I have a moral question of sorts, that I am wondering if you think it borders dipping into the dark network spiritually.
I have thought a lot about the term, "Live and let live", and I try to live by it as best I can. Not that I don't notice others' lives and the mistakes they make. Ha. I have plenty of advice to give. :P
Ok, so here is the situation to ponder....
Here I am, living and let living....and here is "you" or "them" over there, living and doing their thing. Now, if you are over here, living responsibly, throwing your trash away, helping out others, wearing your rubbers, not drinking and driving, saving gas, recycling, whatever....and then we have some jerk over there, tossing his trash out the window, having 10 kids with different women, tossing remaining water in his bottle outside, buying Hummers or huge vehicles and letting them run when they run in a quick mart.....
Ok, so where do we go into their space and say, "Hey, that's not cool, stop it!"? When do we stop living our own life over here and jump into theirs to interfere? And does this go into negativity and darkness if we do that? Say, like, when religions jump down our throats, telling us how to live and what's right and wrong.
If the result of their "living their own life" runs into and ruins my world, when do we step up and stop it or say something?
I believe in your ideas. Let Live and Let Live. What right do we have to step in and say something against someone else.
its not my place to tell u how to live your life and notyours to tell me
I totally agree. Except some people seem to think they have all the right in the world to tell you what to do. I just let it go in one ear and out the other.
If it affects you that is when you step in. But if your neighbors are an interracial gay couple who drink each others blood and worship satan, leave em alone. It's their business. But lets say the girl standing next to you in an elevator breaks out a crack pipe and starts chiefing. Then yeah, the line has been crossed. Ya know what I mean?
Fine lines I guess.
I think everyone should have the right to take a stand for the common good. We don't jive well in chaos. Sometimes, you just have to say what you need to.
I would never stand by and watch a parent BEAT their child to a pulp and think, "Well their kid, not mine to intervene". If you're a grade A turd, you need to be told.
I will have to agree with your thoughts of live and let live. Who am I to tell you how to live or tell you what you are doing wrong? That would be the pot calling the kettle black if you know what I mean.
So I say live and let live.
Yep, once they cross the line where it affects your well being, then you have the right to defend yourself from their destructive or harmful actions.
If it isn't hurting you now or in the foreseeable future, then why worry about it?
I believe there is a difference between telling someone how they should live and standing by and watching someone get bashed, robbed raped etc etc. Yet in our present day a lot of people dont interfere in this they rather just stand there and watch. Anyone in their right mind would step in and help someone in trouble, but if someone tries to say your living your life wrong you should do it my way that is wrong.
I believe in live and let live only in matters where your choices do not affect everyone else. That leaves it wide open I agree, but we do have laws. And at least with the freedom of speech, the press, and the right to petition in the United States~ we are given the opportunity to take a stand and push for new laws to be in place. Sometimes you just have to be a leader.
Well said Sis...men and women are fighting right now for the right for us to say whatever the hell we want.'
Very true. And all of these are very valid points.
I agree about what neighbors do with each other. But for instance, our neighbors used to cook meth and deal in meth. Well, I could live and let live, but at the same time, it brought bad elements to the neighborhood and to us directly, at all hours of the day/night. Also, I could smell a very strong chemical smell that made my whole body react violently, needing escape because the fumes were so noxious.
I know that is an extreme case, but even the tiniest of our actions can cause a ripple onto someone else, and vice versa. The state of the world now, is because of everyone in small ways, contributing to the whole.
So.........now what? hahaha.....
I was just wanting to get an idea of how different people saw it on here. =)
live and let live if know one is harming anyone else...
In the end it is really up to us to make a call. Some things we just cannot standbye and watch others we just dont have any reason to interfer.
When it comes to the law or someone getting hurt then we have to make a call right or wrong.
I say 'live and let live' until you can't anymore. (That usually means until it affects you.) Then, obliterate them.
"Live and let live" I agree with that! The only time to step into some one else life is when it affects you. If it doesn't then what goes on in some one else life is none of our business
Yes I agree you should mind your own business...but to what degree.If you see someone throw down an empty water bottle,just pick it up and throw it away.But if you see someone smack a woman or beat a kid...should you mind your own business or try to step in take a stand and stop it.It may not concern you or have anything to do with you...but stopping it is your concern.If you step back and do nothing then you aren't the person you claim to be.Helping someone that is in trouble should be your concern.What if it were you that was in that situation and people just walked by...wouldn't you want someone to help you??
live and let live... i DO agree with that ...
but when somethings going on ... that i have an opportunity to STOP ... and that something affects me, my friends or loved ones.... or an INNOCENT.... then i am DAMN well gonna step in and say or do something ... the "parent beating a child" scenario ... or the meth house example .. both good reasons to NOT stand by ...
yup i am a firm believer in live and let live....
but the worlds "I DONT WANNA GET INVOLVED" mentality is getting WAY outta hand these days ..
i feel that if it doesnt bother me too much i try to stay out of it but when it not only effects me but everyone
in the neighborhood then ill step in and try and correct it
I agree totally. On both points.
Live and let live. But also on the point that we have gotten to far to the left on I don't want to get involved.
Live and let live can only get you as far as long as it is not hurting someone else. I am not saying that we pick a fight about every little thing but we have become pretty passive when it comes to some things that we know we "should" do something about "but don't want to get involved".
I think with everything thats happening today people do tend to Live and let Live. Or more to the point they are to scared to infer anyway.
I agree. Some are too politically correct and some aren't enough.
Darkwolfman: You said to just pick up someone else's water bottle if they threw it out, and throw it away. That is another point I was making. So many people DO do that. And so are you going to spend YOUR life and time, going around picking up after them? Time after time after time, are you going to go and pick up their McDonald's bags? Their cigarette butts? Do you live and let live then? Because our land would look like like a garbage dump if we just kept throwing trash around like so many do. OR, do we step in and say, "Hey, cut that shit out!". There are those that do the right thing and then those who don't. How can we rely on those who don't to straighten up and do the right thing/become responsible? Where does it start to close in on THEIR rights?
I guess, when they are so irresponsible that they are doing stuff like that. *pondering*
I have an almost 19 year old daughter. We raised her to be responsible, but not all parents do that...and so they raise more assholes and then THEY breed.....vicious cycle.
Anyone ever see Idiocracy? Ha........so true.
"Go 'way, I'm batin'! "
Since this is a question reliant upon perspective I can only offer my opinion from my perspective.
I think the only time we should attempt to tell others how to live their lives is when it can be demonstrated to be directly harming others and intruding on their rights. And I'm not talking about unsightly trash in the neighbor's yard. When they toss their trash into your yard, you're being harmed. When they let the trash pile up in their yard, they're exercising their right to live like a slob.
From my point of view, most of the problems we encounter today are based in people attempting to control everyone else around them. It's not enough for most people to live their own lives, they insist on trying to regulate everyone else as well. They don't like the way you drive your car, the way you raise your children, the church you choose or the clothing you've selected (after Labor Day even!), and they take it upon themselves to try to regulate you.
People who do that are the problem, not those they're attempting to regulate. I agree with a "live and let live" philosophy up until the point where real harm is done by the conduct of others. If people don't want to wear their seatbelt, they shouldn't have to. I wear mine. I have my choice, they have theirs. No one should be able to tell them what color they can or can't paint their house, no matter what property association regulations state.
Until they actually harm or attempt to harm others (and that doesn't mean driving their car faster than you think they should), they should be left alone to live their lives as they choose, just as you (I/we), would prefer to be left alone to live ours.
I agree with you. But I do have a point to bring up, when you wrote, "When they let the trash pile up in their yard, they're exercising their right to live like a slob."
I agree it is their right to live like a slob. But when you pay a lot of money to be in a certain part of town or wherever you live where people go to a lot of trouble in their lawns, you don't want to see trashy people living next door with their shopping carts in the front yard, junk, pit bulls on chains, no grass just dirt......you get the point. haha.......that drops the value of the neighborhood and that affects your ability to leave and find a new home.
It's that trickle and ripple effect I was talking about. We affect others in all ways...large and small and sometimes we don't even realize it or give it a second thought.
I am a big supporter of rights and not being told what to do. I will not bow down to someone trying to bark orders just because they want to hear themselves or can. But some people are just insensitive and irresponsible.
Should the responsible reprimand the irresponsible? ;) Yea, I am thinking so. That's how laws got put into place.
The biggest way to start some trouble is to tell someone else how to live their lives. no one is perfect. Everyone has lessons to be learned. Interfering in those lessons is karmically wrong ..I think we have enough to work on ourselves to start jumpin someone else's sh***t.. whts that thing??? somethin about a stone?? oh yeah ...let yet who is without sin cast the first stone..such an eloquent way to say ... mind yer own business
We all have choices in our lives. that is our free will. As my motto goes if you feed me, clothe me, pay my bills then tell me what to do. Other then that I have my own free will.
Believe me animal abuse or child abuse yes I will call the proper people and yes I would tell the abusers I called. That is the only time I get involved.
I agree with mystic..animals and kids r the only things i would get in someones face for
I agree with Clandestine. If it is their lifestyle or religion thatis bothering you, leave it be. That is their choice. And they have that right. But as she said...if a woman is going psycho and beating her kid down, then yea get involved. If it's harming someone that is crossing the line. If you see bad happening try and stop it don't just turn the other cheek.
I guess somehow it really is about the live and let live, since if you read it to the letters, technicly the one abusing others or throwing their trash all over then they are not letting live, they are depriving others to live ( sort of speaking)
therefore interven also means to do it to let live.
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well as soon as u "jump into their life" u are not living and let living- by deffinition. The world is fine, the world goes through cycles of 10-20 years of warming and cooling, and it has been since the beginning of its existance. True, we should not litter and all that other stuff, but lead by example, not by harping on other people. Just because someone you know buys a hummer, it has not "ruined" "your world" at all. You still live the same life and do the same things even though someone else bought a hummer. You are not being asked to make others do something, you are just being asked to take care of yourself and to do ur part.
My only advice, is thus:
Follow your heart, always. It may not always be easy, but it will not lead you astray.
Yes I saw the movie and if people keep getting dumbed down...the world willl end up with trash towers and dumb people
That is true as well. To the post up there. If your heart tells you something is wrong then yes....I say get involved.
Varied degrees of intent, how many people share your position that so, and so is an active menace, the extreme environmentalist would consider the fact that a person does not have a compost to be shocking, should they feel free to cuse you out every moment for your waste? What extremes people go to to press their idealism on others.. ? Legilastion, Consesus, we all do something that "rubs others the wrong way" but I would be unlikely to intervene with the extremist. Yet if a person in a theater is talking I will clearly state the proper way to attend a movie. I would expect a majority vote in such a case.
The problem is in degrees, how intense is your discomfort, from the actions/inaction of others. If a vegan in a restraunt bad mouths meat eaters, even a fellow vegan would say Woa!!
You are right Dabbler. Just because someone is an animal rights activist doesnt give them the right to throw blood on people wearing fur coats. lol
Some people are reactionary to things that are commonly accepted as morally or ethically wrong, but then some people go out of there way to find things that they consider wrong.. again a matter of degree.
Live and let live is a good motto in general as long as other people and the environment are not getting hurt. In the USA the bill of rights protects your right to do what you want up to a point. That point is when they interfere with the rights of another person. That is the way it should be. There is a difference between telling someone how to live and protecting someone or something that is being hurt by someone else. Since we live in a society we have to be accountable for our actions that affect other people. Holding someone accountable and judging them are not the same thing. You don't have to judge someone to hold them accountable. We can't expect to change people to make them fit to our ideals or hold them to our ideals. But we are obligated to step in when they hurt someone else or society would crumble into total chaos. There is nothing wrong with giving someone advice if you think they are living wrong but you shouldn't judge them by how they are living or hold it against them if they don't take the advice. There's an old saying "How can you remove a speck of dust from your brother's eye when you have a stick in yours?". There's also a difference between giving advice and telling someone how to live. None of us are perfect and we've all done things that are wrong, whether by our own standards or someone else's. I fully believe that sooner or later we are all held accountable for our own actions in one way or another. I have had many friends that live lifestyles that I don't agree with, but that doesn't change how I feel about them as a person or a friend it's their life. Someone's sexual preference for example is their own business as long as it doesn't involve children. If someone has a preference though for beating their spouse or children then that's different and someone needs to step in to protect the one's being abused. When someone abuses the environment in effect they are abusing everyone because it affects all of us.
People do seem to be prone to inventing threats from the activity of others, just so they can claim that it is offensive, and "harmful", they do this usually because they have a personal agenda,, and nobody would "go along" with a simple claim that they where uncomfortable with someone elses activity/lack of. It really get bad when the person has a position of power, like landlords.
Yes some people do seem to be overly sensitive and make a bigger issues out of things that they don't agree with that's really none of their business.
Clandestine and Wolvie reflect my thoughts on this subject. I do think more people should speak up when something doesn't seem right to them. I've done this with varied results: made changes for the better for everyone; accomplished nothing; pissed off a bunch of people.
Since people brought up children, a minor example: when I was a young mother took my son to the pediatrician. In the waiting room with us was an extremely angry man presumably the father of a boy about my son's age. I say the man was angry because he had that look of someone who is agitated, but reining it in. His jaw was tight and his eyes were full of hate. His kid was kneeling down in front of a table full of toys and attempting to play with them. His shoulders were tense and he kept darting his eyes to the side at the man. He looked scared. He was nervous and kept fumbling the toys. The man said, "Not like that!" "Do it right!" "Can't you do anything?" accompanied by rolling eyes and sighs.
There was more. I kept telling myself to mind my own business. Wondered if I should take the Dr. aside and tell him to check over the kid carefully for bruises, and finally I couldn't stand it anymore, and told the man to back off and give the kid a chance.
"It's okay to make mistakes," I said to the kid. He looked at me open-mouthed, terrified. The man said nothing, just clenched his fists.
I don't think I changed anything for that kid. But by speaking up, I allowed myself not to change into a passive drudge.
So I guess what I'm saying is kinda what Tepes said. Follow your conscience and speak up.
Licve and let live and it is nobody's business how you live.
When that neighbor is interferring with your life, doing things that could harm the environment or heaven forbid, hurt a child or an animal, step up!
Other than that, live and let live.
cool, Bloodmother...i'm not a passive drone either. Even though i was sort of scared to testify against a man in court, I did it, and am able to live with myself.
Live and let live can only go so far, you know?
Live an let live is a functional concept.
But live, and conquer, proves to be more functional concept in our society, and various time periods of the human conduct, resulted in various historical records, are a substantial proof to such idea, and that it is fully functional, conquering over others, in any given situation of our dislike.
Anything that a human created, and advanced in, was enabled only by the steady organized application of that ultimate rule, which is the naked foundation of the Natures existence it self, and with that the whole Universe.
Live, and conquer, will enable a species to accumulate resources which then would be shaped in to the unique idea and expression of that dominant species. In that way the ideal of strength will be able to express it self, and it will result in the progress of a species, in two major groups, and which are culture, and science, of that species, which will ultimately after a certain period of time help to realize that species potential, and automatically rediscover its own divinity, and the beginning of that truth we this moment call spirituality-researching our divine origins.
It is important no to stagnate our own evolution by living according to the already given idea, rule, but to apply, with strength, the rule of Living, Conquering, and with that to reach the hight, to evolve.
Only a functional and dynamic idea will hep to move and shape the heavy burden of the resisting material reality, and with that it will enable a species to learn, not that idea which is stagnating in nature.
Different sort of a dynamic idea is necessary in order to correct the wrongs of different sorts, which do not appeal to our idea of expression, exhibited elsewhere or on us, but it is always the same in its nature, strong and functional.
To Live, and conquer, over those single expressions which we do not approve is as well a way toward the hight of one self.
This rule requires a full understandings of the ever applicable concept of strength, and that certainly includes not be weaken by morals, which will not only strand a person, or whole society in a spot, but mentally incapacitate them as well, depriving them from their God given right, to express, to be strong, functional, and from which their whole core is made.
To say on, and further to stop something desires a certain deal of mental strength, in order to successfully reach a dominant position when expressing one self towards something which is against our beliefs.
Only so we can truly express our self, with functional strength, conquering over others(so we can live, those that are right), in simple social interactions, or global, strength is always the only rule to be successful while trying to make a change in anything.
Otherwise, dont even try, mind your own business, or it would only cause a certain fall in ones being, being unsuccessful in the attempt.
Checking ones position on matters you intend to intervene is vital to the outcome of that matter. If it appears to be that you are the only person that notices some matter getting to a threating or voletal point, assess your potential for intervening, if you are a 100 pound woman, and the would be aggressor is a 300 pound man.. thinking of an indirect way to intervene is better then the direct approach. When ever possible take a genral assessmemnt of others that may be witnesses as well.
Honestly, its not about living and letting well alone. Its all about how you're approaching people. No one enjoys a patronizing conversation, a "matter of fact" persona in their face. Honestly if it is the small things that packed together create big effects on our world then we should gently go about opening others eyes to how we see it. Though in return, open our eyes as they see it. Life is all about perspective, so be open to many.
Jeez, Beast, while I'm not crazy about the Patriot Act and what it means in terms of personal privacy, and while I understand in theory what you are saying, I don't think wanting to have society bide by certain basics (which can be interpreted as interference and the opposite of live and let live) , and those views get transformed into laws is the definition of fascism.
More laws have the Potential to go in that direction, but there are usually countervailing tests and prohibitions put in place.
Locally, we have neighborhoods which have had street bumps installed, removed, and reinstalled according to the dictates of the prevailing majority. That's democracy at work, and at its base is getting up in your neighbor's face who may have an opposite view.
Well beast for once I actually agree with you. For the first part anyways. But an dumpy house with junk everyewhere and filth all over the place and a stench so strong it makes you have just by walking by it is crossing the line. Thank god my city has an ordinence that stops this =) So yup, my hood is clean and very nice lol. But the other side of town eek! Live and let live only goes so far. The line can be crossed.
There's always those jerks in the world that make us happy to be the way we are. Honestly, if you did try to involvse yourself in that situation, it's only going to anger that jerk. Eevn if yt' was a close friend of yours, be oreoared to have to defend yourself verbally or physically. Anyone living that careless of a life doesn't care about it, and probably hates themselves anyhow. Karma will catch up with his ass, and you should remain the kind hearted asset to society that you are! So....live and let live from me as well.
Beast a lot of the things you mentioned are not just for appearance sake but for public safety. Trash in a yard is a health hazard for the community. Seat belts and helmets are both proven to save lives, I know I wouldn't be here without seat belts. When it comes to children they need protection because they don't have the mental capacity of an adult to make decisions for themselves nor do they generally have the physical capacity to defend themselves. By your standards its OK for a parent to constantly verbally abuse a child and repeatedly beat them to the point of bruising since neither is going to permanently physically injure them or break their bones. I won't deny that in many cases laws or ordinances are abused but the majority of the time they make the quality of life better for everyone. We have a democracy for a reason if a law is bad we can change it. Unfortunately most people would rather just complain about it. There is no way to make everyone happy so we try to make the majority happy. We have to find a balance between freedom and public safety and that's not always easy to do. There has to be limits in any society or it will destroy itself. Since this site is more or less a vampire society of sorts here's a good example. If someone wants to live their life in a vampire lifestyle even to the point of drinking small amounts of someone else's blood with their consent then the majority on here aren't likely to have a problem with it. On the other hand if a person were to live that lifestyle to the point of completely exsanguinating another person with or without their consent I think the majority would agree that that is wrong and should not be allowed. By the same token Someone should not be allowed to impose that lifestyle on a child since they are not yet mentally developed enough to make those kinds of decisions. Children are not simply small humans they are undeveloped humans. That's like saying a caterpillar is a small butterfly. While that caterpillar will eventually become a butterfly that doesn't mean it can fly. I know the analogy is not exactly the same but I equate the physical difference between the caterpillar and the butterfly with the mental difference between a child and an adult because the thought processes are that different. You also mentioned education and basically stated that the government has complete control over that and not the parent which is completely untrue. If you don't like the government's school system there's always private schooling or home schooling. There is no set minimum education level only a minimum age that children must attend some from of schooling to. There is a reason for that it's a proven fact that a better educated society has a better quality of life with less crime and better jobs. It was not just a whim of the government to control anyone or their children. it is an effort to make life better for everyone. If it was an effort to control people they would put limits on the amount of education a child could get. An uneducated person is much easier to control.
Live and Let Live
It seems that for some people that is just an impossible way to live because they have to get their selves in everyone else lives, as if causing chaos in anothers life is going to somehowmake their better. Sorry there cupcake it doesn't work that way.
But if each person lives their lives as intended and doesn't hurt themselves or others then so be it
To me its a very fine line. Yes it is others right to live the way they see fit but until it harms someone else lets say physically whether it be from emitions in the air or bodily harm thats crossing over.
Wolvie,
I agree with much of what you've said in response to my post. But I think much about the points I was making were lost on you, so allow me to take another approach.
Concerning trash in a yard, I was addressing the points people were making and those points centered on it being an eye-sore which lowers their property values, not that it was a potential health hazard. And as far as health hazards go, how far do you want to take that? People can complain if I play my music so loudly that it interferes with their surroundings in their home but what about when they decide to barbecue and the smoke blows into my area? Isn't that pretty much the same thing? The biggest difference is that it's unhealthy to breathe the smoke. But most people like the smell of a barbecue. I think it smells like a burning body which is decidedly unpleasant to me. But I don't attempt to impose on their activity. I simply try to find a place where the odor is less strong. I try to live and let live.
Certainly I understand that seat belts and helmets can save lives. But that's not really the issue. Allow me to step back to my last point to illustrate the problem I see with your assertions. I'm a vegetarian which is likely why barbecue smoke is so unpleasant to me. And as an informed vegetarian (vegan, actually), I'm aware that about 750,000 people die each year in the U.S. due to heart attacks. I'm also familiar with dozens of studies which all show the link between meat consumption and heart attacks. Similar links appear with diabetes, stroke and cancer. Those four aliments together account for 64 - 77% of deaths annually in the U.S. Automobile accidents account for less than one percent. So it makes far more sense to make it illegal to consume meat than to require people to wear seat belts. If it were illegal to eat meat, far more lives would be saved. So are you in favor of over-riding someone's right to make their own dietary choices simply on the basis of saving lives? Or does it look completely different when the shoe is on the other foot?
Here is what Thomas Jefferson had to say on the issue. And for all Americans, remember that he was key among the founding fathers.
"No man has a natural right to commit aggression on the equal rights of another, and this is all from which the laws ought to restrain him." -- Thomas Jefferson
"Laws provide against injury from others, but not from ourselves." --Thomas Jefferson: Notes on Religion, 1776 Papers 1:546
"The legitimate powers of government extend to such acts only as are injurious to others." --Thomas Jefferson: Notes on Virginia, 1782. ME 2:221
"The man who would choose security over freedom deserves neither." -- Thomas Jefferson
Ben Franklin chimed in as well, promoting the very same idea.
"They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve and receive neither liberty nor safety..." -- Benjamin Franklin
The whole point is that as a free person, you're supposed to be allowed to make decisions which harm you if you so choose, just as long as you do no real harm to others. Americans seem to have forgotten that. They're so bent on protecting everyone from themselves, that they've forgotten about freedom.
And please don't twist my words. I never said it's "okay" for a parent to verbally abuse a child. I simply pointed out that everyone is going to have different standards of what is and isn't acceptable and there is no way to see that every child receives the same potential for success in life. Even measures of success are subjective standards. So some children will not receive the kind of up-bringing you might like or even the one I might like. You have two choices. Either allow parents to make decisions regarding how their children are raised or take that right away from the parent and hand it to government.
And government most certainly does have standards regarding minimal levels of education. Don't confuse my objection to that with the idea that an educated populous doesn't make for a stronger country. The problem is simply that you want to justify removing rights by pointing out the benefit to society (socialism), and I want to place the rights of the individual ahead of societal rule (a republic).
I trust people do remember the term "republic"? It's an idea you don't hear much about anymore. But I think most people can recall it if they think back and attempt to fill in the blank. "I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States, and to the ________ for which it stands:" (1923 version)
I tend to believe most people don't notice that the idea of a republic which defends the rights of the individual first, is slowly being traded for the idea of a pure democracy which defends only the rights of the majority (socialism).
And we can't change a law just because it's bad. We're supposed to have that power but we've given it up. For instance; if you get caught committing a felony and you use your vehicle in the commission of that crime, your vehicle can be confiscated and utilized by the confiscating agency or other government entity. The courts have taken to calling this forced confiscation "forfeiture". And the whole concept is a direct violation of the fifth amendment to the U.S. Constitution -- the same Constitution every law enforcement officer must swear to protect and defend. And yet, it is these very officers who initiate the process of confiscating the property. And the practice has been challenged and taken to the Supreme Court. The ruling of the court was as follows;
...the judicial acceptance of such forfeitures is "too firmly fixed in the punitive and remedial jurisprudence of the country to be now displaced." (As read by Chief Justice Rehnquist).
For anyone who doesn't see through the judicial jargon, what the ruling says is; yes, such confiscations do violate the Constitution but we've been using them for so long that they are now an integral part of the means by which the legal system works and their use will therefore, persist." Is that your idea of fixing a bad law? It isn't mine.
How about another example? What about mandatory vehicle insurance? In the state where I live the attempt to pass such a law had failed many times. It was finally passed after the bill was altered to include and automatic repeal of the law, ten years after it was passed into legislation. Ten years later, the portion of the law which made it self-repealing was simply removed and the law is still in force some 20-years later.
Fixing such a law is simple and obvious. Rather than forcing everyone to purchase insurance from companies which aren't regulated by government, simply correct auto insurance to work like every other form of insurance. When you buy fire insurance do you have to insure every house on the block or just your own house? Note that auto insurance doesn't work that way. You're not insuring your vehicle, you're insuring every other vehicle on the road against potential damage you might cause. This makes certain that insurance companies receive the maximum profit. To fix the law, each of us should simply have the option of insuring our own vehicle. If you choose to insure your vehicle and it's damaged or totaled, then it gets replaced in accordance with the policy you purchased. If you choose not to insure your vehicle and it's damaged or totaled, then it isn't replaced because you chose not to insure it. That's how other forms of insurance work but they're not mandated by law. Now try to fix that.
As for the idea that the majority of laws improve the quality of life for everyone, I'm sorry but I see law enforcement in action 40-hours a week and the vast majority of enforcement action is against activity for which there is no victim. The vast majority of laws now in force are designed not to prevent the violation of the rights of another, but to prevent the circumstances under which a violation might otherwise occur. For example, in my state it is illegal to have a loaded firearm in a vehicle within 1000 feet of a school ground. That means that technically, it's illegal to drive down at least seven of the city streets with a loaded firearm in your vehicle and it also makes it illegal to drive to one of the local shopping centers with a loaded gun in your vehicle.
The idea is to prevent the use of a firearm to kill people at the school. But that's already illegal and yet it still happens. So it then becomes illegal to enter into circumstances by which such a violation might take place, even when there is no intent to harm anyone. There is no longer a victim. It's just one law, piled atop another law, piled atop another, simply because the primary laws don't stop the behavior they're intended to prevent.
Perhaps worse still are the laws which are designed only to force people into paying money to government entities. Try vehicle registration which is what it's called in the state where I live but that's not really what it is. Here, if you drive a more valuable vehicle, you'll pay more money for your yearly registration. That's a luxury tax, not a registration fee. And the penalty for an expired registration is a $550 fine, atop the need to then register the vehicle. Who was the victim? Government would like you to believe that for everyone who doesn't pay, the rest of us have to pay more. But it doesn't work that way in a luxury tax system, especially when no one really seems to know where the money goes or what it pays for.
Your defense of children misses the point that elderly people are often just as helpless as children, and as helpless as are some handicapped and mentally retarded individuals. But the instinct to protect them is far less strong than it is for children, so people are better able to maintain a level of rationality. The bottom line remains the same; if you continue to call for enforcement of your ideas over the ideas of others where parenting methods are concerned, you place government in the position of taking over in establishing how, when, where, how much and if you will be allowed to parent your own children. Do you have any idea how often I hear people making complaints about loud music, the smell of smoke or the way others drive followed by "I have children"? People actually do think that having children makes them special and entitled to special privileges. It doesn't nor should it. But little by little, they're getting those special privileges because they continue to demand them. Having children makes people one of the vast majority, not a member of the special or elite.
I absolutely agree that less well educated people are easier to control. So perhaps people should look at what has happened to national test scores in America as government becomes more and more involved in education. Part of being well educated is to apply critical thought to what you're taught rather than simply regurgitating whatever you're told. That helps to separate knowledge from propaganda. We (the U.S.), as a society, seem to be growing ever less capable of applying critical thought. And it all comes back (though not always directly), to people who can't seem to simply live and let live. They need to do for others what they demand for themselves. The consequences for not doing so are for everyone to lose all of their rights and freedoms.
Every law passed is a freedom lost.
Yes, that's true, but some laws are important. haha....such as don't kill, don't steal, don't do meth, keep your grass cut (it brings bugs and disease with the filth), things like that.
But yea, I agree, it's about perspective too and yes on intent too!
Good views to think on here and that's what I was wondering about.
Even the people you quoted passed laws so I guess that makes them hypocrites. You can not have a functional society without some from of law. If you notice society and socialism have the same root. You can't have a society without a certain amount of socialism. Yes the handicapped, elderly and mentally ill all deserve the same protections as children for more or less the same reason because they have an inability to do it themselves. When it comes to any form of insurance I totally agree that making it mandatory is wrong. If they are going to do that then they should just make it part of the taxes and the government provide the insurance. As for the seat belt law just what freedom are you really losing other than your freedom to fly through the windshield i mean who actually wants to do that? And while Auto deaths only account for 1.8% but 63% of those could have been prevented by a seat belt. Heart disease may be one of the top killers but accounts for more like 27% than 77% according to the CDC's report released in June of last year. Also the consumption of meat is only a small factor in the number of heart disease deaths. In most cases its how the meat was prepared as opposed to the meat itself that leads to heart disease. Fried vegetables are worse for you than grilled red meat. There are nutrients in meats that you can't get from vegetables. Eliminating meat from everyone's diets would not stop anywhere close to that number of heart disease deaths. Too much of anything is bad for you but even if people wanted to legislate that it would be impossible to enforce. Putting on a seat belt doesn't hurt anyone nor does it take away your freedom. It does protect one of your freedoms though your right to life. When it comes to gun laws the majority of them are unconstitutional but the media and politicians make what seems to be logical arguments usually at the time of a disaster like Columbine or a public figure getting shot to get them passed. Eventually the general public will wake up and force change to be made. Just because the supreme court doesn't make a change in a law doesn't mean the public can't. The public can vote the repeal of a law with or without the support of the politicians. The problem is too many people fail to realize this or even care enough to try. On to parenting. I never said anything about expecting everyone to get the same level of parenting that would be absolutely impossible. There is a big difference between parenting and abuse. Corporal punishment within reasonable limits is not abuse. It's one thing to swat a kid a few times on the butt with your hand, but it's a different story if you do it 20 times with a belt. They only way to be sure you aren't hitting too hard is to use your hand and the only place you should be hitting is the seat of their pants. It's also not good as the only means of punishment. Verbal abuse is also pretty obvious if you see it in action and is not a form of parenting. I feel just as strongly about spousal abuse of either gender and yes it happens to both genders you just don't hear about it as much the in the case of males getting abused because they are even more ashamed than women when it happens to them. I'm not trying to say it happens as much as the other way around just that it's more than people realize. In any case when you witness real abuse it's usually pretty obvious and you don't even have to think to ask yourself if it's abuse or not. The system here is not by any means perfect but I challenge you to find a better one currently in existence. The biggest problems with our system is not the system itself but the corruption of the people within it. The main ideas I'm trying to get across is yes live and let live as long as no one is truly harmed physically or mentally. By the same token one should also strive to be considerate of others. Loud music occasionally is one thing but on a daily basis it can be really stressful to other people or if you are knowingly playing it at a time when you know your neighbors are trying to sleep. Compromises can be reach with a little effort. There is a difference between asking someone to turn music down and telling them that they can't listen to it.
Usually people do it when it begins to interfere with their lifes!
This is exaclly something that have bothered me lately. I hate when people come to me and complains over alot of silly little things. I often ask myself "They cant have a own life, or they have so crappy poor life so they have to watch what others do and not do" Everyday in the newspaper there is complainings on others. It is annoying and sometimes it make me angry. If i see something someone do is dangerous for him/her so can i tell that ofcourse. But other then that i dont see any need or reason to care what others do so long it dont involving myself.
if they are noy doing harm to you then whats the problem
Vforvendetta so if you're at a restaurant and some guy starts beating the crap out of his girlfriend that's OK because he's not beating the crap out of you?
there is a time to step in and there is times we should not but as long as no one is in harms way then let them live and you live your way
All great posts here... and to each their own and yes, we should live and let live...except when there is an extreme case going on - for instance, the meth lab next door - they are extremely dangerous and just turning on a light switch can set something off and a big kaboom ensues...in that case, a call to the police is a good idea. Perhaps it is that I was a cop, who knows, but someone doing something dangerous and illegal, sorry, that is crossing the line and I'll make it my business.
There is a fine line when a person observes another person discipling their children... Where I work, people are always calling into security because they don't like what they see another person doing to their children - even if it is a slap to the butt, people are outraged... again a fine line there and to me, it is their family and not to interfere. If they drag their toddler by the arm and toss it around, well, that's time for interference.
Live and Let Live unless letting live harms your ability to live.
Most of the time i do believe in live and let live and not meddle in someone else business or life, yet there are sometimes we must take a stand on morals and principles, like if someone is beaten or hurt by the others force, than it is a matter of morals to me, other than that i do take a side step to others life.
Beast: the exceptions to laws (focusing on children, ostensibly for their helplessness, while less attention is given to equally helpless elderly) does not invalidate the "good" achieved by the law. Now, I've opened up a whole new path of dispute with the use of that word.
An aside: I'd like to pass a VR law forcing the use of paragraph breaks when making long posts. Just kidding. I know I can exercise my individual choice and just not read them, but please consider their use.
Sure live and let live is great but there are times you do need to "interfere. "
I notice that many on sites as well as the outside world seem to want to trash others that they have no reason to trash other than they have decided they are going to be that person's or group of people's judge and jury.
Well it might seem like to them they are not committing any wrong but to others they are especially when they are getting their friends to gang up on someone who has actually done them no harm.
Live and let live but don't forget there are times you need to stand up and tell some to back off someone else who is just trying to be.
My thoughts also i forgot to add to my post above because my fingers are working too fast or whatever that cliche is would be too that if you know someone who is hurting themself in some way that you feel you know well enough to try to say something to than you should feel you could "interfere" in that as well.
I mean if you have a friend or family member or just a close acquaintance that is doing something that will cause them and/or you pain you should be able to speak to them about it.
They might not listen that is true but least you did try where you have no regret later if they come to a bad end.
As well i feel you should feel you can "interfere" as there was something written above about if you see someone abusing their child or a child or an animal i feel too you should speak up as how good can they honestly defend themself?
Sometimes it is up to others to step in to try to make things better even if we really wish to not get involved and just want to live and let live.
There comes a point you do have to cross that line.
Wolvie,
Re: "Even the people you quoted passed laws so I guess that makes them hypocrites."
Again I fear you've missed the point. No one has suggested a lawless society. The point is that laws were to be enacted only to protect your rights from infringement by others, and not to protect you from yourself. Laws which protect you from yourself violate the premise upon which the founding fathers based the Constitution.
The freedoms we're losing are simply freedoms of choice. And of course government is never slow to turn the application of law into a profit making venture.
As concerns the death rate from heart attack, I'm afraid you have misread what I posted. I stated that heart disease, coupled with diabetes and cancer account for 64 - 77% of deaths annually and if you pull up any list of the top ten causes of death in the U.S., it will demonstrate that I am correct. (As concerns heart attacks alone, the number is usually around 35% but fluctuates from year to year.)
As for your suggestion that fried vegetables are a greater health risk that red meat, the claim is simply false. I've spent much of the last 15-years reading reports and conclusions of countless studies and the outcome is the same in all of them -- those who abstain from consuming animal flesh are healthier than those who don't. And since your argument was based on the lives saved by mandatory seat belt laws, you must remember the fact that automobile accidents account for less than 1% of deaths annually. Even if deaths linked to diet were a mere 2%, you simply have no argument. Vegetarians exhibit only 25% of the heart attack rate found in those who consume meat and only 40% of the cancer rate. Vegans exhibit only 1/15th the heart attack rate of those who consume meat. So if you're in favor of enacting laws which deprive us of freedoms, in the name of saving lives, how much would you be in favor of legislated diet? It's a simple question and the numbers are readily available to prove beyond any doubt that such laws would save far more lives than do seat belts. It would seem that while you're in favor of taking away the freedom of choice when it comes to something you don't mind, when it comes to something you don't want to lose, suddenly you're shifting to the other foot.
But let's not turn this into a diet debate. The point is simple; there are many laws which could be enacted which would save far more lives than do mandatory seat belt laws. Let's focus on that. Your assertions about meat are old-fashioned, purely refuted and avoid observing man's digestive physiology. We are, physiologically speaking, monogastric herbivores and we classify as such at every point in our digestive system. We have the mouth gape, jaw-hinge location, teeth, saliva, salivary enzymes, salivary glands, salivary output, chewing habits, digestive acids (HCL), stomach capacity, digestive tract length, colon routing, interior colon contour and even the urine of a monogastric herbivore. And just like any other monogastric herbivore, if you include animal tissues in our diet, we begin to develop atherosclerosis and eventually suffer from dramatically increased rates of heart attack, stroke, cancer and diabetes. There is simply no credible way to assert that legislation removing meat from our allowed diet would not save far more lives than do seat belt laws, speed laws and helmet laws combined.
And don't misread me here. I'm not in favor of enacting diet laws. I'm simply making the point that if we ignore the freedoms we lose via such laws, we must face the consequences of needlessly losing the very freedoms we're supposed to be guaranteed by the work of the founding fathers (considering the U.S. only), and we become a socialist society, rather than a republic. You can't ignore the loss of freedoms in the name of greater safety. I'll post it again for you;
"The man who would choose security over freedom deserves neither." -- Thomas Jefferson
"They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve and receive neither liberty nor safety..." -- Benjamin Franklin
And your assertion that you couldn't enforce such a law (concerning diet), is a strict avoidance of the facts. We enforce drug laws. It would be no more difficult to enforce laws against eating meat.
And putting on a seat belt most certainly does reduce our freedoms. It removes the freedom of choice -- the most important freedom we can have.
While you obviously understand that many of the gun laws are unconstitutional, do you remember the point you were trying to make? You said that if there were any bad laws, we could simply remove them through the democratic process. The process simply doesn't work as it is supposed to when politics, the media and people who wish to remain ignorant become muddled together as a society. Nor can it work when people replace a republic (protecting individual rights), with a democracy (governing society at the loss of individual freedoms). It is often stated that, "Democracy is two wolves and a sheep deciding what to have for dinner." It only works to protect individual freedoms if the freedom of the individual is protected first and the concern for democratic rule placed second. And that's exactly how the founding fathers set up the government. It no longer functions that way because people have forgotten about the importance of individual freedoms and have replaced it with personal perspectives and opinions.
You can only vote to repeal a law when politicians offer their efforts to get behind such a bill. And the pure fact of the matter is that most will not attempt to do anything which might allow opposition to label them as soft on crime or disinterested in protecting the members of society from themselves.
And the failure of the Supreme Court to act in accordance with the U.S. Constitution most certainly does mean the public can't change such laws. The whole point behind having a Supreme Court is to analyze laws for compliance with the Constitution. When they fail to do so even after admitting that a law is unconstitutional, your means of removing such laws has just been eliminated.
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Re: "It's one thing to swat a kid a few times on the butt with your hand, but it's a different story if you do it 20 times with a belt."
This puts you right back to arguing perspectives. I know many people who claim you should never use physical contact with a child as a means of punishment. California nearly had such a law passed in the past few years. The part you don't seem to want to understand is that there is a wide range of what people consider to be acceptable and unacceptable. And the moment one person decides their views should be the mandated views, everyone else stands to lose their personal freedom of choice. Don't think I came to my conclusions while reading this thread. I've had over a quarter of a century of watching these processes in action upon which to form my opinions and research the facts on the matter. Enacting anyone's perspective as law eliminates your freedom to choose. There is nothing you can argue to change that fact.
Thusly, we need to be very careful about what we consider important enough to attempt to exercise control over others. I think we can all agree that laws against murder are completely appropriate. And such laws do nothing to violate the Constitution or the words of the founding fathers because to kill another human being is to deny them their most basic right. Forcing them to wear a seat belt, wear a helmet, pay inappropriate fees, unapportioned taxation, forced forfeiture of property, denying them the right to choose how to maintain their homes and dictating how they must raise their children are all examples of laws which clearly violate the ideals of the founding fathers and eliminate the rights of others simply for the sake of satisfying whiners and complainers who want all of the benefits of living in society, but wish to isolate themselves from anything they personally find annoying, distasteful or contrary to their personal perspectives.
Live and let live. Allow others the same rights you would claim for yourself. If you want the right to choose how to raise your children, then allow others the same right, even if you disagree that it's the best thing for the children. If you want the right to wear your seat belt because you choose to do so, then allow others the right not to wear theirs, simply because they choose not to wear it.
The line between a free society and one controlled by government mandate can become very thin. And the thing that can erase that line altogether are members of the society who attempt to reduce the rights of others by enacting their personal preferences as law. You simply can't have law-making bodies sitting around 5-days a week, several hours a day, year after year for over 200-years; adding law, after law, after law to the books and continue to proclaim you live in a "free society". We have literally millions of laws and each morning when you wake up, you have fewer freedoms than you did the morning before. How can you possibly continue under such a system and still think you live in a free society. "Every law passed is a freedom lost!"
The key to remaining freedom is to live and let live, and recognize that living in a society has many perks and many annoyances. Either let the annoyances go, or be forced into surrendering all of your freedoms, bit by bit and day by day. Because the things you see as your rights and your personal freedoms, are the very things others will see as annoyances and dangerous activities -- dangerous not to them, but to you.
That's what I do, live and let live, if I feel the need I offer help and give advices but leave the person have their own free will.
I believe there is a difference between telling someone how they should live and standing by and watching someone get bashed, robbed raped etc etc. Yet in our present day a lot of people dont interfere in this they rather just stand there and watch. Anyone in their right mind would step in and help someone in trouble, but if someone tries to say your living your life wrong you should do it my way that is wrong.
I'm just gonna put this on the table. Live forever and let die.
Those that intentionally provoke others, doing little things in combination to others around them, usually out of sociopathic impulses, can really challenge a persons intent to live and let live, they count on people pointing out.. so and so is doing this activity, or not doing this activity.. seeming to others that it is no "big deal" yet the sociopath knows to do only so much to unsettle the target of their twisted game. So that brings me back to degrees of ethics, when a hands on approach (intervention is needed). I was driven to a break down at my last job by a sociopath, I did the live and let live, yet work moral dived because he got away with what he was doing, he would lay off for a week or month and start again with Passive aggressive behavior, all the while his performance on the job grew more and more negligent, I lived and let lived.. I had to quit that job, and eventually the entire crew quit around the fall out. He was fired, yet the damage had been done, he won.. I ask this question, is it live and let live when you are the person doing something others don't like? Or live and let live when others are doing something you don't like?
I guess you're staunchly for state's rights, Beast?
I treasure my individual liberties and have been accused of having problems with authority. Yet, I don't mind a bit of socialism.
Only in smaller communities, on a planet with less people, would the kind of Republic you're talking about manage to exist.
Still, as exotically beautiful as the opening ceremonies were in Beijing, the art was tinged with the political for me. The concept of live and let live was dismissed long ago in China, and I certainly wouldn't want to head in that direction.
It's a two-way street, dabbler. The key is to recognize the difference between real harm, and annoyance.
If you prevent real harm, you're protecting your rights. If you attempt to stop other because they annoy you, you're infringing upon their rights.
I'm kind of confused on the question here. Are you asking when is it right to break the code of "live and let live" and interfere with someone else's life? Cause if it is, I think you answered that question yourself: do your thing, let them do their thing, but if their thing messes up your thing, intervene.
Let me know if I'm missing the question here, lol.
Then it is likely to become a matter of who is more annoying, even if the first person to address an annoying matter had a valid case, the accused will attempt to shadow, or down play their intent. Civil courts are full of such cases, the line between civil matter, and criminal is right in the same neighborhood. Thanks Beast.
I'm not defending State's Rights, Bloodmother. I'm defending individual rights.
The kind of republic I'm talking about worked for several decades (more than a century), before people lost sight of the reason for defending individual freedoms above mob-rule. I'm sure you're aware that no truly free society has ever existed for more than 200-years. Most are not lost by military over-throw or even a political coup. Most are lost in a slow progression fueled by the insistence of members of the populous to win control over other members of the populous, even when that control is not in the interest of defending the rights of the individual.
You have the right not to suffer true harm at the hands of another. But if you believe in freedom and individual rights, you have no right to silence anyone, demand they protect themselves from harm, or impose restrictions on their rights simply to avoid annoyance.
What goes around, comes around. You restrict their rights, they'll restrict yours. In the end, no one has any rights or freedoms left and the government is granted the power to rule over everyone -- that power being granted to the government by ill-informed selfish members of the populous, demanding the power to control others.
As you control so will you be controlled. People who don't understand that think they can have everything their way, and not cause the loss of freedoms. It doesn't work that way. Free societies naturally have more crime that societies under dictatorial rule. More freedom means more crime. Less freedom means less crime. Many people today believe they can reduce crime without reducing freedom. But it doesn't work and can't ever work. You reduce crime through more strict control. And "more strict control" is simply a way of saying "less freedom".
You have to take the bad with the good. If you don't, you end up with no good left.
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You can't interfere with other people's lives. It just won't work. People are going to be dicks and do the opposite of what you ask just to spite you and to try and tear down your morale. The only thing you really can do is try to live your life as best by you and by others as you possibly can. If someone is doing wrong, you may have to work a little harder to pick up the slack. It's not fair but it's the way the world works. If you try to correct the problem, people normally just get defensive, distort the situation, and make things a lot worse than they were to begin with. Let them mess up their own lives. You may have to work a bit harder at it because of those types of people but your life will better.
As long as what you are doing doesn't harm me or my family I say live and let live.
Actually beast what has messed things up the most is when people in the name of individual rights get their panties in a bunch over things like someone flying a confederate flag claiming it has to be hate when in many cases it's just southern pride. Another thing is a lot has changed since the constitution was written. We have to protect this country from outside attacks without infringing on basic freedoms and that is not an easy thing to do. Also there are a lot more people living in much less space, which makes protecting rights even more difficult because 1 persons actions are more likely to interfere with another person. Many people also have some misconceptions about things like freedom of religion. Freedom of religion means you have the freedom to believe what you want. It does not however mean that you can do what ever you want in the name of religion. For example there are still some religions that believe certain actions by people warrants them being stoned to death. Putting that into practice here is not protected by the freedom of religion. i think if you look more closely at my statements we are not really that far. The seat belt law doesn't protect just the individual but others as well because its a proven fact that when you where a seat belt you are also in better control of your vehicle. Also if everyone in the vehicle is wearing seat belts they won't become projectiles in the accident potentially killing or injuring other people in the car. One thing you also have to remember driving a car is considered a privilege not a right so that affects laws that affect that privilege. As for what I said about meat and vegetables you missed the fact that the meat was grilled versus fried vegetables and granted that also varies to degrees by what the vegetables are fried in. I also pointed out that it would be impossible to police any legislation involving diet. Another thing when a person makes a conscious decision to change their diet by eliminating something from it they are more likely to watch everything they eat and eat better as a whole. So comparing the 2 is not completely accurate unless you look at people that manage their diet that eat meat. If you do you will find that people that eat a balanced diet that includes meat are just as healthy. Also your statements that humans are herbivores is not correct. Human teeth disprove that, we have the teeth of an omnivore. Herbivores have flat teeth for mashing. Omnivores have multifunctional teeth for the tearing/cutting of flesh and the mashing of vegetables. Also the way the teeth line up between the upper and lower jaw also indicates flesh eating. Herbivores jaws and teeth line up straight up and down while animals that eat flesh the lower jaw is usually slightly set back and slightly smaller than the upper jaw. I don't believe that things should be outlawed just because they are dangerous because life itself is inherently dangerous. As I said before in my last post to much of anything can kill you even things that are good for you. You can't outlaw everything that might kill you. I also believe that people have a right to die as well as the right to live. Comparing eating habits to wearing seat belts is like comparing an apple to an ink pen. Whether or not you wear a seat belt doesn't affect your lifestyle.
Wow this thread has become a novel!
it's simple! if it is hurting you are someone else, yes...get involved. If not? then no! if your neighbor is smoking crack in his basement. Leave him too it lol
The problem is people that smoke crack always end up hurting others
I belive in letting people live there own life as long as it doesn't hurt anybody else
Wolvie,
Re: "what has messed things up the most is when people in the name of individual rights get their panties in a bunch over things like someone flying a confederate flag claiming it has to be hate when in many cases it's just southern pride"
To cut right to the core here; I'm just not sure how you could be any more wrong. Flying a Confederate flag, a French flag or even burning the American flag is an exercise of individual rights. You seem to have your roles crossed.
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Re: "Another thing is a lot has changed since the constitution "
I must assume you think the founding fathers were a bunch of idiots then because you seem to think they didn't foresee that many things would change. But if you simply read the Constitution, you'll see that it's written as a foundation, not a list of specifics. It's a foundation upon which all other laws are to be built. But any law which isn't supported by that foundation, simply has no place in America. The founding fathers knew they couldn't possibly foresee the future so they looked to the past and built the rules upon history. By seeing how freedoms have been lost in the past, they had a fair idea how they might be lost in the future. So they warned against such carelessness. Unfortunately, people would actually have to care enough and be responsible enough to really try to understand some of the founding rules in order to see the reason for them. They didn't tell us how many rounds could be loaded into a magazine or how fast our cars could go. They recognized they had no way to know what future technology and populations might bring. So they wrote the standards in a very general form which still fit as well today as they did then. The only problem is that people want what they want and pay no mind whatsoever to long-term consequences. So they see the standards set forth in the Constitution and begin harping that the founding fathers didn't know how things were going to turn out. And yet, the Constitution, if allowed, would work as well today as it did when first signed.
Re: "We have to protect this country from outside attacks without infringing on basic freedoms and that is not an easy thing to do."
You're attempting to mis-apply the Constitution. It's not written as a military strategy to protect the nation. It's written as a base-level standard for rules governing the people of the country. As for the protection against outside attacks, perhaps the following quote says it best;
The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary." -- H. L. Mencken
That pretty well sizes it up. Don't be so quick to dismiss the idea that our lead politicians might have political agendas behind the stories we're fed. When the evidence doesn't align with an "official" explanation, the explanation is wrong. Evidence is never wrong. If you want to know what government is capable of, go to Wikipedia (or the source of your choice), and do a little research on "Operation Northwoods". Read the actual declassified document. Then think about a few of the wars the U.S. has been involved in and the events that preceded that involvement. Consider the validity of the proclaimed "threat" of outside attacks.
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Re: "Also there are a lot more people living in much less space, which makes protecting rights even more difficult because 1 persons actions are more likely to interfere with another person."
Simply untrue. If the intent is for me to do no real harm to you, then that remains the standard whether you live 20-miles away, just down the block or right next door. People don't harm others just because they're living close together. It's the actions which come under question, not the proximity of the people. People don't mug other people just because they were too close. They don't assault and kill other people because the people were too close. They do those things out of intent to harm and that's a violation of the person's rights.
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Re: "Freedom of religion means you have the freedom to believe what you want. It does not however mean that you can do what ever you want in the name of religion."
Of course you're right that it doesn't mean you can do whatever you want in the name of religion. If it did, the Constitution would require exception clauses for every prohibited action; "Excepting for actions taken in the name of religion". The Constitution has no such clauses because that was never the intent. But how this plays into anything we're discussing, I'm quite unsure.
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Re: "its a proven fact that when you where a seat belt you are also in better control of your vehicle."
I believe the phrase you're looking for is, "in the case of a swerving or out of control vehicle". That's the only time when this "proven fact" comes into play.
This assertion does, however, serve to make the point that if one is ingenious enough and persistent enough, they can link almost anything someone else does to some proclaimed harm or jeopardy for themselves. If you want to go out on such limbs, then I guess we'll just have to make your cell phone illegal because of the potentially harmful effects of the microwave signal. Of course you're the one most likely to suffer the extremely minor risk of potential for harm, but if there is any potential for harm at all, then you shouldn't be allowed to use it because it might also affect others. Such arguments quickly reach ridiculous proportions. The most common is the claim that injured but uninsured drivers raise the cost of insurance and medical care for the rest of us. You know, when you have to step away from the act and jump through such hoops to try to find harm, it's not "real harm". It's manufactured harm which might possibly occur under the most extreme of circumstances. Maybe you shouldn't be allowed to yell at your child because my child might like to play with your child and your child won't be mentally stable because of all of the "verbal abuse". It really comes down to how ridiculous one wants to get in trying to find some link between another person's actions and some remote potential for harm. It goes to ridiculous lengths and takes on ridiculous proportions. That's why I stick to the concept of "real harm".
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Re: "Also if everyone in the vehicle is wearing seat belts they won't become projectiles in the accident potentially killing or injuring other people in the car."
I've worked as an ambulance attendant and done personal study on mechanism of injury. I've helped to extricate people from wrecked cars, aircraft and numerous other cases of trauma in enclosed spaces. The first thing to understand about any motor vehicle accident is that they all involve at least three collisions. There is the collision between the vehicle and another object, the collision between the people in the vehicle and the inside of the vehicle itself and a collision between the soft vital organs of the body and the skeletal support structure.
Seat belts act to reduce injury due only to the second collision -- the one between the people in the vehicle and the inside of the vehicle. Very, very rarely do people actually become secondary projectiles. (Of course it can happen in the case of motorcyclists, but they don't have to wear seat belts so I guess we'll just have to make it illegal to ride a motorcycle too?) Let's also not forget that while statistically, seat belts reduce the odds of injury, they can also cause injuries which might not otherwise be sustained. Again, the whole concept simply takes harm to ridiculous lengths in order to try to justify unnecessarily denying others the same kind of rights you would claim for yourself. If you have the right to choose to wear a seat belt, then allow everyone else the right to choose for themselves. They're not hurting you.
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Re: "One thing you also have to remember driving a car is considered a privilege not a right so that affects laws that affect that privilege."
There are many sayings people hear repeated over and over in this country and yet, with even a moment of examination, many can be found to be purely untrue. Such things are best labeled "propaganda" and this is a prime example.
Who said driving was a privilege and not a right? When did that take place? Was it when the first car was built? No. Was it right after the first car crash? No. Was it when licensing became standard? We all have the right to reasonable travel and in this day and age, especially, that means the right to drive. Is voting a privilege or a right? It can be taken away if you're convicted of a felony. You have to register and follow the rules before you're allowed to vote. Does that mean you don't have the right to vote; that it's only a privilege?
If I buy a vacuum cleaner, vacuum cleaner bags, pay for electrical power to run the vacuum cleaner and have arranged for legal access to an abode, do I not have the right to vacuum? When does it become a privilege and not a right? It's a privilege to have reasonable access to personal transportation? Not so. It's wonderful propaganda, but it's not correct. It's just one of those catchy sayings used to make people think they don't have rights when they do.
Here's what Hitler said about propaganda.
"The receptivity of the great masses is very limited, their intelligence is small, but their power of forgetting is enormous. In consequence of these facts, all effective propaganda must be limited to a very few points and must harp on these in slogans until the last member of the public understands what you want him to understand by your slogan." -- Adolph Hitler
Sadly, he was correct and he demonstrated his understanding of propaganda very well. This understanding is again illustrated in phrases such as "driving is a privilege, not a right". Being catchy or repeated frequently doesn't make something true.
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Re: "as for what I said about meat and vegetables you missed the fact that the meat was grilled versus fried vegetables and granted that also varies to degrees by what the vegetables are fried in."
Well, if you fry the vegetables in enough saturated fat and cholesterol to exceed the amount of saturated fat and cholesterol in the meat, then yes, you're going to consume more fat and cholesterol in the veggies fried in fat and cholesterol. But vegetables don't contain any cholesterol (it's only found in animal-based foods), and that means you'd have to use an animal-based (meat) product in order to add quantities of cholesterol to the vegetables. Secondly, while vegetables do contain fats, they're mostly unsaturated fats while meat is the primary source of saturated fats in western diets.
But even if you grill the meat, it already contains large quantities of saturated fats and cholesterol and it will still contain them even if you don't fry it. If you fry the meat in animal fat, then it's not vegetarian.
So back to my point, since far more lives could be saved by legislating a vegetarian diet than could possibly be saved by mandatory seat belt laws, are you in favor of such mandated diets as you are the mandated use seat belts? I've asked that question three times now and you still haven't provided an answer. I think that's because you know quite well that you have a double-standard here. You don't mind wearing a seat belt so you don't mind taking that freedom of choice away from everybody else. But when someone else can provide even better justification to take away something you don't want to lose, suddenly you try to change footing and attempt to find a way to justify your double-standard.
And that really cuts to the crux of what I keep saying -- as you pursue reasons to take freedoms from other people, other people will also pursue reasons to take freedoms away from you. You think it's okay to eliminate freedom of choice when it comes to seat belts because it can save lives (even though the founding fathers made it very clear that such an idea is in direct conflict with their founding ideals). But when someone can use the very same line of thought to take away something you wish to retain for yourself, suddenly you're ducking and dodging your own line of thought in order to try to justify what you want, and avoid the same justification for what others might suggest.
There is one escape for this kind of situation -- live and let live. As long as the choices and actions of others do not cause you direct "real harm", then let it go, even if you think they've made a bad choice.
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Re: "I also pointed out that it would be impossible to police any legislation involving diet."
Strictly speaking, that's not exactly true either. You made the assertion. But that assertion was clearly refuted. Drug laws are enforced. What do you think makes it more difficult to enforce prohibition of trafficking in body parts than in drugs?
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Re: "Another thing when a person makes a conscious decision to change their diet by eliminating something from it they are more likely to watch everything they eat and eat better as a whole. So comparing the 2 is not completely accurate unless you look at people that manage their diet that eat meat. If you do you will find that people that eat a balanced diet that includes meat are just as healthy."
As I stated before, I don't wish this to become a debate about diet. But you keep making claims that you simply can't support. Your claim here is refuted by virtually every study ever performed to determine the affects of meat in the human diet. Tests have been performed on non-human monogastric herbivores (and even multigastric herbivores), and the tests conclusively demonstrated that the saturated fats and cholesterol in meat (along with all of the antibiotics, steroids and toxins), cause a sharp increase in the incidents and degree of atherosclerosis, heart attack, stroke, diabetes and cancer. The research animals weren't concerned with their diet or exercise programs and those who pursue vegetarian diets for religious reasons aren't doing so for health purposes. So your entire assertion goes right out the window. You can keep pounding away at this if you wish, but the research has provided mountains of evidence, all of which disproves your claims.
And while we're at it, let's just make a few other things illegal too, shall we? How about cigarettes, cigars, pipe-smoking, alcohol and excess salt? How about extra-marital sex? All of those things contribute to more deaths annually than do automobile accidents. So if we can justify forcing people to wear seat belts because it saves lives, then let's not keep allowing them to do other things which claim far more lives than do automobile accidents. We can even mandate exercise programs for those not disabled. Sound good?
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Re: "Also your statements that humans are herbivores is not correct. Human teeth disprove that, we have the teeth of an omnivore. Herbivores have flat teeth for mashing. Omnivores have multifunctional teeth for the tearing/cutting of flesh and the mashing of vegetables."
You're simply wrong again. You're thinking about the teeth of a multigastric herbivore, not a monogastric herbivore (which is what people are). The teeth of non-scavenging omnivores include usable canine or carnassial -- teeth capable of puncturing tough animal hides and hanging on while the animal fights and bucks. Human teeth can't do that. There is no reinforcing bone at the base of what humans call "canine teeth" and the teeth rarely extend below the point of the flanking teeth. Those teeth are completely non-functional to serve the purpose of a true canine or carnassial tooth.
You can fight this all you like. In the end I'll simply have to direct you to the Framingham Study, The International Atheroscerotic Project and many, many others. In fact, if you'd like to simply put the argument to rest, I direct you to;
Marmot, M., "Epidemiologic studies of coronary heart disease and stroke in Japanese men living in Japan, Hawaii and California," American Journal of Epidemiology
Keys, A., "Coronary Heart Disease in Seven Countries," American Heart Association Monograpgh No. 29, Circulation, 41, Supplement 1, page 211
Wissler, R., "Studies of Regression of Advanced Atherosclerosis in Experimental Animals and Man," Annals of the New York Academy of Science
Armstrong, M., "Regression of Coronary Atheromatosis in Rhesus Monkeys," Circ Res
Phillips, R., "Coronary Heart Disease Mortality Among Seventh Day Adventists with Differing Dietary Habits," Abstract; American Public Health Association Meeting, Chicago, Nov, 1975
Ruys, J., "Serum cholesterol and triglyceride levels in Australian adolescent vegetarians," British Medical Journal
Walles, C., "Hold the Eggs and Butter: Cholesterol is Proved Deadly and Our Diet May Never Be the Same," Time Magazine, March, 1984
Norum, K., "What is the Experts Opinion on Diet and Coronary Heart Diseases?," Norwegian Medical Association
That's but a very small sampling and if pressed, I'll provide more. But it's the same story over, and over -- meat in the human diet leads to a markedly increased death rates due to heart attack, cancer, stroke and diabetes.
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Re: "Also the way the teeth line up between the upper and lower jaw also indicates flesh eating... (etc., etc.)"
Again, you're confusing the teeth of a multigastric herbivore with the teeth of a monogastric herbivore. Multigastrics have digestive systems and teeth geared to breaking down the tough cellulose fibers in grasses and leaves, rather than succulent plant stalks, fruits, vegetables, legumes and grains like a monogastric herbivore. (AKA: We're not cattle.)
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Re: "I don't believe that things should be outlawed just because they are dangerous because life itself is inherently dangerous."
And yet, that is the very reason you gave as justification for relieving people of their rights and freedom to choose when it comes to the use of seat belts. As I stated before, it's not quite so easy to impose things you don't like on yourself as it is to impose things on others that they may not like.
I do wish to extend a sincere "thank you" to you because I believe you have served to illustrate my point better than I could have without your help. You've demonstrated that such ideas are a double-standard, wherein it is found to be acceptable to impose one's preferences on others, at the cost of their rights and freedoms, as long as the same is not expected of you.
And the issues are usually more emotionally driven than logically driven as is also illustrated here. I've spent countless hours reading books, reports, studies, magazines and watching broadcasts and videos to learn about the actual impact of diet. I get no indication that you've ever read so much as a single book. But for reasons I can't identify, politics, religion and diet seem to be intensely emotional topics for most people. And as with any emotional topic, people will defend their emotional position even when they have little to no support to aid their arguments. And this is key with utilizing propaganda to sway a people into forfeiting the very rights that they believe they hold so dearly.
It's never easy to take anything from any populous if they understand that that's what you're doing. It's far easier to convince them that they're somehow gaining something so that they don't notice the losses until it's too late. That's the function of propaganda. You can warn people;
"They that can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety deserve and receive neither liberty nor safety..." '- Benjamin Franklin
"The man who would choose security over freedom deserves neither." '- Thomas Jefferson
"Government is not reason, it is not eloquence, it is force; like fire, a troublesome servant and a fearful master." -- George Washington
The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary." -- H. L. Mencken
...but, here we are; arguing over whether or not it is appropriate to give up our hard-won rights and freedoms in pursuit of safety/security.
You can warn people about the losses they will thrust upon themselves, but you can't make them think and recognize that the warning is valid and should be heeded.
Live... and let live.
Some ppl seem to want to control everyone but as long as they aren't trying to be like Hitler or anything them live and let live
Live and Let Live doesn't always mean that nobody steps into anothers life. In order to survive in the same area of life creatures interact and end up stepping into anothers life. I simply refers to not telling someone they cant marry someone because of their sexuality or religion. It means that you let others believe what they want to believe. Giving advice is different. If someone is having 10 kids by different women and all those other examples you gave then its advisable to advise them to change their ways. However, you cannot force them. Forcing them ends the theory of live and let live. Like taking someones job in a coven because you don't like them, that is ending the lifestyle of live nad let live.
My perspective is existentialistic and amoralistic, based on personal accountability and Satanism. If someone does something, it is his or her responsibility to bear the consequences. One's rights are one's capabilities. The usual view of rights is more of a metaphysical restriction. Saying that one does not have the right to intefere is hypocritical, as imposing the lack of rights upon someone is interference. On the same note, one does have the right to take away the rights of others. Personal accountability acknowledges this. One either is subject to others or is of the sort that subjects others to his or her own desire to restrict rights. So, it is one's own right to waste and kill. It is one's own right not to either. It is the right of others to punish either of them. It is the right of either of them to resist the punishment or submit to it.
I say kill one man your a murderer kill a thousand a king kill them all a god.
Death to all!
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honestly i believe in the Live and let live theory to point but i do not think we should kill others or abuse children, elders or animals without having consequences to our actions.
I do believe in living my own life and not interfere in others. If I feel I am being affected by the behaviour of someone else I would try to do the right thing and talk to them about it. If that doesn't help then look to the authorities for help. Other than that there isn't a lot you can do bar move to some place where people believe in the things you believe in.
It took me so long to read this thread... I ate breakfast, did the dishes, got logged out, logged back in, got logged out again... but damn, this is a good one! So intense!
oh yes... Live and let live!
We found a TON of garbage dumped on our road one day - we live in the country. So we opened one of the bags...and guess what? There's someone's bank statement and some credit card bills and stuff ... and all of it has a name on it.
So we're allllll pissed off that someone would dump there freakin garbage right on the side of the road - where the National Forest starts. So we google the name and get a phone number and address - and we call the guy. And he FREAKS out that someone found out that he dumped crap everywhere. So we tell him that we own the land that he's dumped on - and that we're getting the police and the newspaper and we're going to steal his credit card numbers and give them away and that we've got his bank account number (not that we can really do anything with it...buy hey) and so like twenty minutes later the guy comes with a truck and bags and picks up all his trash.
Now we make a habit of it. So if you're gonna dump trash in west central Florida - make sure you're stupid name isn't on it....or we'll get ya! :)
Heh, some people need a quick kick in the butt to remind them that they have responsibilities as well.
You can't tell someone HOW to live, but I think education and healthy environments can help. It isn't a universal fool proof answer, but teaching people simple values - Pick up after yourself, be responsible, having children means you want to have kids and you will be taking care of them.
We can't dictate how people should live, but we can try to make everything a little bit healthier.