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Alright so here the the thing... I'm completely new to the whole vampirism thing. I have come to find out that obviousely there are severl differnt kinds... most common is the psy vamp. So my questions are this.... is it possible that one would have the abilities and really have no idea that they are doing the energy draining.... leaving me worn frazzeled and otherwise so on edge i grit my teeth and pull my hair.... or is it the other way around and I'M the one pulling the energy and just not realizing that I'm pulling bad or negitive energy from some one as unknowlageable as myself?

Well it is possible yes but usually the energy is pulled from other people.

Why do you know you are pulling it from yourself?

Well issue as it stands.... My ex husband was over taking care of the children for me because my mother is having issues after the death of my nephew and i didnt want there to be any more stress on her.... and i had to work the last 2 nights. Well friday night I was fine... but as saturday progressed I became more and more irritated and on edge.... it waned while i was at work but it was really bad before and a bit after work.... I got home and just went to bed.... well when i woke up today it was just horrible.... i was so tense and wound up that it was hard to be around my children.... and of course he was there and wasnt doing anything at all to irritate me.... but just having this overwhelming feeling of bad energy so i took him home after the girls went to bed and here it is about an hour after he has gone... and i'm beginning to relax and get back to my normal laid back self.... and i wasnt sure if it was me off of him or him off of me.... but there was alot of negitive energy transferring between us.

Message me on this and we will talk because I do not want your private life being re-done on the internet.

Maybe you just need some coffee in the morning?

Hahaha... one would think that... but I had my coffee... I ate... there wasnt any strange hormonal imbalance.... just GGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRR feelings

Um, I think it's rather common for people to feel drained after being around their ex's or even thinking about them.

Yes, relationships and interactions between people you have deep emotions about tend to drain you regardless.

It just happens. Nothing mystical about it.. it happens to all of us.

Well, all of us that give a hoot. If you're completely indifferent to a person it doesn't matter who they are....

I see.... like I said I'm so new to the whole mystical world that I havent any idea as to what exactly to think on some things.

when you are around too much negative energy you will start to feel the pull of that negativity and it will start to weight you down. You said that there was a death in your family, ex husband, work... I don't see any real positive energy flying around. No wonder you feel drained my dear. If you need a pick me up go to the mall the park get a manicure or some place that makes your spirits happy where there is positive energy a party shoppe, garden center where theres lots of bright colors.

Its totally possible to be a energy drainer and not know... In time these people slowly awaken to the fact of what they are.. it may be in this life or another..

Perhaps you are an Empath and you are picking up on the emotions around you. That can cause great agitation especially if it is negative emotions. You can release this in running water or via the shower by just visualizing it going out into the water. All vampyrics at one time or another will draw energy unconsciously fif its needed but to me it sounds more like an empathic experience you are going through. Many empathics are psi vamps but not all.

Fistly i'm sorry you're having such a rough time hun, secondly Polishsiren gives good advice, get out there & do something for you, find whatever it is that floats your boat & go & enjoy yourself. If it is only your ex that makes you feel this way then I doubt it has vampiric/empath connections unless he is indeed a psy vamp & is feeding on your energy. Do you get these feelings in any other situations or with anyone else?

i think you are picking up the negative energy of your ex i know i get the same way if my ex even calls me i just want to smash something off the wall and sometimes do and he does nothing to do this

I would say if some one was draining energy they would know they are doing it

I have had a death recently in my family.

It takes a toll not only on ones self...but other loved ones.

Not only are you dealing with your own personal issues, when you work you are dealing with other's energy of negativity.

I always visualize mirrors surrounding me...with the reflections of them outwards and the negativity balancing off of me.

The shower is also a good place as mentioned to wash the negativity away.

When a loved one passes and we deal with other's hurt and sorrow...it effects us to the point of draining our own positivity.

I have been so drained...I find myself going into a depression...too much at one time.

To escape my depression I listen to relaxing calming music and let my mind go with the sounds of ocean waves or the song of birds.

This way I can let my mind shut down for awhile.

To recharge myself.

I wish you the best.

It sounds like you're really going through a lot right now. Being in an unpleasant situation is always "draining;" there's nothing mystical about that. Being sad yourself about the death of a loved one, in addition to trying to take care of someone else who is having a hard time with it, plus worrying about your kids, and having you ex around...good grief, girl, you have a lot on your plate! No wonder you feel tired and grumpy. I suspect that once these things settle down, you will feel better.

As to a psy/psi being able to drain energy without knowing it -- in my experience, that is entirely possible. If I am sick or tired, I will do it in my sleep when I can't really help it, and whomever happens to be around will crash in a few hours. Being a reasonably ethical person, I try to be very careful about this and take the energy I need while I can be awake, aware, and responsible, which also keeps me well and healthy. But I imagine that many unawakened vamps unconsciously take the energy without being aware of it, especially if they haven't had any sort of occult training.

Immortal... alot of the times if i'm not well prepared mentally to deal with some of my more unhappy friends.... I get a fair overdose of it. My mom... i can walk into the room for the first time that day and immediately get this teeth gritting irritation and my mom hides it well and finally i find out that she is above and beyond edgy that day and it rubs off it feels like and such..... I leave and i start to relax and it just goes away... but If she is happy and full of energy alot of the time I can be to if she is sad... I kinda get pulled down.... and god if she is having an anxiety attack it gets aweful for me... and same with my daughter.... but these are obviousely ones i'm around the most... There have been times that i have noticed that i feel the fear of another.... when i was young i can vividly remember going down the free way with my siblings on the way to the airport and seeing this horrible car wreck on the other bridge and seeing the lady trapped in her car and the flames.... oh god it was unbearable... the flames got to the car and it just stopped..... and i sat there dazed and shaken for the rest of the ride from dallas to OK city.... but it has only been that intense a small few times...

and I thank you all for your kind words.... I suppose I do have alot on my plate with out realizing it.... I've just become so use to it all that it doesnt seem to be to much at all... mebbe thats why I want to sleep all of the time lol

I guess it is possible for one to be a psi vamp and not realize it.
I believe negative energy and stress are very draining on a person whether it comes from that person or another person.
AngelofDusk, I am sorry for your loss and everything you and your family are going through.

Angel, some people are just a big pain in the ass and wear one out with all thier drama and negative energy. Stick around those that carry a positive attitude.

It's just a normal reaction to what stresses you out. I think you understand this now. It happens to all of us, and it doesn't even have to be from people, you can get the same sensations by going to places that stress you out, or trigger memories.

poor thing, stress of any form can do that to you. but thinking about psy vamps they can pull negative energy in but mainly they focus on the positive.

Angel - I myself am an empath & am instantly able to tell how a person's feeling even if I don't know them. Obviously the better you know a person the easier it becomes to read their emotions. I find that I have trouble going into busy stressful places like shopping malls as other peoples emotions become too much for me to handle & I feel weak & drained.

You're soaking up all that negative energy which is wearing you done. Try to do something positive and work on 'pushing it away' from you.. do not let it sink in, but fall short of touching you.

Like what was said, those you have had any kind of strong emotional bond, really can wear you out faster than others.

I cant handle big crowds either.... funny is i work at a bar... but when i go to work i get there early enough to get a feel for it and just kinda do what i call putting my game face on... but shopping.... gah.... in no way is shopping fun or relaxing to me.... fairs and stuff where people are all around..... i find it hard to be in any place that has too many people even if its like a house party or what have you... *shrugs*

I hate crowds and i find people in general draining i think what your feeling is just a natural reaction to stress.

its possable if this ability is new to you and you would never know what abilities you have till something happens so just be careful of what you do

hi, or you could be giving your energy and not knowing it either, i had that issue when i was younger, i was tired all the dang time until i realised what was happening, then i grew to learn how to take energy from others...then my friends and family were all worn out all the time..lol...until i learned how to control that too and find a balance.

so you could have gifts that you need to learn how to manage and control and this is the way you've found out.

Is there a particular technique for pulling energy from people? I am curious to find out if there are any teachers of that on the site...

You may just be over stressed right now. Stress will make you very tried. I know.

oh, hun, dealing with ex's is so negative. Me and my man stay away from all ex's because it is a negative drain.

We (by we I mean me) am trying so hard to make this easy and as not hurtful as possible because we have 2 children and I dont want to fight with him like most split homes do.... its not good for the girls.... but ANYTIME HE IS AROUND.... even before we were the whole ex thing... he was just tiring... *sigh* stresss.... i'm the one who left... and I feel sad when he is around.... just makes me angry sometimes.... bleh.... this is getting to where this thread should be moved lol....

But I am interested in finding out more on this empath thing and how one would "know" so that I can school myself on controling it

I agree with a couple of others...I think you could be an empath and just feeling what the others around you may be feeling. It is true that dealing with all this negativity in your life right now could also be bringing you down. I am sorry to hear about your nephew though. Brightest blessing to you and yours.

i know i pull on the energy of others and you just need to control it.

AngelOfDusk, what you are asking is true. And there are vampires like that that do exsist. They are vampires who do not know what they are or what is happening to them

would be nice if they made like an aptitude test for it you know.... something that kinda helps pin point what it is that you are or are not... that way you know what your learning to control..... Am I an Empath or A vamp type q. and a. lol

I believe that you may have just been over stressed with everything else going on. Usually you know if you are taking or having energy taken. There is a few certain physical reactions that go along with that. I am sorry for your loss too hun.

it is possible that you are pulling negative energy from others or pulling to much energy from others. On the other hand like has been said it is possible that you are empathic which could make you feel frazzeled as well.

I read all the comments, but I have a question that relates to this just in a different form. Is it possible that someone feeds you negativity in such a manner that it drives you crazy, or at least you think you are going crazy at times? And I mean this with not being around them and you are not even sure who it is that is doing this to you?

Yes that is a possibility, but if I had noticed that and it was that noticable I would really look into it if I didn't know what was going on. Some of them don't even know how to control it.

I would feel drained also being around my ex but it is possible that he is feeding energy off of you as well.

Sure it is possible for one's to not know they are draining energy. Since all people feed off energy around them, some know they are doing it and some don't.

I will give you some advice that someone on here gave me. I work at a motel that everybody knows is haunted. We have had people actually leave because they feel things and see things. I myself have had my energy drained from me quite a few times there. The next time it happens I was told to try to imagine a wall of light around me. Sorry to hear things are so bad for you now and maybe some are right about all the neg energy around you.

It think you were just in stressful situations.

Well I am not sure what to say. But you will find in time what you are. Just keep trying to discover yourself and you will see what you are :D.

..the situsation and the fellow seem to be a mental drain, I feel: rather than anything else.

a lot of negative energy can build up around people when there are unresolved differences and issues. It just continues to build up and add to any stress your under. I would start resolving some of the issues you have with your ex especially if you have children involved as it is also affecting them, even if you don't quite see it yet. If it affects you it affects them.

you need to get out ,go somewhere and get you some positive energy,a walk in the park, girls night out, a good book or the mall

yes its possible its happend to me alot till i just disided to use them and they got stronger

Well it is possible yes but usually the energy is pulled from other people.

I believe what other said about being around negative people. You tend to start feeling down when you are near people like that. It's not just because he's your ex. Could be anyone. Stay away from him as much as possible would be a good solution. Stay near happy peppy people........ annoying as they may be sometimes.

i dont follow vampiracy as a religious thing im an athiest i just find it intresting, anyway from what i have read on the net before it is possible to be draining someone of energy without relising it

it really could be ether way. Your too drained and get frazzled or being drained and frazzled..

i think it's very possible that you're misinterpreting "stress" as you using special, occult "gifts" upon yourself.

no offense, but...it's rather hard to say that you're "this or that" because you're frazzled and under special circumstances in your Life that are simply...wearing you down, which is a "normal" effect of the stressors.

i'd say that the best time to look into this would be when your life goes back to normal, and i'd start reading up on energy work to really understand what you are getting into.

Energy is usally pulled from other people so it can happened. i think u should get some rest and meditate.

That is true I think you need so me you time away from every one so you can just sit and relax