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I keep see my dead love of 2 years. I go out on a date and I look out the car window and I see him. Even when I out with my friends at our place I see him! Anyone got any advice or thought on this?

There could be a number of reasons for this. Firstly, you probably still love him and miss him, so you're constantly reminded of him. Or his spirit is lingering around you because he misses you or is watching out for you.

Or you could just be crazy, having constant hallucinations about him just because...

He's been dead for 2 years and this only started happening about a month ago when my best friend died!

It could be that he is there to watch over you since your best friend died as well as he did, sometimes our loved ones are there to be sure we are safe or ok with the passing of loved ones, I feel he is just being guarded over you at this time. Letting you know they are gone yet not totally, if that makes sense to you. I hope.

*uhhhh*

relax first off. second he's just watching out for you since your best friend went on to the other side. third he's not trying to scare you any it's just he misses you and wants to protect you so chill

As HollowXangel said he is most likely watching over you, therefore you have nothing to fear.

He is (like everyone has said) just looking out for you in your time of need. Take comfort in his being there dear. It just shows how much he still loves you.

It could also be that your friend is trying to get a message to you through him...does he ever appear when you're alone and can try talking to him?

i feel that our loved ones watch over us until they believe we are strong enough to handle letting them go. i lost a ex b/f 4 yrs ago in april and it wasnt til this past march that he finally told me goodbye. he knew that i was ready to let him go and that i didnt need him to be with me all the time then.

He is watching over u and protecting u

I dunno what to say about that kinda spooky

I was always brought up to believe that if a ghost is appearing to you it means that they are trying to get a message to you whether good or bad. Nothing to worry about I would say.

take comfort in his presence. he probly senses ur loss of ur best friend and knows that now he nor ur friend are there anymore that u are greiving even more so he wants you to know they are thinking of and missing u just as much and theyre watching over u and things will be fine.

u never no in these kind of cases it might be ur imagination or it might truely be that person lookin over u watchin out fer ya still u can never really tell

I've had a similar experience. It was a couple years ago when my grandmother died... I kept seeing an old best friend of mine.

I say he's just watching out for you. No reason to be alarmed.

it could be that he is watching out for you but then it could be that in your subconcious mind you don't want to move on and your mind is bringing him up. Even though in reality you want to move on maybe your brain just isn't ready to do so yet.

If your best friend has just recently died, you are probably reliving the emotions you felt at the time that your dad died. So you're bringing him up again in your mind, therefore would be "seeing" him around you. It's perfectly normal, don't worry. Just relive the memories and remember how much you loved him. It will pass in time, as you become more accustomed to the loss of your friend.

By "dad", I meant "love". Sorry about that...

He is probably watching over you, don't fear it

It's difficult to know for sure. The best way to figure out if this is real, is that when this occurs again, ask someone near you if they see the same thing... or ask a bunch of people. Witnesses also help.

Chances are, if you're the only one who sees him, then it is your own mind playing tricks on you.

Your inner desire for this person has manifested itself as illusion to ease the pain of your loss which will never really leave you. You must come to terms with your loss or you will continue to see your lost loved on.

I believe you are being watched out for. You just need to realize you are still cared for even though some ofthe most amazing people in your life are gone. You will find more people who really care about you.

as I had said they are more then likely there to watch over you , or warn you. The thing is we really do not ever know why they come back or stay around.. would be nice to ask them.

he is watching over you and tring to let you know he was the one that guided her and she is safe

i think he is there to protect and watch out for you...im srry for your losses..

i think you are thinking about him and then he appears to let you know he is watching over you

that also is a possiblity that your thinking of them to the point that they are manefesting into your toughts or vision.

Could there be anything that would be making you think about them more now than you have since they past? Maybe guilt or worry of something you have done or are doing?

have you tried talking to him?

you should try to communicate with him.
ask him questions.
in the past two years, have you seen him?
or is this a sudden thing?
out of nowhere?

I agree... I think you should ask him for guideance.. See how that goes.. He is there to make sure you are not alone in this life.. Take it and carry him with you always... One day you might look out your car window, and he won't be there... Cherish all the time with him, some aren't that fortunate.. Once he sees you are able to make it, he will not be there anymore...

Yep! first thought - is he is watching/protecting you. or he needs to tell you something.

Same thought - my first impression was he's looking out for you. Be happy!

ghosts are real... there are many reasons you may be seeing his ghost... stress, depression, love, ect... or it may be that his spirit cannot leave to the next level...

Graham Hancock, Jacques Vallee, John Keel and many others have done alot of research of this topic and could better answer this question, if you would like to see his site, it is:

www.grahamhancock.com

it may help you.

they may have something that is undone as well and are trying to let you know there just are so many reasons really that they could be here

If you think that he is really hanging around than you need to talk to him. Ask him why is here and what he needs to move on. Then really listen. You should be able to achieve closure by communicating with him. If it’s more serious than that and he is haunting you then you might need to seek the help of someone more powerful that has no connections to the situation.

He still loves you and can not move on to the afterlife without making sure you are safe. Or perhaps there may be something that he never was able to tell you before his passing and it has anchored him to this world.

I don't want to upset anyone here, however I think it prudent to note that one should always be careful. The spirit you see could be false, what kind of vibe did you get from it?

I think that maybe when you go out on dates and you see him, maybe you just feel kind of guilty or maybe since you still love this person (I'm assuming, sorry) then your subconcsious feels as if you are doing something wrong or maybe you're having fun and just remebering him.

Mybe he just wants to make sure that you are making the right choise.

several who pass on becomes ether your protector or a stalking soul, he might have become your protector an dunless something not good is on he will stay hdien till he is needed.

My advice is to relax, clear your mind, and breath. Next welcome to my world too many spirits so little time. Mostly they stay to themselves, others I just ignore. Life goes on.

As long he is not trying to hurt you I would not be to worried about him. If he really is there, he is there to watch over you.

Yea i have to agree as long as your not being harmed...

Yea i have to agree as long as your not being harmed...

I think that that id him just checking in on you to see how you are doing. I am sure that he still lvoes you.

I would say that he is trying to look out for you still. That shows a deep love if it passes the boundaries of life and death.

He is probably just watching over you and protecting you since your best friend isn't there to do it anymore or he is probably trying to tell you something or trying to talk to you in some way.

Firstly: I am so sorry for your loss, secondly: I think that it could be he is just looking out for you. If it's scaring you then take a moment to be alone before saying to him that you love him very much still but he's starting to scare you turning up like this. I hope this helps. =)

wow.. good thread.

i say mostly because u miss him........ i have had my uncle how i love so dearly shot himself..... for like 1 1/2 years i seen him every where then i soon chouldnt take it anymore so i paid my respect to his grave and soon to relize i was here for somethin....... so maybe he is tryin to tell u something cause i know my uncle did and im glad i follow my heart

that is a good thought to go pay ones respect to the departed... could be just that.

he still loves you and is watching over you

It can only be a good thing since you loved each other , I say to embrace it, are you afraid that he is angry with you for dating again? I think he is just looking after you, as there has been no violence at this point.

Maybe he just wants to let you know he is doing ok.

he might have been sent as your gardian angel

I think its all in your head.

In time of stress I still think I see my mum. whether I am or not isn't important to me anymore it helps to see her helps me feel safer why worry yourself endlessly if he is here then it is because you have need of him if he isn't just you thinking he is here helps you feel better right??

my thoughts on this: well it sounds to me like your dead lover is watching over you and you are fortunate enough to see it. count this as a blessing.

Sometimes we don't want to let go of the deceased, sometimes they are not ready to let go of us.

We can try and explain what is going on to you, but explantions are not always accurate when dealing with grief, tragedy, or the super natural.

maybe your ex hasnt let go of you yet or he is watching you you letting you know his there or maybe his letting you know that isnt the right guy for you n when you meet the right one after him you wont see him.

When my first wife died my kids and myself kept seeing her for ages we kept second looking and she wouldnt be there. This happened for yr's. When I met my new wife seeing my first wife eased to the point now we dont see her hardly at all. However she still pops up every now and then.

It was never like she was watching us or anything...just being there in our vision.

I think it really helps once you can move on...it did with me and my family.

LaMuerte is right.....

Missing someone can put things into your head that aren't really there...its like seeing something out of the corner of your eye that you don't comprehend and look again and its gone...

Or in my opinion if you believe in Guardian angels like I do maybe he is yours and he is watching over you.

i agree with her^ he could be ur GA

i hope that all we have told you is a comfort to you and now you know that he's here because of love and means no harm to you or others

sounds like to me he is keeping his eye on you and protecting you you should welcome his help you never know when it might come in handy

I agree with others in the thread. He is there to watch over you and protect you. I don't think it is in your head so disregard those type of comments. Let the vision of him sooth you and allow you to be consoled. Then when you are ready, let him go.

Well, most are just watchers. They would want you to move on and they are there to guide you through it and help you move on, not to make you feel bad about doing so. So allow him to help you move on and let him watch over you. When he knows you are ready he will leave once he knows you are ready to go on alone with the path you choose. So don't let him being there prevent you from moving on, take it as a guide. Move on. He'll be there for you and support whatever you choose to do.

Since there are a few ghosts threads open.. you can either direct your question to one of those or they can message you personally.