The following is a definition of acts which we don't consider to be a true sexual Vampyre and as such, are not found to be respected by our code of conduct/honor
The real Vampyre is out for what he or she can get with little regard for their Prey, and Prey is the proper terminology here. The Vampyre will often use psychic strength to woo their prey, to make the person, usually human, become attracted to them, like them, and want them. They also have been known to cajole, threaten, beguile, and use flattery as a tool -- as the Social Vampyre will do.
The Sexual Vampyre feeds off of the sexual energy, the sexual need, the dependence of their prey once a secure relationship is established.
Once a relationship is established they do everything they can to cement the bond. They pick a person who is vulnerable. Someone who just came from an abusive relationship, someone who has been alone for a long time. Someone not described usually as beautiful or attractive, someone perhaps very over weight or who has no close ties. Very young or inexperienced people, etc. because these individuals are easier to conquer. Then the Vampyre becomes the perfect mate, everything the person could ever have dreamed of; kind, generous, caring, loving, involved etc. However, this is all a ploy, as the Vampyre uses his or her psychic power to bond and hold fast his prey, until the person is convinced they cannot live with out this special person. All the while and even more after, this Vampyre is feeding on the sexual emotions, energies and desires of the prey.
In reality this Vampyre cares nothing for the person. It is a hunt, prey and the Vampyre is enjoying the hunt, the capture, the conquest and the prize of their labors -- and the emotions. The same is true with some Psi-Vamps, but in that case the actual physical energy from the sexual experience is fed upon more then the act or the emotions.
When the Vampyre is satisfied he/she now has this person fully controlled, he/she begins to be not so nice, not so loving, hinting or boldly stating that if this person does not do exactly what the Vampyre wishes, he/she will leave. Another scenario is acting like some little thing done by the person is a great crime and that the person is lucky they bother to stay at all. By now the poor victim is so hooked by their love and need for the Vampyre, and they are truly helpless under this threat of the loss of the relationship -- loss of the Vampyre in their life. So they agree to anything, such as sex acts they do not like, the fact that they now may be expected to support this person and pay their bills or buy them expensive things.
The human prey has no chance of having their hurt be so strong that they leave because no matter how strong their hurt or pain is, the conscious and psychic controls used by the Vampyre is something they can neither realize is happening nor can they prevent it from happening. There is also no hope in the mind clearing enough to see the truth that they are not being loved, just used. Because in the case of the Vampyre, the minds are controlled as well.
The Sexual Vampyre has the preys ' blood, mind and body at his or her command and can pretty much do as they like with the prey. If the pain, fear and humility becomes too strong and the prey begins to want to end the relationship, the Vampyre just goes back to the original controls, until the love bond in the prey, or the need, is strengthened to the extent that the person can not leave.
Yes, these are negatives and thank Mother Night there are not many around like this. But they are out there and it is the hunt, the conquest and the sexual dependency of others that they feed from, and must have, to survive.
