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Ok this post is something that came to me. how do you end up with a lover do you have certain criteria that a person should meet does it just happen. does things such as believe age and religion play a role. do you think of those at all? or do you feel making a range for yourself is limiting and hinders one from finding "the one"

Not sure that there can be critera for those that I love..
Just sort of happens...

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K

it could be a number of those things for some, none of them for others or maybe all of them for other people, everyone is different.

only u know when u have found the one, some say its just a feeling inside u like instinct.

i personally dont know cause i have a hard enough time finding a girl round here that actually likes me

Love is for suckers

It's all about LUST

Oh yeah

And i'm a clone.

In a way it does play a role...but love sometimes just happens. It is better off being a lot a like and having the same religion because it's easier to agree with each other.

I dont think that someone can just go searching for "the one". I also dont think that religion, or anything like that should play too huge of a role. And i also think lol that making a range for yourself is limiting and hinders one from finding "the one". People tend to get too choosy when they do that, and then just end up never satisfied or happy. :)

"Love is for suckers/It's all about LUST"

Stop it if i believe that the world will be in trouble. :)

i say love should just happen and not be mistaken. lust is fun but in the end u get all lonely. what do you sugest impress. lust partners and a puppy?

we are all different and I don't think I have ever gone by any sort of criteria. It has just "happened". Having those types of things in common are just a bonus in my opinion.

it veriys from one to another to what one
goes by for love.... well... for me...
one that don't do drugs is a must....
and is not a career theif .... a murder ...
or a child mudlester....... is also a must...
the rest..... it depends...... ^_^
oh and does not hit me.... and this is what i look for.... and probley what all
people look for mainly... in a mate...
i would think..... ^_^

i go with my feeling, sometimes its right sometimes its a bit wrong..its all way better to have loved and lost ..then not to have loved at all

I agree with Robin, no child molesters please ~_^

Child molester what are you tlaking about?


NO NOT ME....I SWEAR!

just kidding you guys

Hum, I think there must be a bit of chemistry or some "accomplished" criteria to start it all off!

When it comes to my own preferences... I just need really good chemistry and a boy;o)

Others? Just make sure those you want are willing themseves and not underaged

A cynical view is the one you end up with is the best match at the time. Soul mates sound nice but not from a evolution and procreation point.

Emmy tumbles over laughing at Empress's remarks!! lol You sure are some gutsy kid, it must be the Irish in you ;)

i think u feel it when he or she-the right one comes...i feel like its smth totally natural that he is with me,that it has to be like this...

when i think i have found "the one" its more like he takes my breaths away and loves me for how i am...not for how they want me to be

i think its different for everyone and that there isnt really rules that you have to follow just prefferences but even those are not set in iron sometimes they are just like string and bend and twist in every direction

I agree with veritasinimica because i don't seem to have a patern. well an obvious one. but it does seem to differ from person to person what one wants in a mate. and I dont believe the whole edepus theory has anything to do with it because well no one i've dated has been like my mother, thanks havens.

for me love just happind, i wouldnt reject some one just because of "criteria"

you can learn from thos that are difrent then yourself

There’s as many braches of love as there are branches upon a tree, and the leaves on those branches are the attractions we feel for another that help complete the realm of love. Love just happens over time, it’s the feeling within that we haven’t a control over, no special roles play as we are all different, no judgment should be taken upon another for its only conforming to what one is taught love is. One should allow love to fall upon us no matter the difference, no matter the religion, no matter the race, age and no matter another’s likes or dislikes, for if we “search” for one to love of similarity whom do we really love and what do we really love about them? A parody of own self and not truly them.

is the feeling... i wil never fel.

fell (sorry for mistakes)

Well, for me, I looked and looked and 2 days after I gave up, I met him, married him, and have had 4 of his kids. I think what happens happens and there should be no questions asked. Blah, I'm tired.

wel i should not tellu ... becuase all my relantionships ended up... welll. let's not talk abou tit... just tell her or him how u fell and i hope they'll understand...

*claps at Empress!*

Know what? Love isn't just blind..it's ALSO bloody stupid!

love love love love...

[who'll close this?]

=)

Love is an accident or a destiny or non-existent. It kinda just depends on what you believe that day.

Usually.... it's late in the night... I've had way too much to drink.... you've said something seemingly intelligent and witty, and next thing you know, I'm straddled on your lap...

Bugger if I know how it all happened.....

In the morning, I will nearly knaw my own arm off to get away.. you'll ask for my number, I'll give the wrong one.....

I should have been born a man......

Thank God, I have a ding dong!

hehe!

I believe that if it's a relationship I want to encounter I will try it, basically if I get a long with the person, I'll give it a shot, it'll be another experience for me to try, and if it works then it works

I think that love can happen anytime and it does not matter about age and religion

love doesn't suck all the time. It blinds you for long enough so you can enjoy all those moments before the pain. most of you seem to think love involve sex all the time or a form of intercourse, for some reason i think diff.

am sorry to say that I believe that love is sometimes misleading but religion/age/and sex should not be involved in you love someone enough you will look past those minor factors as I do with the woman I am in love with

I forgot to mention that Race should not be a factor in love also be it white or coloured

I agree things such as race and age sex shouldn't have to be criterias in love for true love has nothing to do with those thanks for clearing what i was trying to say :)

*scratches head confused* its sooo hard to find THE ONE when i cant even GET ONE gosh... @_@

Become friends, get to know eachother and become lovers. it sounds simple but love isn't simple.

It just happens. There are no explainations. It could be alot of different things that cause it.

you do not love a person because they are beautiful, or smart, or rich, or (you fill in the blank) they are those things because you love them. love just happens and it is a beautiful thing

It just develops out of friendship....well it should...hahahaha!!!

i dont really look for someone that has to meet a critera. i loook for someone that i think actually deserves me. they have to love me for me and understand that perople do make mistakes.

age dose not play a roll in love...u are attracted to them i dont know how u see them and u are like wow i like her even though she may not be the hottes girl around but yet u still like her and u think she is very hot...other people can go to hell with there opinoins its what u think that matters and how u feel

last time i tought i was in love then she cheated on me with 3 dudes in one day. so right know i really dont believe in true love.

it seems that most of us who don't believe in love anyimore its because of past pain etc..i am not saying you should change because been there and i know how it feels just ope that u gys can pick up the pieces and move on who knows one day love will be real agian and maybe htis is jsut setting u up for anoter dissapintment

ROFLMAO "pick up the pieces?"
God I never thought I would ever be cynical when it came to this subject but if you stop a minute and do not romanticise love (oxymoron I know) but just look at it for what it is a biological urge to procreate the species.
Yes we show effection but isn't that just a way of holding onto someone we see as attractive who will one day bear/father our offspring and the hope their attractive qualities will be passed onto our genetic structure.
Love is pointless it serve's no purpose sex in itself provides pleasure and production the feeling or attributes of love one word.actually 2
Overrated
Uselesss

i do believe that two people should have the same things in common, i mean you can have a born again and a crack head together. haha think about it, 'hey hunny where are you going?' 'Im off to church, where are you going?' 'Im off to find my pipe!!!!!' lol who am i to say......it might work!!!

Lovers Can just happen...course that can Mutate so more and you can have someone who you want to spend your life with...Or a Pet to torture at Your whim...But that may be me...

Im initally drawn to people b/c of their looks, and once we warm up to eachother and start talking then I can really get a sense of what that person is like. All i look for in a lover is someone who understands me and can relate to me. Oh and I really dig it when the girl like the same type of music but that isnt too important.