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When many people hear about magic they think love spells.

now the questions are:

is it right to use a love spell?

have you used one before?

did it work for you or not?

me no i dont belive in using love spells

if i can not earn there love on my own then it is not worth having

now in my younger school girl age ( 9th grade ) i did try a love spell i thought i had the right hair turned out i did a love spell on his dog, so learned my lesson

I see nothing wrong with casting love spells, provided it's a spell to make both parties happily in love, rather than destroy a happy relationship that's already there. There is nothing wrong with taking control of your destiny and making things go in the direction that YOU want, provided everyone ends up happier than before.

No spell can destroy a person's free will. It can only point him in a certain direction- nor will it create "artificial love". I've known many people who've ended up in happy, life-long relationships due to person-specific love spells, and they're some of the happiest couples I know. The horror stories you find online tend to be either rare cases, or flat-out made up.

By the by, what happened when the dog fell in love with you? ...or do I not want to ask?

Oh, and I have used love spells before. They've all worked fairly well- the last love spell-relationship I had lasted two years and was fairly enjoyable on both ends, but we ended up having a friendly breakup due to it no longer suiting our needs. It wasn't all that serious of a relationship, anyway, though we are still friends.

Love spells by definition are not right to be cast at all. The person desperate enough for a love spell whether it works or not, must be doing something desperately wrong if they wish to resort to such spells, incantations and or ritualistic methods.

I have never used a love spell. I don't think that they are wrong unless it's done for a certain person. If it's to attract someone, being that someone is unknown, then I see that the spell is fit. But if you are trying to attract, say the hottie down the street who is engaged, then I think it is wrong. Spells in general should always be used with no one in mind unless it is a binding spell, or sending healing or good energies.

Love spells used to enrich existing attraction.. sure why not, but like matches.. you can start a fire with one match, but a fire built of matches is a fools gambit.

One would have to isolate the charmed, or spelled person from anyone that may "snap" them to their senses.

Not to mention the longer the charm is to last the more ritual required to sustain the spell.

worth mentioning as well.. if a person feels the individual is attracted to them, and they only lack the will to approach that person spell can be weaved to facilatate will to approach the would be beu.

.. they're well out of order.

.. Love is a two-way street. Or should be.

One last point to dwell on, what if when you get that someone you wanted, she/he is totally wrong for you.

You've been so-wrapped up in acquiring 'your' Love, you neglect tho think that without 'the rest', you have nothing. [I got what I'd wanted.]

Well state Anglus.. Or one may even get an obsessive
reaction to ones charm (spell), then to really season the fire.. find that the attraction to the subject was only superficial. conventing is a sin.. even to hedonist. That which is coveted is not always safe to accire.. What is earned is needed, desire is fleeting, desperation is an ingredient for dispair.

sounds like an appreciation society fella.. but the point is.. I learnt, the hard way.

Like stealing chocolate.. then getting Ill to the depths of ones stomach.. as character building as such ventures are, they are never rembered fondly..

seventeen years in recovery, I can guarentee that.

What if you never ventured to attract the desired subject? Would the longing have been "bearable".

This is a very interesting topic.
My opinion is that Love spells are wrong, assuming they really do exist, that is. Anything that alters the free will of others, in my opinion, is not a good thing.

Besides...why would someone want to be loved by someone that did not love them on their own free will?

Financial benifit, Social prestige, or to spite a person that the subject was bethrought to. All very compelling factors for someone to cast a love charm, or spell. Do such things exist? To a degree yes, nothing mystical.. but to a degree cetrainly.

I have to admit, those are reasons that people probably have done it but it does not make it right...at least in my opinion.

If not mystical...then what is a love spell?

In a way a lovespell can really do magic to help a person in getting contact with his or her love.

Lets say that I am in love with a girl but Im just to shy to show her my atraction or my feelings for her. She will never se me or notice me that way. All I can hope for is that she will make contact with me.
So I come up with the idea of making a lovespell. I do a propper ritual and believes hard in it.
Now I feal much more comfortable and full of confidence. The ritual and my beliefe in that it works makes me dare to have longer eyeconact with the girl, maybe I go up and talk to her and after some time I ask her out. In that way you can say that it works.
I hope you understand my point.

Yes, actually that does make sense. It is actually the self confidence that cast the "spell".

Im happy someone understod my point even if my language was bad.
Its the confidence the ritual gives that cast the spell? Is that a way to put it?

In cases of someone contracting a caster, the spell is often done through social networking.. initiated by the caster. gypsy practices, and Vodoo are effective in such social networking.. Or Social engineering, vaguely similar to what hackers do with computer networks.

Well stated andie

I haven't had anyone I wanted to use one on but I helped my friend and hers worked. It was a simple spell with an onion. I don't see anything wrong with usung love spells. If you are fortunate enough to find someone worthy of using a spell on, more power to you!

No i don't agree to people using love spells however i do believe in working your way towards it. For example, instead of trying to get a cerain person to "love you", try to lay open the path and making it easier for them to find you in the future.

I'm not the type of person to tell you what you should or shouldn't do... But I'll just tell you why I don't use Love Spells anymore.

~I was about 16 or so and generally known to be a witch at the time. A girl in my class came to me and asked me if I would make a love spell for her, she had the biggest crush on this guy in our class and he'd never notice her or want her. Me being the romantic teenager I was, said okay and did it.

They got together about a month later, everything was fine, and then the bruises started showing up. She didn't know he was an abuser, and she liked him too much to leave him, she went to the emergency room before we could get her away from him.~

I haven't done a love spell since. It's too risky for my taste.

love spells are considered black magick. well, the spells to force the will of another being to love you or someone else is black magick. It is white magick and ok to cast a spell to make you more "lovable" or whatever.

I have cast a black magick spell...and no, it did the complete opposite. It backlashed, you knwo the three-fold law....yeah. wasn't pretty

the Lady above me called it.. but its as I said earlier Andi beware what you wish for.. you might get it.. and if you obtained it through 'Black' magic, is it really yours?

my take on love spells..........

It is one thing to ask the universe and the Powers That Be, for guidence in finding the person that you are meant to be with. I see nothing wrong with that what so ever.

But to take away some one's free will because at that very moment you feel that they are the person that you love and can not see past anything else, that is wrong, yes people do meddle in such things, but it never ends well.

Once again, there is no such line between the use of Magic(k). Nothing is black nor white, it is a grey area. It depends on the casters motives. I wish society would understand this already and not be manipulated by what certain esoteric books claim to known and or teach.

Would one consider that if they were to cast love because they were lonely, black magic.. If that love panned out for them in a significant amount of time; to say that a relationship after the dice had been cast that such relationship lasted for 20 or more years later and could be seen as a blessing?

I don't think so.

to gain the love of someone who doesent want to be with u in the first place to me is very rong

It is so easy to live imagining everything as black, and white. Few consider the practicality of most topics. They want a do, or don't, the reason they want a do or don't is if they choose to do then they can rationalize their preconceived plan.. then those that don't are likely to be the ones phishing for sensational fodder for campfire tales.. "Well I heard that love spells make a spelled person a murder.." Then the person that claims to be a level 50 Magic user says, " No I use them all the time, but I know how to bind the dark forces with a fairy goblet."

Personally it depends on what the spell entails.

I dont advise something directed towards a specific person...I have done this ignorantly..and ended up with disastrous results...you should never attempt to force someone to be with you based on a spell...its stupid..and will never work the way you want it to!

I think that Love Spells are the most someone should be cautions with.

I don't see anything wrong with doing a spell to find someone or to help you because there's already the attraction....I never saw it as forcing the person to love you, if that's it, then you're not using magic well, in my opinion.

But like I said before it is the most to be cautious with, what if you get something bad back?

Spells can give you what you want, but to gain that you might lose something else too, it happened to me.

Love spells are great to practice and master. The ability to compel a lover and subjugate the Will of another is a must for the Black Magickan. I would indeed call it Black Magick,
this is right for me but perhaps not right for you.
Now if it is sex or obsession you desire then work your spell, but if it is true respect and unconditional love you seek then you may wind up on the wrong side of the spell.

Have to agree there. Though if your gonna take control of someone through magic or any other means (trances for me) I do recommend doing it on someone willing as it can end up in great sex. But beware that any love searched for this way will usually be horribly wrong or, in the case the love is already there, it can be destroyed.

Yeah I heard of them. Don't know anyone that it has worked for. But the rules of three prevents any good out come coming frome it working.

To call it a Spell, is to not understand how it works.

You see our past, present, and future are all happening at once. So to influence the future, all you need to do is behave as though it already exists. Your thoughts then make it happen.

It's The Power Of Positive Thinking!!!

No person is needed to be thought of, just simply imagine the lover of your dreams, in less than three months they will appear out of nowhere, speaking directly to you, making eye contact with you, asking you to go somewhere with them, and you'll be making plans together.

You can use it to bring True Love, only once True Love arrives, you must let go of all your control over it to make sure it's real.

I think it may depend on the situation but overall no. Love comes whenever it does with no set time or place.

No I have not used a love spell before nor do I intend to.

I have never used one therefore I cannot correctly answer it.

Love spells...
Are they wrong?

I personally would never want to use a love spell. If someone is going to be in love with me I would want it to be because they really were in love with me, not because I forced it upon them. Besides that is changing the possible balance of things. What if someone else is meant for you and you don't end up with that person because you've taken matters into your own hands? What then would happen? So no, Ive not nor would I ever use such a thing.

Serra please explain the part about sex a bit more. Can love spells be used for great sex if a person is willing to let you put them under a spell?

And another thing to the person stating that true love comes only ones. I dont think that is true. True love can come as many times in your life that you let it.

I think individuals that use love spells themselves, are desperate enough to try anything without looking for love in advance. If then, that they have looked for that love and it was no where to be found, then mayhaps the spell could be ideal for them.. But, more often then not, it would bounce back and hit them in the *ss in the long run, since the three fold theory usually comes into play due to karmic relevance.

Go for broke anywho... Nothing like having a lesson learned from personal experience, no?

When I first started to study magick, I created my own little love spell. However, I used it for myself - and no one else. I remember writing down the qualities I look for in the kind of person I'd want to attract, saying a little prayer, and stuffing the piece of paper into a wooden box for safe-keeping. I don't recall if the spell actually worked but, it was fun at the time.

Although since then I don't really dabble with spells too much, especially love spells. Whatever you do in regards to spellwork will come back to you threefold, and so whatever you release into the universe needs to run its course. So, tread with caution before messing with something as powerful and natural as love.

A friend of mine used a love spell and is still married to the guy after 22 years and she is sorry she even did it. not that they are not happy yet.. It just is not right to mess with human emotions and things of the heart, in my opinion. I mean it can really backfire on ya LOL so.

I can prove that Love spell do not work. Please, put a spell and me to see if I will Love you...Not a chance. Love is an emotion, and to love someone you must have that emotion. Some Humans are created without emotions or feeling.

I have never used a love spell, and no I don't think they're right. Even if both parties fall happily in love, they wouldn't be feeling their true feelings. It would be a false happiness forced upon them by someone else. I don't think thats okay.
One of the rules of magic and spell casting is "harm none do what ye will." I personally think altering someone's feelings is a form of harm.
(I can't articulate my thoughts quite right.)
Bascially I guess, I don't think one should alter another's mind or feelings or make them fall in love. The love wouldn't be their own so it wouldn't mean as much, and if they don't fall in love on you on their own, it obviously wasn't meant to be. If you waste your time trying to make someone who isn't right for you fall in love with you you could miss out on something truly great, someone truly great, a soul mate.

I mean no one should use love spells on anyone. You should not screw with free will. markus said he could prove that they do not work, well i can prove they do it is a matter of what a person believes and practices that makes it work or not.

I mean just like prayers you either believe it does help/work or not bottom line yet, no one should ever practice magic on an unknowing source in my opinion.

It would not be love, but lust and desire. The scene in the movie: The Craft gave a very good example of one type of love spell, when the school boy went after one of the supposed "witches" in the movie and the affair ended badly, as in.. the school boy had painful demise.

The feelings that the school boy seemed to have, were lust and desire for the "witch." Which drove him to the deep end, which ended in him going to her apartment without knowning why he did in the first place, as well as he could not get her "out of his head."

Quite detrimental is a love spell, regarding the segment in the movie when it did appear that the emotional parameter went all hay wire, screwy and all in all, off kilter.

I don't believe in doing love spells.

That is shaping someone else's destiny.

To make someone love some one is wrong.

I do believe that doing a spell in an effort to make someone love you is not ethical. If you are going to put so much effort and energy into a spell to make someone love you, why not expend that energy into actually spending time with that individual and having a relationship with them.

I have personally never done a love spell for anything. I feel that if a person is going to love you then they must fall in love with you of their own will and love you for who you really are. If you do a spell for someone to love you, their love is not pure and true. Not saying that things wouldn't work out in the end, but I personally would not want someone to love me based on a facade.

Witchcraft...
or more to the point magick.

I believe magick is life. It is the flow. Every breath I take, every heart beat, its all magick. Spells and charms, formal rituals, and prayers, all of this is just a way to bind yourself to this flow and shape it. It may seem all supernatural and scary but that couldn't be farther from the truth. It is as natural as the gentle breeze. I do not hex anyone or send curses turning people into frogs. I can not get a million dollars or somehow control someone to do my bidding. If witches could, many many more people would be witches. It is about honoring the sacred. Taking control and responsibility for your own life.

It is a sacred craft, mixing new expierences with old traditions, ancient rites, well the best we can piece together of them with, folk lore and myth. Its centered around nature, and the 4 elements- earth, air, fire, water combined with the 5th spirit the divine, you, fae, etc.. No two witches practice the same way. You can be any religion and still be a witch, as it is a craft, a practice.

I am not a witch, but merely wished to explain the such of things...

another thing to consider is that such charms, and spells often involve plenty of time consuming ritual, and routine upkeep. Depending on how involved one wants to be with the object of their desire.

Love spells, i must admit i have, but not for myself.

I have used a sexual seduction spell, that mixed with helping a friend with a fertility spell is a bad idea.

We both got preg lol. But hey... i did get to sleep with the person i did it for. lol

This was almost 12 years ago now, and i haven't touched either one since, no need for either lol.

I have never tried one because it is my personal belief that if it isn't right, you should force it. That person may not be the one for you and trying to make them love you anyway is upsetting the balance.

Did the dog follow you home, MistressVampire?

I do not believe in using love spell for several reasons. I am not a big fan on using spells for personal gain because it gives the caster an unfair advantage. I also do not believe in forcing another person to love you. Some may argue that it is not forcing a person, but if you are using a spell then they are not going to love you willingly.

why would you want someone to be with you who actually in his heart does not want to be with you? that is just wrong and yes look at the kid in Craft as was said by SS ... just crazy to mess with anyones life in any shape way or form. I am not talking just spells or magic, I mena you just do not screww with anothers life or future, well being any thing in my opinion. it is wrong. period.

to me it just depends on te situtaion....No i havent done a love spell but i know someone who did and it worked..

I also helped a friend with a love spell once.... Bad idea......... she got tired of him, she is married with 3 kids now and he is still after her lol.

I admit i was young and foolish then, and have learned my lesson in more ways then 1.

Crimsonsun, Using a spell for personal gain? Like isn't that the point?

Try doing a sort of love spell for yourself, like aiding your true love to find you and you them. Something like that. Its not messing with anyone's will... just sending out to the universe that you are ready for their arrival.

trying to coerce someone into loving you is morally wrong period end of story. besides how good can a relationship built on a lie be? I guess if you have no conscience it might seem ok. If someone can't love you on their own why would you want them? The whole idea is disrespectful to them and yourself.

A love spell?

Hmmm, so Jessica Alba beware as I search for some chestnuts..

personaly i'd rather they love me for me and not through a spell Because then it wouldnt feel like love to me anyway....but great topic

I have only used a love spell to enhance the love within myself.

I don't believe in using a love spell on someone to make them love me, as it is forced and that means they will never truly love me.

If a couple decide to create a love spell to enhance their already existing feelings then that is ok because they both made the choice to do so.

As always with spells you should be careful what you wish for.

You can do many things with magic, but never use to make someone love you.


One feels the burn for years.

i suppose love spells are okay if u want a false sense of affection from someone else. if u ever did use a love spell ud be like the supernatural Quagmire!

worked on me...but its kinda cheating...lol

I haven't ever used a love spell.
I see nothing wrong with someone using one though. I personally don't believe you can make someone love you, but it could give you the confidence to help the process of love blossom if you believe enough.

have never used one or ever intend to. If you cannot get or maintain love from a partner then that person is the wrong person for you.

People use love spells all the time. Don't kid yourselves. What do you think getting dress to impress or dressing to be yourself, setting a mood, makeup, cologne/perfume, pre-planning a date is? All a ritual for love. Its called a spell.

A simple wish for someone to the Moon or a gentle cry to the Winds or Ocean. An offering of a flower on the base of a tree or a toss of a shell into the water. Its called a spell.

We have all done love spells on some level. How can we not?

Honestly, I can say that to the best of my knowledge, I have never done a love spell. I don't plan on doing one either. The idea of having someone love me (assuming of course that the spell worked properly) just because I wanted them to doesn't sit well with me. Its the whole taking away someone's free will that doesn't sit right with me. If someone loves me, I want it to be cause they WANT to, not because I tried to force them to.

It would seem there are many views that can be taken on this subject; I have seen free will; happiness; and various other monologs used. One thing to keep in mind is that every action has an equal action being as for the positive or the negative. To cast the spell on ones self for guidance in finding ones love; I would think that would be the best and most responsible action. When you begin casting magic at others you are mingling in an area that could have repercussions in the future. And who can really say that you are not to a certain extent pulling at there free will. Free will is decided by the person themselves and not motioned by an outside source. If the person does not love you or show interest before the spell, well think about it. Obviously they just were not interested. If suddenly after the spell they are showing interest in you then how can you call it true love? How can you say that you did not mingle with their free will? It is best when using magic to be very careful of how, when, and upon who it is to be used.

I would personaly rather they love me on my own merit ......or it wouldnt be real love to me ...

I believe that love should happen natrually and not mess with it it is something that must grow it does not happen over night...if its meant it will happen if not then go on and find the right one you were meant to have.

i think love spells are a waste of time, they tend to backfire as there is always something you end up dispiseing about the person the spell has been cast upon. hacve you ever seen the craft, yes its a movie but its pretty close to the point when the main character puts a love spell on a guy resulting in him trying to rape her.

Plus if you really want to look at the whole backlash point, I don't think I would want the karmac backlash for trying to control someone like that...

Shudder....

It is not so simple, if it always backfired nobody would ever do it...

The art is to choose your victim carfully just as with prey.

If your instincts are right it can be the best thing you ever did.

A vampire witch caste upon me and I am very happy.

Something that would probably never occurred did against all odds and reason.

Shit...how gooey is that...forget I mentioned it.

So not me...yurk...the pwer o luv n all that shit...I hate it but its true.X

Macabre, you stated that you can not make soem one love you, yet, people do it all the time. I am not saying by spells or anything yet, we all make soem one love us as to just being ourselves to them. If there is any emotion for a person anyone can cause a person to *fall-in-love * with them.

Yet, if there is no emotion or attraction to begin with then I will agree you could not make them love you and why would you anyway. LOL

yet, many who use the love spell on a person that does like you or have some emotion towards you, then the spell will work or the fact that your actually taking more time to know this person and them to knwo you.. and there you go the spell works. :) just how I have seen it happen when others ahve done it.

if someone uses a love spell to gain love then that is false. If you cannot get someone to love you for who and wat you are then they are not worth it, so why bother