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Turn off or turn on?? and, for the women which are you? I'm just curious to see other ppl view on this.

I'm very aggressive and some guys cant handle it in a relationship. Why?

Please define aggressive.......

Up-front and determined......

or Violent?

All of the above. I mean like she wears the pants. Controlling, Take charge attitude. I like the voilent stuff too. *cracks whip*

I'm both agressive and submissive.
I turn submissive whenever i'm in a relationship, i can't help it...some times i wish i don't...but hey, it fun being tied up, etc etc...wont go into my personal life here.

I'm not much of people person. As for relationships I gave up on them long ago. But in interest of answering your question. I think would prefer an aggressive woman. I would like a woman who would challenge me and stand her ground. But she would have to be able to compromise sometimes. Lets face it a man has to have his freedom.

just the best kind of women that can be

I am like that and I love it

I find myself to be a very aggressive woman. I don't even really know why... but I love it. Some men can't handle it. I don't know why?

i love it when you all are aggressive

I can be, depending on the situation....
;)

i'm a bit of a switch...I love an aggressive woman who understands when to back the fuck off.....

an aggressive women well lets see it always turnd me on.. i am bisexual. so it tured me on all the time and i can be if you want me to be....

Ussually Im really agressive.......
Its really hard for men to stand me =)

aggressive women

I like it when a woman knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it.

i prefer...assertive over aggressive. hostility is a turn-off, but being able to control things in a friendly way is a major turn-on.

they mean aggressive in a 'friendly' way

can't love a women with no whip

got a room full of wips & chains!
I like it when they use wips but they have to know how

YAH WHIPS, but only if you women know how, i will let you whip me

I have given up on realtionships, but i guess i sorta like both really

I do bdsm shows & after studying the body and stuff,you learn that certain wiping on certain places can paralise & damage the nerve system

I am both. I love to switch up and keep them guessing as to what they will be getting into tonight.

Hum I would say definately aggressive, I know what I want and I get it, however I know how to read ppl and know when Im too aggressive so I adjust....
Like Clint Eastwood once said, "adjust, adapt and overcome" thats me.

OMG what a thread ok what was it about oh yeah d d dominant women oh im excited i love them i believe women should be strong demanding 1 they wont get held down or belittled 2 they wont get bashed or abused and 3 i like people who let you know where you stand or they want you too (chuckles )dominant women of the world unite and demand i am here for my first command (owww) ok which one of you done that (smiles cheekily )i like it

being the only child and all, ive learn to always get my way with things but when it comes to particular men, i can give my control to them esp if they are dominate in nature. not overbearingly so of course.

I'm very aggressive, you could say almost dominatrix. I like control to the point where it has ruined relationships for me. It's not always a good thing. Not only in relatoinships, I like to be aggressive in every day life. Where I live a women has to have balls and make her stand, or else people will walk all over her. I can play nice too, I don't anyone thinking I'm a ball busting bitch ;)

*agrees with shadowpanther

*hands over a wip to Octavia & Sorvena

Ok, I'm aggressive, and I kinda find that interesting in other women.

Now I too am a victim of the whole ... oh my god you have a brain and you're gonna push for what you want ... syndrome, I usually ignore it.

FEAR ME lol ....... t'would be wise for most guys to do so ....

My woman's place is doing my laundry and making me pie.

Most men have this primal instinct of domination. When they encounter a female that is dominate....it tends to make them check their fragile ego's and manhood more closely and with a slight whimper and whine.

good one empress
LMAO

I am assertive.... agressive is too forceful.... I will make any man a pie.... ( desert) as long as it does the washing up. and Laundry washing machine and dryer, or can;t men work out home to use them?

LOL. Ego has nothing to do with it. There is something wrong with people that don't recognize Southpark lines.

On a more serious note, I am a natural leader (as are all Cancer's). I will not be led. Any woman that tries to take control of my life is in for a world of heartache. This doesn't mean I will be controlling, just that I will not be controlled.

I prefer a strong independent woman. One that doesn't need constant approval and who can make decisions concerning her on her own. She also needs to leave me alone, not be imposing, and stay out of my check book.

~giggles~

That was seriously cute.

For the record...South Park kicks bum.

I love the one when they visited Canada.

For the uninitiated:

Make me some pie!

Go do my laundry

i usually laugh at the girls here when they get all worked up, its a good show lol

i think aggresive women are great . women need to have a voice .

im generally submissive , i can be more assertive depending on the situation... plus i like it when a man can take some charge of certain situations

First off. Cancer, I have to thank you. I cracked up when I got to your posts on here. An impressive feat, considering I was shaking from a combination of adrenaline and rage, one of the rare occassions that I wasn't able to stay calm and keep my emotions from running out of control.


Now, as for my responce.... Assertive, Independent, being assertive, and sometimes dominating in bed, all of the above, great.

Actually violent and aggressive. Get real. Excluding the rare occassions that I do lose my cool, I'm a pacifiist. Not a "never ever ever hurt anything" type of pacifist, but a realistic one. I dislike violence, I find it pointless. But I'm intelligent enough to know and accept that the world is never going to work like that, and violence can be a necessary evil to defend oneself or loved ones. Basically, I'm a pacifist with a strong belief in the Second Amendment.

::: passes a pie to Cancer :::

yeah i'm not very aggressive..lol.. i'm a ppl pleaser, very docile but if asked or provoked i can be quite aggressive in a good way ;)

lmao Cancer. "I want my punch & pie!!"

heheh.....ego tho empress is a two way street... I know just as many women with a falsely inflated ego as I do men....
they think they are smarter than they are....wittier than they are....stronger both physically and emotionally....I call it glass god syndrome....when you have a huge godlike ego....and all it takes is a bit of poking at it and you shatter like glass..... ego is a human problem....not a male or female problem...

I'm secure. Aggressive women, submissive women, women that can be either....doesn't matter one bit :)

turn ON. of course i tend to Fluctuate between aggressive/submissive.
btw i sure do miss BloodThirsts' agressive ass : )

I like women who know what they want....
Especially in the bedroom.

But when someone knows what they want and how to get it (short of violence)....they are a strong person worthy of reward.

Though I am dominant, I do enjoy girls with a dominant streak, makes for fun evenings.

Some guys cant handle it, but I love to aggressive, although it has runed some potential relationships [there loss]
Today if a woman isent a little aggressive than she just gets drowned in the world

~Monique~

Crack a whip , it's fun :)
Crack it at me , though and I might bite back ..

Women have powers to get inside a man's mind, some of you call it empathy, and some of you nurture that power till it is a weapon. That type of aggression is scary.

mmm lucky dont get anyones pie do you lucky Lucky wants all the pie for her self mmm shes the lucky one

Mommy , mommy , the green doll's creeping me out .. can I keep her ? :D

My ex bf tried to pull he wears the pants in the relationship. I laughed and said, "sure you do... But just remember I can make you cry." Which i have. I've made me ex cry on numerous occasions.

i have some attitude...but my bf plans everything! we take turns i talk to everyone and he plans when we go there but if i dont want to go there i tell him and we decide what to do

talk about aggressive

Someone just bit me on the butt

I thought I was an aggressive person, and I am. My way or get lost on certain things. I'm stubborn and I like it. The only problem is I'm dating a Leo. Cancers and Leos are supposedly one of the best matches due to the fact that we both crave attention...here's the problem, we're both stubborn. I think my Leo would prefer a more "passive"( and by passive I mean constantly drugged) chick.

First off...too freaking funny Cancer.
Now down to the nitty gritty. I am always Assertive. For those special people and times I am aggressive. And for those other times (Switch) I love aggression. Usually those who are aggressive towards me, trigger my aggresion...oh what fun it is. Emotional rush time.
~Lady~

Too funny Kabal...bite on da bum, yum ;-)

Isn't that the only way to be women? I find that men can't resist a woman who knows what she wants. Oh yeah and kabal, that was me! lol

would not want a violent gf @_@ but i always did like a girl that could kik my A$$ ^_^

I would love to have an agressive gf that knows what she wants and wont stop till she gets it

Aggressive women are great. But it gets old if that's all they are. you need to be gentle or rough according to the situation.

hmmmmm ya know I dunno where I stand on this anymore *grumbles* a year outta the loop of things and fun, can really spoil the thought's

Daermon I agree there are MANY with those glass godlike ego's around here never mind pokeing at them *grives daermon a hammer*

Throw's some Pie and Laundry Soap at Cancer ... your not TIMMMMMY you can do yer laundry :D

I am aggressive and also submissive. Depends on my mood. I loke to be in control and dominate people.

mmm love them

someone hand me the laundry detergent.

same here vampyric666

like to control like the great cancer said we cancers are natural born leader" but i am willing to give up my leadership to the lovely nadja if she will let me ~X~

how very cute of you silent!

Honestly, I wear the pants around the house, mainly cause I hate skirts... lol, no for real thought. I don't work, due to 4 kids, so Mike works. But, as soon as the check hits the bank, it is up to me to take care of the bills. I cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills, watch 4 crazy kids, and still have time to please my man! ok, i'm done.

I would assume myself an agressive woman in most situations. Sometimes I am overly agressive in the fact that I can be a rotten bitch. I have found however that because I am so agressive and I get my way when I want to, I seek out men who are more of a challenge for me. Hence why i am with the guy I am with now. He's so laid back that I cant stand to lose against him.

wow moonlitblood83 I give you a hand clap. You are a strong woman doing it all!! Bravo! I love women who are like that.

I think that aggressive women are all about being in control and having their own ways. I myself am only aggressive/controling to a certain point.
One of my ways of being aggressive is that I like to bite, hard. And I'm not really controling but I do like to know where my b/f is and what hes doing.....

*throws hands on hips and looks at Cancer..*

Ahem. Tiz not the Cancerian, but the Aries [woman] that is considered the leader.

*giggles*

Cancers are just crabby..

;)

If you want to nit pick, Aries, Cancer, Libra, and Capricorn and the Cardinal signs... And all lead in a different manner.

Aries tend to rush forward. This of course isn't always the best course of action, but it doesn't matter to the Aries. As a result, most Aries by the age of 35 have a scar somewhere on their forehead.

But this isn't an Astrology lesson...

Both, lol. I like sometimes...

i love aggressive women its so much more attractive when they stand up and fight for what they want

Ohh Great *throws her hands up* Thanks a lot cancer ... now I'm gonna wonder what Disaster my daughter is gonna manage with her forehead and she's not even 4months yet lol
She's VERY Tempramental already!
I'm a pieces ... I usually get what I want ... but I work at it and eventually it comes to me ... so no I don't think I'm agressive .. just persistant!

Cancer you are right. This isn't an astrology lesson. But if it was it would be kinda wrong anyways. I am a pisces through and through and from what I have read, we are dreamers and don't have it in us to be aggressive. Well then I must be something else because I can be both aggressive and submissive. Though I like the former rather than the latter. I like to be in control of my man! And silent to answer your question, yes I would let you give up your leadership. What do you think my plans are when you finally come to me? I love you baby

LMAO Nicnivian

A common mistake in Astrology is to put too much weight on the Sun Sign. The Ascendant and Moon positions are very important. If you don't behave like a typical Sun Sign Pisces, then you should look at your other planetary positions.

I don't consider myself aggressive, but I am strong. Nothing makes me angrier than when a boy thinks he has to go beat up some girl's boyfriend because he cheated on her or something like that. Girls who expect that of their male friends are weak. I deal with everything that comes my way, and I fight my own fights. I also know how to compromise and take care of people. I was raised to be strong, and had to become even more so to survive.

i have already told you that i like controll but i am willing to give it up to nadja, i am back here purely to tell cancer that i love reading his posts they are alway well informed and in a way funny as f**k thanx cancer ~X~

Aggressive
hell yea tie me up and uh well you all can figure out the rest of that one.

Good show one the astrology, old man!!

I am and Aries w/ Leo rising. >:)

HOWEVER...astrology lessons aside...
I dont know how I am with men... I would probably guess assertive or independant, but not agressive.

Women on the other hand.... O_o

**rrraaaarrrrrr**

Same here SilentSway.I hate it when guys try that

I'm agressive and submissive
its the only way things are more fun
its a dominant thing (cant spell that)
lol

Understood angel4blood

I know some rather aggressive women...lol

As to whether its a turn on, all I can say is 'come get some'.

i lov it when women are the arrressive and plus it will let me know if ...srry ...
gatta behave...

i allways like being tied up and punnish by a women that can crack a whip

love aggressive women, im kinda aggressive, guess it makes up for the lack of a good aggressive woman in my life.....

aggressive and submissive....depends on what will work best for the moment

*throws some wips and chains in the middle

"Turn off or turn on?? and, for the women which are you? I'm just curious to see other ppl view on this.

I'm very aggressive and some guys cant handle it in a relationship. Why? "


I did not take this initial posting as leaning towards the Dom/Sub corner of the bedroom.

I assumed this was intended to be geared towards women who are more assertive in personality and how they handle a relationship once it's underway than wielding a bullwhip.

On that note Id like to elaborate on my above answer:

As far as men are concerned I tend not to make the first move. I much preferr to be persued by a man in that aspect of 'the chase'.
As far as what I want and how I will and will not be treated- I am out with it. And frankly, if there's a problem with how I expect to be treated ... there's the door... don't let it hitcha on the ass on the way out. That's that.

My personality changes when women are envolved as my romantic/physical interest.
I am more physically dominant with women.
My entire demeanor changes.
I take charge and I take care of her but with the thought in mind that she's a big girl... she can do what she damn well pleases.

I do my things my way.

My partner can (and should - I not his or her mommy, and I prefer to take care of myself) do his/her thing his or her way.

Things we do together, we discuss, and compromise if it is called for.

I do know that I am a strong assertive woman.

I don't know if that makes me agressive. I've never really worried about it. I'm me. Take it or leave it, it makes no matter.

I was under the impression this thread was not originally about the bedroom. There are enough threads on that, at the moment.

I'm kind of agressive,just when im pissed off

you're a very nice woman Khayman...any guys who can't handle you are idiots...it's their lose

Thank you, darling ;)

*smiles back

I like Cancer's answer to this question...it made me laugh..as for the answer of mine...I do not like submissive women...I will not be controlled though..as long as they like to be dominat and submissive in bed then I am happy.

i like a women with just a pair of hand cuffs to tie me up and stuff

I like a woman to be agressive and go after what she wants. As long she doesn't try to change who I am, or control me, it's all good.

I'm agressive and it has freeked out some guys. maybe they cant handle a dominate women, they may feel intimidated by such a strong women.

Sorry to say it, but a lot of men are insecure and can't handle a woman to be anything more than them... smarter, richer, more agressive, etc.

Personally, I could care less and more power to them. I just stand by my previous comment and say, just don't try to change who I am, or control me.

i like being agressive
its boring wen if not
lol

i think some guys just perfer to be in control... whitch i dont understand either but whatever.... if they cant handle you then screw them... im agressive too but only when i feel they will respond....

i am a little of both........i think u need it that way