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Ghost hunters had an episode called Brendas house, they had many spooks and after trying a basic exorcism, the child ghost were playing with the daughter all the time that the parents had to sleep in the same room. they found voices caught on the tape. It was the child ghost saying they don’t want us anymore … such a sad feeling… it was being forced out by the investigations… Brenda listened to her say it and started to cry too….

My question is would you have ghost removed from your house, especially if they said on tape to each other they don’t want us.

I would do it but I would lead them to the light so they can be in peace. and happy

In my experiances and opinion.... I wouldnt have a being expelled from my home if they didnt cause problems that I couldnt learn to live with. Such as frightening my children. If they were friendly and just needing a place to be that to me is fine. You know when they start playing mean hateful or frightening tricks i would have issues.... but if they kept to there own and we could inhabit the same place in peace then I dont see why displacing them would be in my mind.

It depends. Personally I don't see any reason in removing spirits if they're not hurting anything. I've lived in a house that was haunted and we co-existed peacefully. So unless they were causing a problem then no.

Depends... if they insisted on scaring the bahjebus out of everyone and doing really obnoxious things all the time, then yes... ghosts, vermin, my brother-in-law... I'd want them all driven out.

...but I would assume even ghosts would be more courteous than my brother-in-law....

Scaring the bahjebus out of kids… I guess… this one did argue with the kids over toys and when asked the kids said the boy had a terrible head wound that needs a DR

Personally I would keep it, poor soul

I would deffinately have them removed, you don't know what might happen in the future, the spirits might get angry in the future.

rotflmao.... i feel the same way about some of my in-laws and extended family too lol..... a venemous snake has more of a place in my home than my ex's mother

I agree if they are not making issues, they would be welcome in my home.

i would have a talk with the ghost, even if i had to bring in a medium to do it, if the children were not scared of them and let them know at certain times of night it was not ok to play, other wise i would not have a problem leaving them in the house.

If they were seriously disturbing things and wouldn't stop, yes.

a kid ghost with a horrible head wound playing with my kids? Hmm . . . what happens when they move beyond Candyland and start playing chess or videogames or listening to their ipod's and ignoring the trapped spirits?

No, I fear the bloody tykes are a ruse, evil beings masquerading as innocent misused and misplaced darlings. Their power to interact is coming from an unclean source.

Really???? those who would move the spirit of a child on… “just in case” …. To many horror films lol

Do you have a recorded case of child ghost hurting?

I think I would try to explain to the ghost that I don't want to get rid of them but that I am sure their families are looking for them and would like to be with them as well and that I am just trying to send them to be with their families.

Well if I started charging for people to be at my house to witness the phenomena I would say Cha Ching the ghost stay.

Perhaps there are child ghosts that mean harm and are angry. Depending on the type of person they were alive, how they died, and amount of residual anger, jealousy at the living and living in their home or special place, and betrayal and other feelings that binds them to the place instead of seeing the light and moving on.

Gut reaction. The spectral energy required to remain, to not pass, + the intelligent will to engage in play (not specified what kind), + exhibiting a "head wound" (this reeks of horror films as other reports indicate ghosts appearing as they did in life, presumably w/o blood), all lead me to the conclusion that the child ghost is merely a demon lure.

They want something. Child ghosts are way more creepy than adult ghosts.

Really? … I haven’t come across one yet… my mums a medium, I had lots of friends who people didn’t see lol
I guess that’s why I don’t see the harm or danger… my paradigm is of understanding and the stretch of hope to those not of our existence……

This may freak you out but your never alone … open up and you will learn

I've lived in places with ghosts, doesn't freak me out.

I don't see a problem with sharing a place with a spirit as long as they mean us no harm. If it's an aggressive entity, then something would have to be done.. either the spirit goes or the human inhabitants go.

Personally I feel that whether you remove a ghost from your house should depend on whether having that spirit is helping you or hindering you in anyway. In either of those situations, the answer is obvious.

But if the ghost doesn't want "us" in the house - shouldn't the family move, as opposed to getting rid of the ghost? Either way, I feel that if it's known for certain what a particular ghost wants we should help them achieve their goal.

I think I may wish for them to go but what if they refused? Just because I want them to leave may not be reason enough for them to do so.

I've seen that episode. It depends on if they were bother me or not and what exactly the situation would be. I've delt with a similar problem before in my old home, and just left them alone.

lavisbre, why did you even ask the question if you just wanted to say "you need to open up" or "really" or "too many horror stories", maybe you need to open up to others opinions????

Sapphireragdoll wasn’t that so cool when the girl ghost whispers “they don’t want us” I felt the same emotions Brenda did… she knew she had seen them in the wrong light as she broke down and said sorry….

Unless they presented themselves in a hostile way I would see no reason to expell them from the house.

I looked over the responses and didn't see it, but do you happen to have a video of it from youtube or something so others could see it?

i have also lived in a home with ghost the only thing it did that would get us upset is slam the doors around the house late at night...but of than that wasnt no biggy

Well it depends whether or not it was a nice ghost (one of the last houses i lived in contained a very mean ghost) either way I would try to figure out what was keeping them on Earth and try to fix it etc. but if i can't it would have some rules to follow but it could stay if that's what it really desired. I could live with a compromise. :)

if they caused no trouble they could stay

I usto have a ghost in my place and we left him alone and he left use alone. he got a little mad at use because we had to restrict him to a small corner of the basement and he actually through stuff around in my basement. We had to confine him there because we had a gateway open up in my house and it was letting some really unpleasant ghosts into the house. Unfortuneatly Iwe had to banish the ghost in the basement because to many unpleasanspirits and enrgies were coming in to the house

I would ask them to go to the light and move on to a better place..

This is an interesting question. I guess our house is kind of a "foster ghost home." Entities are always popping in and out, staying for awhile, then leaving. We let them be. Usually what we see is a small shadow hanging out in a corner. I'm most aware of them just before waking up. So far, none has caused any problems, so they're welcome. If one started behaving like a vengeful poltergeist or something, though, I'd banish it.

My first question would be why the children where there in the first place.

I would would make my decision after knowing the answer.

Did anyone ask that question on the prog Lav ? I did'nt see it myself.

i would first find out how they got there and if they were causing no trouble let them there sometimes they could be helpful you never know

If a spirit was to say they dont want us there I would want to get rid of them

No, as long as the spitits weren't hurting anyone then I would not try & remove them. I'd do some research though & find out who they were & how they had come to be there.

yes

care to expand on that toxic?

I would if I knew the ghost was there because it was unhappy and/or had unfinished business. I believe spirits should be happy and at peace wherever they are.

I guess i would try to find out why they didn't want us and try to come to a comprimies. I know that sounds korny, but if they where there first i wouldn't feel right making them leave if they didn't want to, not if we could coexist.

Ok, this is one I have to answer. If a ghost or spirit is harmless and not doing any wrong, then no, if they wanted to stay, let them.

Sometimes they become guardians of the people living there.

My own Papa's ghost lived in the house that him and my Granny shared for years. I felt safe there. And I woke up many times to his coffee cup and his cigar burning in the kitchen with the newspaper spread out on the table in front of his chair where he always sat.

My own cousin, ladySNowStrixx lived there with my Granny for some time and never had any problems, I don't know if she ever felt him there or not, she would have to answer that question.

But basically I got the feeling that Papa was there to look after my Granny and my mentally handicapped uncle. He didn't want to leave them behind. He didn't want to leave any of us behind.

So I say if they are not malicious, then let them stay. Live in peace with them, it might be the best decision ever made.

If the spirits are not harmful it shouldn't be an issue. But if My child has friends that are ghosts, that could pose a problem. Kids at school can be cruel, nothing like getting labeled a freak in the 2nd grade.

I remember that episode when the woman started to cry because she felt bad that they thought they didn't want them.. I don't see the problem if they're not doing anything wrong, you know. they're just playing it's not like they're hurting anyone. But she obviously wasn't comfortable with the entity being there so in her case, then she should get rid of them. You should be able to feel comfortable in your own home.

PFT. No I would leave them alone and leave the building immediately. If they dont want us around, why should we force them out and bug them. They are no longer living, let them rest and have some peace. Not force them out and make them even more mad.

Yes if the spirit was unhappy then of course i would have it removed, why keep it prisoner and make it suffer any longer.

Exactly, you would just be sending them on to a better place. Having them removed doesn't have to be a negative thing. They are obviously not happy here so why not send them on their way to where they want and need to be.

Exactly, QueenMorbid. If they're there because they wish to be and not cross over, then coexist with them.

If a ghost/spirit is angry and unhappy, then that should be explored as to why and how and see if they can be helped.

Personally id like to become a ghost, I would not cross over and would throw things at priest and be rather playful to say the least. All work and no play would make Lavisbre a sad ghost lol
Hi Evility
Being odd at school just built me the way I am a friend to most and able to deal with trouble, kids will be kids… I rather frighten them with servitor magic than be picked on for my brand of clothing, lets face it kids can be rather evil. Lol

As for this propaganda on suffering on earth and move them on, im doubtful the church knows what is going on and an exorcism is easily performed with out the bible or cross.
But hey that’s just my take on religion. Lol

They don’t have a link … on you tube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k7JfSzfo66Q

was something to use to the short clip…. As they talk and the guy says your home has legitimate paranormal you will hear the ghost whisper again.. im not sure what she says…im home I think…
but the lady is Brenda just look out for the vid in stores called Brenda’s house

I would have them removed. I saw an exorsism being done in an accomadationblock when i was in the military it was fascinating

Sounds interesting Lore do tell…. What was the build up? What did it do?

I would say let it be. There's no way you can;t exist in harmony with ghosts/spirits.

I have read where ghost can travel from house to house.

I have had spirits (ghost) of loved ones around me.

If the ghost of the child was doing no wrong...I will keep the child around with the other members of the spirit family that pops in from time to time.

Nope, I see nothing wrong with living with a “friendly” ghost. It may even be fun and definitely would be interesting.

I would not if they are friendly and did no harm to be or my family.

I have ghosts in my home all the time. My children attract them as do I. I do not usually make them leave unless they are bothersome, violent or make it known that they are stuck and wish to be helped.

daemona must be fun at times when you find you have a new soul living with you. Do you have any that help you out around the house? Me and Warlordprince have one, and when we lose keys or anything it finds them and sets them on top of the frig.

no thats mean :(
if the ghosts arent evil and trying to hurt anyone

well, spirits can often turn from being nice to not so nice if provoked. i would definitely push the spirit to the Light.

I would not get rid of a spirit if it was friendly enough, I would only do something like that if it had turned nasty or was trying to hurt Me.

we kicked ours out by a requiem mass,and missed him when he was gone.
some ghosts in a house are very nice people.

I would not kick them out. I would think they could leave on their own or ask me to remove them.

i've cohabited with several spirits in various homes before, and i have had both good and bad experiences because of it. i generally will not move into a house where there's a spirit any longer, due to personal preference.

thats a tuff one.... i would be torn between making a ghost leave a familar place and making them feel unwanted....

I grew up in a house that had a sprit, it would move thing trun lights on and off, I haven't lived in that house for 12 years and I still kind of miss him from time to time. So, no I would not have a spirit removed, unless it got violent with my child, then no question it would go

yeah, but sometimes you move into a place where it's already angry, and you have to cleanse the house to make things straight.

if the spirit wasn't harming my child or doing anything bad then no i'd keep it.
we have one in our house and I personally like it a lot and would be really sad if he was removed

I would not ask them to leave unless they were harmful to me and my family.

cheaper than i pet i say lol

...and much more entertaining, esp. if it means that you're kept up at night...

you could feed them spookgeti lol

aww that would be so sad... especially being a child spirit who might of said it..
i dunno i would probly only want them gone if they were violent..
otherwise i think they are kind of cool to have around..

I think the general opinion here is that as long as the entity was not harming anyone in the home to let it be. Of course there are those who don't truly believe that the ghosts would become attached to the humans living in their homes.

We must remember that in some cases we are moving into the space that was inhabited buy this spirit first. So we are actually intruding. and if they are willing to share thier home shouldn't we?
So no.... if I heard the voices of the spirit saying that they felt they were not wanted I would not have them exorcised.

I would find out more about them and co-exsist.

depends on the circumstances, it depend on how annoying the ghost is and if it was good or bad.

Everything needs a home if it left me alone I would leave it alone

There was a good point made earlyer, what happens if the good ghost turned bad? I mean if the gosh did this I would have to kick them out of my home. I would not allow bad chi in my home.

If they had bad intentions, yes.
But if they were good, I would let them stay.

everyt situation is different... I'd consult a medium

Uhm...Not any chance of that.

It would take all of the fun out of my life. Why would I want to be plain and normal when I can have the exraordinary?

I would have them removed as well, like it was said before, you don't know what the future holds...

I believe Casper has clouded our judgements a spirit belongs on another plane that being said i believe it is in everyone's best interest to separate the two yes i would have them removed .

i dont think so, i personaly plan to haunt this world, so if you find LAVISBRE drawn in the mist on the window... dont get ride of me lol

mind you after the blessing of the house you will here the ghost again... there still there.

If they are not causing any problems I would just leave them alone especially if its little kids and they feel that they are not wanted anymore cause it would make me feel like when they were alive they wernt wanted either. Let them stay so they feel like they are wanted. or help them cross over

If the ghost has no harmful intentions and is not evil or some sort of demonic thing than yes I would.I have gotten used to it living in a house with a ghost of a boy around the age of 6-10 when he died.

I do not mind sharing my house with ghosts as long as they behave.

I have the ghost of a little local girl in my appartment and she does not bother me nor my husband in our everyday doings so there is no problem with sharing.

no I would not try to get rid of the ghost , they are corporeal beings and can not hurt you , they can scare you pretty bad but not hurt you , the child ghost wasn't doing anything wrong just looking for companionship there for it saw something in the child that was laking and felt a kinship .

I think that if the Ghost is harmless i would just leave it alone..

I agree if the ghost was harmless then I would leave it be..there is no reason we couldnt all share the same space as long we were all peaceable. If the messed with my kids they would be gone in a second!

I would open a bed and breakfast and advertise during the haunting and be spooked when I see my bank account fill with money.

I've lived in several houses where I have had ghost encounters, but they were never aggressive or evil, they just let themselves be seen sometimes, or they will open and close doors, it was only once that they slammed a door closed, and they would whisper my name at night. They never caused anyone harm, so we didn't think about getting rid of them. If a ghost would have caused harm, though, we would have done something about it, but this hasn't happened.

I would get rid of it...i have never had positive experiences with ghosts. So child spirit or not I wouldnt have it in my house.

If you've got yourself a Caspar, then there should be no problem letting it stay in your home. I'd personally welcome one!

i guess to some who dont know much about ghost would fear them

No. If they are not harming anyone then it doesn't matter. Just because people can't live with it maybe they should move.

I wouldn't ---- for me to do that they would have to be mean and hateful ..

I don't see how they would really deserve it. Are they harming anyone? No. So there for they don't deserve it.

I don't want anyone peeking at me whilst in the shower! or wherever.. so I for sure would call in the exterminators. Besides, I'd feel I would have a moral obligation to put their soul to rest.

I have lived in a place with a ghost/spirit quite peacefully. Whenever I move I wait to see if it may happen again, no luck so far. I have asked family members if they go first to try to contact me but I am getting off subject. If a ghost was harmful I would move promptly!!!

No, I wouldn't.. Our house is 123yrs. We have a couple spirits. The little boy is my favorite we only see him at Christmas. He loves all the lights. This was his home before it was ours.

If they meant no harm to my family.
I'd let them stay.

As hard as it may be, they need to be released and guided to be with friends and family on the other side.

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