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I haven't chatted or met any one who does this and I would like to hear others opinoins on the subject

well i think if you truly love a person you couldnt get yourself to do it...

you havn't, well I'll be glad to be the first.. I am a vamire who happens to partake in this type of play, I love to cut, bite, and claw, for both blood and pleasure many think that that is odd but the one I ofen do it to and recive this behaviour from does not,

so knowing this from me, I'd like to know what you think.


§§Juliet§§

i couldn't cut a loved one though i do like to bite during love making and drawing blood that way.

I, too, agree with Serenatous. I just don't understand how one could injure a loved one, no matter how much pleasure it may bring to either....

But, that is only my view and I understand that some people do find pleasure in pain, and I respect that so long as their partner is willing.

I'm much more partial to biting and scratching for pain and pleasure, i tend to leave using knives for when i need blood for a spell.

It's fun, and it gets the message across. :) lol

I could never purposely cut someone I love, even if they said it was okay. I'd rather just bite. ;)

I love to cut just a little on my partner :) only when she lets me though

i have never cut (she says with a grin) i have bitten and scratched but never intentionally cut anyone during sex although if my fiancee cuts himself i do like to tase his blood and heal his wound mmmm

I couldn't see cutting a love one for one's own pleasure, if one really loves someone they would not do that. AT least I would hope so. Even if the other person says that it is alright. I do bite during sex, and my partner loves it, but only to a certain point.

i couldnt imagine cutting someone i loved.. scratching and biting.. yes

you do what you have to do and they accept this.

i agree, i cant see my self cutting my girl to get pleasure, even when i and her have a taste for blood, but i do make a small cut in a finger or lip to give her the pleasure, but i hate when she do it, cant stand the idea of seeing her geting hurt for me.

cutting no never could do such a thing myself just not a way I would say I love you ya know

Blood letting is not a way I show affection. It does not appeal to me at all. I guess after raising 4 children, I've seen my share of blood! I would prefer a handshake or a kiss!

i myself prefer biting and clawing,as opposed to cutting,ive had donmors in the past who were cutters though and i have cut myself for them but ill stick with biting first

Perhaps I am one who savours these things for what they are, but there will be those who do not understand the Mysterys of our kind. Those who wish for pleasure I give pleasure. I do not bite to feed, and when I feed the blood is taken with a small puncture of the vein.
Then we have those who enjoy the pain of the tattoo machine as its needle sinks into the skin; the exquisite pain as a long 12g needle transects a tongue or nipple in a piercing.

it all goes back to the old saying of "no pain, no pleasure" to each his own... if you have two consenting adults and you and your partner enjoy it... then who cares what others think... biting, cutting, etc... is very sensual and pleasurable... i just would not do it with anyone though... it has to be someone very closeto me though... mainly a partner... wicked kisses and blessed be, darla...

Sounds a little bdsm like to me....

Even outside of that realm, we all hurt loved ones in ways much deeper than the cut of a knife.

I think cutting should never be done unless both are CONSENTING ADULTS, not minors trying it out.

With that said.....I hate the idea of cutting in general but I do comprehend that many will attempt it at least once if not more times.

If you intend to do so.....you need to be VERY SURE of who you share blood with as HIV is a blood transfer disease (along with other diseases.)

You also need to be aware of where and how deep to cut. I have seen many who thought they were "safe" and messed up and wound up in the ER or worse. NEVER cut an actual vein...the blood loss can be fast and heavy.

Cutting in general is NOT a good idea but if you do intend to participate in this activity......be a smart person and learn the proper way to do so.

Just my two ..ok ..a whole nickel's worth.

I have done this. After I explained my sexual preferences to my ex she was curious. That was one of the things she asked me to do, since I enjoy that type of thing I didn't object. However, I would never ask my partner to let me do this, I might ask her to do it to me though. It comes down to desire, pleasure, and boundaries.

AS long as both parties agree to this kind of play then who cares. Partners must really trust the other person to perfom any fetishes wheter it be blood, whipping , bondage, shaving...etc

biting is better then cutting only if both parties agree

If its something both partners agree upon and enjoy then each to their own, they are consenting adults so if its ok with each other its no one else's business.

I am not into it personally and i dont think my partner will let me anyway but that is our chose and ours alone wat ppl do and think in their prv life is just that prv

Thanks for the opinions

if it pleased my partner then i would let them cut me, i could not cut them though.

i would let my partner cut me if it made her happy as i love her so much

I would never cut or draw blood from biting. Yes, I do bite during sex but not hard.

I think it would be just rude, can you imagine... oh baby I love you by the way let me cut you so I can drink your blood. How rude.

I have never done this personally but if i had a partner who was willing i definately would. There is something very erotic about it and I have been thinking about it for a long time. Unfortunately for me I have not found someone else in person that would do it.

it is a difficult thing but i dont think i could cut someone i loved

I say it again... I think it is rude.

I don't know if "rude" is quite the word for it, but I understand what you are trying to express. It just seems wrong

Time it right female partner bleeds anyway no cutting necessary!

vamfan36- TOTALLY unnecessary post.

I don't think it's such a hot idea for anyone to hand out advice for cutting a partner on a PG-13 site. Fact is, we aren't all adult here.

And for you adults- be educated, be tested... be smart.

personally i can handle pretty much anything but cutting...its the one thing that i will not allow...and i would never ask anyone to let me do it to them since i dont allow it on myself

in response to the original topic, i do occasionally participate in razor play with partners, although only those that are interested in the same. those are usually few and far between. but inflicting pain, drawing blood or injuring a partner out of desired sensuality is not a sign of disrespect, nor it it difficult to do to a loved one so long as the purpose is mutual and understood

I think everything depends on who's your partner. If you both like it... I think it's ok.
I pesonally prefer biting and my partners too...

My husband and I love each other very much but we are also CONSENTING ADULTS. I cut him to feed, he bites... it is all good.

We are also into bdsm (mild). But we enjoy many different things that most would find taboo.

I don't judge anyone, and I don't want to be judged either. So to each their own.

If it is between consenting adults, why not. I wouldn't choose to be on either end of the blade, but I am not going to pass judgement on the practices of others.

Whatever it is you choose to do be careful and have fun.

If my love asked me too cut him during sex, i'd personally say no...i'd hate the fact of hurting my partner in anyway shape of form, we love each other too much...but i know people who do..my best friend & her partner do all the time but lol i dont know if its for sex or pleasure...i really want to know as its there business...but if thats what you do then fair enough...whatever turns you on i guess!

alot of people have said if you truly love a person you cant hurt them. What it not a matter of hurting them what if you and the person are on such a level that pain dosent matter. if all your ideas are based in normal standards then you need to look at where you are and some of the people you are talking to . i find pain to be very sensual my self. and also the idea that to beings in love become one soul then it would hurting your self

I wouldn't think the intention for the bloodletting is to initiate pain. I think those who do it are bonding at a very high ritualistic level.

exactly what i was trying to say thank you
for simplfying it

but what if you cut too deep?

Yes I have and it was quite fun at that. Although I only did it a few times a while ago maybe like a year ago or so

interesting how so many are into biting and scratching, but draw the line there. cutting with a clean sharp blade is far less harmful and damaging than biting or scratching - but i suppose it's the context. cutting is done carefully and in a calm, calculated way, whereas biting and scratching is done wildly in the throes of passion.

I love my body. There is no way I would scar it and if someone loved me they would not want to scar it either. Scratching and nibbling, now that is nice, but actual cutting and biting through skin will not happen. Heck I freak out all the time now, trust me the older you get the more scars shows...

no thats not somthing good to do if you bite then thats fine but dont cut anyone stick to donors no loved ones

I agree with most of the people on here with if you love someone you couldn't cut them.. I had this happen to me once I wanted my ex-finacee to cut me but he couldn't then he cheated on me.. but thats not really the point i was trying to make.... I couldn't cut either. I love the sight of blood but if we were to do it ( which we have) i would cut myself and he would cut himself...

I wouldnt cutt a parner in crime it doesnt sound right for me to cause on someone I love to death and cherish that is my take on that one

I would do it if their willing. But I would push it against them.

i have done it... i can't seem to bite hard enough to actually draw blood... so a little slice here and there helps... it is so f*cking hot!!! i mean you don't have to put a 5" gash on you... just enough to draw blood...

I would explain everthing to my partner first, and then if they consent, then i would do it and try to bring as much pleasure to them as well.

"If you love someone you couldn't" That is such a narrow-minded statement I can't believe anyone on this site would say it! Shame on you who have posted that here! Everybody is different, therefore, everyone has different ideas about pleasure. A couple of people have said that they wouldn't do it to their partner even if their partner asked them. I would call that selfish, if they would get pleasure from you cutting them and you love them than why would you deny them that? Just because you don't like it or think it's wrong doesn't mean it is. OPEN YOUR MINDS TO NEW IDEAS! That is one of the focuses of this website, and just because you accept something doesn't mean you have to practice it. Don't pass judgment on people because they enjoy something you don't!

So all those who say theywouldn't will not help their 'beloved' pierce their ears?

I have a friend who is very into this, she also used to be a phone sex operator. She had scars everwhere on her body(from what I could see). It isn't pretty and her now fiance has to see these scars everytime he looks at her and be reminded of all her lovers and all her S&M sexcapades. It kills him.
To me love shouldn't hurt. If someone enjoys hurting you couldn't they also enjoy hurting you in other ways? Ways you may not be ok with?

no i wouldn't i couldnt see the one i love in pain... for something im doing even if it was her decision... when you truly love someone... like i do... id rather haved the pain of a thousand needles and her not even have the pain of one... id rather be sick and her well... when you trully love someone they will be your world and you would protect it with you life even taake a bullet for her...

sorry about the 3 posts of the same thing and the spelling mistakes a small war is going on her and the phone lines are having to much error in connections... and the internet is way too slow so sorry again...

i have been cut by a lover during sex and i felt nothing good from it, but they got off. I still have a huge scar on my arm.

vampireXmarr: piercing of ears isnt quite what the rest of us are talking about. We are focusing on the drawing of blood for pleasure, not minor body modifications.

It may not be what your talking about but it still inflicts pain and tissue damage. It's just a question of degree.
You're not amputating a limb are you, it's just a little nick.
Solution don't get involved with those whodon't dig your 'thing'.

I agree with the point you make on not getting involved with those who can not or will not delve into your subcultures.

its a touchy subject. Mostly this act is based on our desire for both blood and pleasure if we combine them its like killing two birds with one stone. Although the idea can het complecated. Like someone said above me if you love someone you find it difficult to hurt in anyway even if for your own pleasure but if someone respects your desire for blood then thats someone to hang on too.

I dont believe to be as clear cut as pleasure and blood. There are some that derive sexual pleasure from pain. You have to factor that into the equation.

someone said above they then cut each one of them their own but even me seeing someone cut them selves though not for the pleasure but for hiding a pain hurted me greatly... my ex once was deppressed she left for like 10 mins then came back after crying i find out that she cut her self that hurted me deply then i took the knife away from her.... ect... anyways for me i cant even see them do it to there selves cuz it pains me to see them in pain... and for people who are saying that is such narrow minded maybe you are for not agreeing with our opinion...

I dont think their is nothing wrong with cutting your partner as long as it is alright with them, and you dont get carried away with it...

i bit and get blood but never cut them. if they dont mind then maybe but i couldnt cut them. bite them yes. cut them no. they can cut themselves. lol

As twisted as my mind can be sometimes. That is something I could never do. Cutting my partner just for the fun of it.

i do like to be bitten in love makin if that counts

Biting's ok... Nip n Kissing that works for me... but throw cutting in there... No I don't think I could do that to someone I was with...

I have had a few friends who were very much into cutting each other for the purpose of pleasure and they seemed very much in love and even have gotten married so as far as I can see to each there own

I do cut to please my donor, since i cannot drink any blood as it does not please me , some are even repulsive to me, but to get cut or to cut myself it is out of pure pleasure it makes my mind goes into a state of relaxation almsot like extasy

I would not find pleasure in cutting a partner....it is a private and emotional thing that is not shared

There are some people that enjoy cutting. But what is the difference between a full on bite, that draws blood and a nick with a razor, I don't understand that if you cant hurt your partner why is it ok to scratch and bite.. they hurt too. I think I would prefer a slight nick to a bite with a mouth full of germs and bacterial....

For some it may be sick and twisted for others pleasure... so who are we to judge. Some feel drinking blood is sick and twisted are they wrong too?

As long as both partners agree to it then no harm done its their business regardless of whether you think it rude or not.

so many of you keep posting the same thing just because you have a certain idea of love and pain or blood dosent mean everyone holds the same opinion
love is a trancedental thing it knows no bounds it knows not one type and is quite a undifineable thing. there for certain people express the love thoug these acts its not as if they are laying eachother open with samurai swords
just enough to make the blood show and i am a cutter i have been since i was a teenbut back then i didnt talk about it .
as i said before you are looking at it from a traditional idea of love one that is not always applicable in the abnormal world in which we live and the unique people you will meet on this site. love trancends all things including pain and cutting can be quite erotic if done properly.

that is true but it is up to the idiviuals if they r happy and content with cutting then its their things no one else should interfear in it. if both r willing who has the right to tell them no. it is a personal thing and should remain that way.

I've had it done to me to be honest and I enjoy it. Its putting you're trust in someone that is the hardest thing to get over depending on where the cut is. I love biting and my boyfriend loves it as well. Its not a matter of whether they love you or anything along those lines, especially when both are consentual about doing such a thing. If you enjoy it and you're partner does then partake in it, if its not you're gig then just don't. But each person is their own and they are going to have different opinions of each scenario.

true each person will have his own oppinion on this...

I'm going to have to agree with the person prior to me who chastised for all the supposedly open minded ccondemning those who do choose to utilize cutting in their playtime. Just because it doesn't get you off, doesn't mean it doesn't get someone off and if you REALLY love someone; are you not supposed to work to make THEM happy?

That being said, I'd like to address a few other concerns. First...How is it that with ALL the knowledge of how dangerous biting is and how easy it is to get a SERIOUS infection from it, so many people are bragging about doing this? So, it's not okay to be safe and cut your loved ones with sterile equipment, but it is okay to tear at their arm/other body part with your germ infested mouth, possibly causing irreparable harm? Interesting. You're right. That definitely shows love.

And second, I myself have only ever utilized cutting during play as a method of feeding, but if Euphoric turned to me today and said, "Baby, I want you to cut me just because it turns me on" I would do it.

I've never been cut, and I think I wouldn't enjoy cutting my partners, but what I do while making love is biting and my lovers sting their fingers with a metallic sting-like ring... (I don't know how to describe it... ) and we share blood that way...

Personally I can't get my head around cutting a loved one's skin for pleasure. EVEN IF they asked me to.. I'd cringe terribly and refuse, then feel uncomfortable about letting them down.
They'd have to cut themselves if this was to be the case.

biting and scratching I do during sex, But during sex ones pain threshhold rises and the bites don't FEEL so bad. and it doesn't brake the skin, I don't bite too hard. I have been bitten too hard by a loved one and it hurt like hell and bruised for DAYS.
Personally, I draw the line at biting to a harmless level.
If I was nursing and my daughter was my patient, I'd HAVE TO ask someone else to give her an injection/canula. I just couldn't do it.

i agree i cant see myself cutting my loved one or even bitting them although i will say i do like bitting but i don't do it as i have said before in my previous post id rather be sick and her well and id rather feel the pain of a thousand needles rather then her the pain of one...

"Just because it doesn't get you off, doesn't mean it doesn't get someone off and if you REALLY love someone; are you not supposed to work to make THEM happy?"

That is true, but what about turning the tables...? If the other person feels extremely uncomfortable by it, then it's not fair on either party...

I bite, but I dont BITE...I wouldn't ever break skin, or cut my partner for pleasure...As I said in my post above, I dont think it's right, thats only my opinion & morals...I also said that I know couples that do bite/cut for pleasure who are seemingly very much inlove...It's just not for me. I dont condemn

me and my ex used to cut each other during sex we both like it and we thought we were in love and it was ok now i m not sure if i love him or hate him but cutting some one you love is hard i know but to me it just simple erotic sex i could be wrong but thats my oppi

I am sang/psi vampire and so I do cut to feed and to feed my partner as well.I always observe sterile techniques and my partner does as well.Only disposible blades or needles EVER.And we are not talking gapping wound here..just a needle prick or really small cut is all that is needed.

I couldn't deliberately scar myself or anyone else

I don't think I would cut my partner due to the fact that I wouldn't let it be done to myself. I am not a fan of seeing my own blood. I have tattoos so its not the feeling I fear. Its a bounderies issue.

I don't think that I could cut my husband , even if he would let me.

my mistress told me that if I do I am hers eternally, I love how everyone has a different view, but I like pain and pleasure so I'd be happy to do it

I am one of a large group of people that much enjoy being cut by their partner and blood play and can find it to be a major turn on when with a person you can trust with your life if you want to ask anymore about it feel free to message me

I'm a sadomasochist. So that's just really hot to me. If it's just my sexual partner, hey, no big, but it's more complicated if its a boyfriend/girlfriend that I'm in love with. Some people are saying that they couldn't hurt the one they love, and I do agree with that, to an extent. If the person was cool with me cutting them, then I don't care, but if they were opposed to it I wouldn't do it.

Who knows if I had some one that was willing it may be exciting. But I could not nor would I do it to someone that was not into that kind of thing.

SanityLost, one of my partners told me that some days ago... he wanted to be mine forever... the other is still reluctant, but I don't push them... that seems very romantic to me...

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