of your tumultuous energies involving her care and death. Be cautious because often times these types of spirits are malevolent and are out to confuse and frighten. Be aware, keep notes of occurances and if they become more frequent or violent...seek help.

I think it's possible it's your mothers soul that hasn't moved on

I read somewhere that supposed 'paranormal activities' such as moving things, etc. may be the result of some very strong emotional tension from a person inhabiting the same place. 'Twas years ago, I wish I could remember what book that was.

Wellsaid, DivineMissKat.

It could well be the spirt of your mother, most spirts dont realise there dead so they just carry on thier life for a while in the most familier place to them, which would be your house

It possibly could be

It's very possible. However, if it's cold in the house for no apparent reason, then it suggests that whatever is there is angry or upset. You said that you were cut and scratched by nothing in particular (or something along those lines). What reason would your mother have for doing this to you? Why would she hurt her child? That concerns me. You need to look into the possiblity that that might not be your mother, or that there might be more than one entity there.

I would agree that it could be your mom. Never doubt yourself hun!

It very well could be. You can't really expect anything out of it.

Anything is possible

The moving of your personal items could be your mothers spirit letting you know that she is with you, and from your description, is trying to possibly protect you from another spirit in the house. Your mothers spirit will not be able to move on until she knows you are safe. Your mothers spirit would not harm you, but it appears that something followed her to you or took advantage of the loss of your mother when you were at your weakest, both physically and mentally. I agree with the person above that stated you should seek help and have this evil spirit cast from your house. Then you need to let her know you will be ok and she needs let go and meet her family and friends on the other side. Then you can verbally release your mothers spirit from what mothers do best, protecting and watching out for us.

Take Care My Friend,

The Daywalker

While it is possible that it is your mothers spirit have ever thought that should could be trying to tell you something. I delt with a case like this once and it was because a friend of mine and his Grandfather had fought before he passed and Grandpa couldnt move on till he was sure that his grandson knew he wasnt mad at him. Could your mother be worried about the fights you had with her before she passed? If her passing was unexpected she could have had things she felt were left unsaid.

I was starting to lose hope that some one would look at the posabilety that it could be a difrent spirt untell divinemisskat said something

if you or any one in your family you live with dident go to her wake or funeral then i would agree with every one else and say yes it is your mouther but if you did atend the wake and or funeral then it could be some one else.when i was working nightshift sacurety at woodlawn cematery i had to light sage and sweetgrass every night and pray to Loki that no spirt liked me enugh to fallow me home, also calm and happy souls dont break stuff.Souls in turmoile do and will only get angeryer and more agressive so get someone who knows how to deal with spirts and get it out of your house

My dad died years back. He smoked, but my mom wouldn'g let him smoke in the house. After he was gone, she swore she could smell cigarette smoke in the house. She was convinced that he was still around. She doesn't say that anymore.

I visited his grave regularily and took my kids. When I was there I felt his presence. Now when we go I don't feel that anymore. I still feel close to him and when I think of him I sorta feel that he is around.

We didn't experience breaking things, but did experience what we thought was his presence.

grinsNpity,

I would seek outside help and not let this continue. The longer you let this happen, the stronger this dark spirit will become!

As It has all ready been stated your mother is watching over you.And the thing attacking could be 1 of 2 things
1 It is an spirit up to no good
2 It is your self manifesting your sorry and anger for the loss of your mother manifastations are called poltergiests and happend to young teenagers going threw the adolesents no one knows why but as a parapsycoligest and amature ghost hunter I studie many cases dealing with poltergiests.I my self had one but it dose not only hit teenagers it hits people who are or have the project emotions with out being aware of it.There are things you can do that might help you
1 get out side help from what ever religion you are.
2 find a witch or a parapsycoligest
who can talk to what ever it is and find out if its you or something you do not want around.
3 Do things your self when you feel something take pictures grab a voice recorder and start talking take each question slow wait about 2 or 3 mins between each question then play it back.
If It don't feel right do not run or pay attention to it leave and find help.

For the original question. I do not belive that it is the spirit of your mother that is doing these things. A spirit of a loved one would let you know that they are there but would not harm you in any way even as a scratch because they do not particularly have the amount of energy needed for that. I beleive that she may be there but there is another presence there. But that is just my opinion.

It is entirely possible that it is your mother. Some spirits just don't want to give up what they had so much that they will stay around and keep doing what they were doing before they died.

could be it is your mother . Could part of it also be that you haven't been feeling like your self since then

It could very well be your mother. If that's so try talking to her to let her know that you know she's there. Maybe she's trying to get your attention.

Either way this sounds like a case of an Intelligent haunting not a residual.

A residual haunting is the case of the spirit going on with daily routines as if they don't know they are dead. Like a memory or a scene in a movie on repeat. they can't communicate.

an intelligent haunting can interact and move things and has the potential to be violent.

also if you are young or if there is someone in your home in their teens to early twenties...they might be manifesting a poltergiest. Which can be violent depending on the impact the death had on teh young person.

If the spirit is violent try fighting back and claiming your space. Tell them they can stay, but it is YOUR home, not theirs. Worse comes to worse and ONLY if it is dangerous do I suggest a blessing.

may she rest in peace

I agree with ravenspectrum. For the reasoning that a ghost has not the energy to do these things. I believe that you also have a poltergiest.

it could be..ya

I think it is your guardian angel and it is possbile for it to be your mother...souls go to the appropirate places after death I always thought but if someone was meant to watch over you yah they can stick around maybe just no in the form you think

If it was indeed the spirit of your mother I'm sure that you are also being guarded by another loved one who has passed away.

I believe that it could be her because my brother died 10 years ago and he still does strange things in my home to let me know he is around but he has never hurt me and never would...he protects me more than anything so I'm not sure about why you have been cut or scratched from nothing, that kind of bothers me as in if it is your mother's spirit why would she be trying to "hurt" you?

meow, lol

I am very sorry for your loss. It sounds like it may very well be your mother, but if what is happening is making your uncomfortable, you do have the ability to protect yourself with a cleansing, as someone mentioned, or white-light mediation.

If it is your mother try to talk to her and call a truce but it could be another spirit or something else strange going on

Have you ever watched the show Paranormal State it may explain some of the strange things that you may encounter during paranormal activity.

poltergiest activity. my specialty. yes from the sounds of it it is your mother, or another presence of your house that you may not of noticed untill her death. if you understand what i mean, message me if you have any questions.

write his telephone number on a small strip of paper, then wrap it around the stem of her favourite flower - then lay it on her grave.

i agree with kaas

You most definatly have a poltergeist on your hands here if it is not her it could be someone that is trying to contact you for her or that has been around and not noticed untill the death of a lovd one.

call the ghost busters lol

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