What is the one thing in life which you are afraid of most, amd why are you afraid of it? I ask this discussion because we are almost one of us is afraid of something in our lives what is it your afraid of or fearfull of a thing or creature
My fearful thing is dying a painful death.
The concept behind Fanatic Fundementslist, and Jyhadist, they are a dominate concern in my freiting,
I am no where near sharks but sharks scare me to tiny pieces.. I have no clue why.. They just make me want to run and hide. i am so scared of them i dont go swimming in ponds even though i know there are no sharks in them logically. swimmng pools are fine but not going to swim were i can not see whats in the water.
Ill have to agree with Dabz.. They have the power regardless of country and they all pull to their side, some are more powerful than others, but i wonder what will happen when the rope breaks in such advanced times...
yeah sharks are scary an they can just gobble anything up i am near sharks
I try not to worry about the things I cannot control especially not to fear them.
But the most frightening creature would have to be mankind. All the intelligence and abilities we have and yet no other creatures find such pleasure and enjoyment in being cruel and hurtful toward their own kind.
We all sometimes hold fears in the back of our minds, which at some point will surface. For awhile now heights have given me a challange, but the biggest monster we all may face is the danger we have no contol over in our lives.
Others actions that will hurt this world and countless lives.
As the phrase goes...Nothing to fear but fear itself..
People tend to fear things they don't understand or have no control over.Why fear something that can't hurt you...why fear things that aren't real.
If you live near a beach doesn't mean you should fear sharks...they can't walk on land or breathe out of water.Fear of the unknown is what makes people have panic attacks and make life even harder to handle.
No need to fear death...everyone dies and there is no way to slow it down.You may live another 40 yrs...you may die tomorrow.Never let something you have no control over limit you and what you can do while living.
I tend to fear ignorance and stupidity. Additionally, as the years go by, I'm scared of losing my parents. It's sad to see the people you love get old.
I think at this moment in time I am afraid of blind terrorism.
Lawyers.
They are the worst of the leeches of society, because they serve no purpose for the betterment of society. They are by their very nature negative, and few have any standards or integrity.
I fear unemployment and mounting debt and losing my home.
-drowning
- big giant toxic spiders
- being unemployed
My mother.
Seriously, though, what I fear most is drowning. The escape of the air from the lungs, so cold of the water and the inevitable despair... just not a fun thing.
My EX-mother in law!!!! That was one scary bitch!! Just picture stereotypical trailer park trash....that's her alright!
Thank God she is out of my life now!! Nothing scary anymore!!
|
immortalxkiss Viscount Sire (186) Posts: 572 Honor: 567 [ Give / Take ] |
The biggest fear I actually have is the fear of losing my family. My family (parents and my brother) have never been what one would consider close, but over the years, we've began to grow closer. Yeah, we still have a lot of issues to fix between us all, but I'm really starting to appreciate them.
It's a bit sad that it's taken me so long to really want them there with me, but now that they are, I can't stand the fact that I could lose them. My family is my world.
I fear the water. I think the ocean is beautiful, lakes, etc. But to look at... But my fear stems from never learning to swim... lol. I've been floating out in the middle of a lake with a life jacket on, and just something about not knowing what is down there that gets me...or could get my toes...
no animal scares me.... and it's a strange concept for me to fear an animal (although i do have a healthy respect, and keep a healthy distance from those animals who could possibly harm me.. i don't go yelling and screaming at bulls for example)
no, animals do not scare me on a daily basis...i fear people.
my neighbors, strangers approaching me, people calling me, people knocking on my door, crowds, people walking down the street, people in cars driving by, people trying to sell me something, people making eye contact in the grocery store... i peer out my windows before i go out, i don't open the door or answer the phone, i avoid crowded places and i am always worried... it's irrational and completely annoying, but i fear you all.
My mate Knightdutchess.Why she can get too close to me.
Letting go of fear is at the heart of real freedom.....easier said than done perhaps..but true.
I would have to say my greatest fear is fire. I am totally terrified of it.. I was an adult before I could even get the courage to light a match.
The only other thing that would be a huge fear of mine would be to be buried alive... suffocating god.. shudders just awful.
I don't like sharks, or driving down mountains lol..... Lets face it, if you're driving down a mountain and your breaks give out you can for the most part make your peace with which ever god you pray to.
Losing my son or wife, or not seeing them before i die. Thats the only thing that scares me.
The power of a "God" that each of us possess: The power to create life or extinguish any form of life.
To face your fears is to take control of what heightens or sence of fear. yet when the power is some one elses hand the fear is an illusion we cannot control or overcome.
Black Widows, found one the other day on the threshold of the hallway ceiling. I get scared for my cats! I hated to have to kill it but couldn't take the chance of trying to get it outside and get bit or lose it. They are so common here, but I tend to forget about them till I see em in my house, right above me. Had the heebeedajeebedees for 1/2 the day.
I would have to say that snakes are my biggest fear, I have been chased by them tried to be gotten at through glass cages , so yeah I,d say snakes.
Losing my son
That my hubby's dietbetics will get worse.
of course stuck in a car and cannot get out because of raising water or fire
My house burning down
My dog being attacked by a larger dog.
I have no fear. I look at would be fear as challenges. I just will not allow myself to have fear
I have a paralyzing fear of moths and butterflies (I know that is a strange one) but when I was about 2 I was playing near a bush or thought it was a bush but it was a swarm of butterflies they seemed to just leave the thing they were flying around and all landed on me and there were so many I couldn't see my mom at all. I don't remember the event but my mom told me about it when I asked her why I am afraid of moths and butterflies since apparently I have been afraid of them since then
I fear clowns. Seriously, there's something wrong with them. Oh and spiders.
There isn't too much that i fear. I think i've had enough scares in my lifetime to become immune to most of it. There's things i wouldn't like to happen but I can't say i fear it. I try to keep on a positive note and believe that during tormoil, we're not alone in anything we fear or face.
I try not to fixate on any one thing to fear but a painful death is something I dread the thought of but since I'll not have a choice, so why let it tear me up.
Snakes... I had a boa thrown in my face as a joke.. haha... I will never be able to not be afraid of them..
When I was a kid I was scared shitless of those aliens from the Alien trilogy with Sigourney Weaver....
wow.. sharks never seen a shark im sure id wanna stay clear on those.. but.. i hate people sneakin up on me never know who is behind you or what is..
I have always been terrified of spiders, snakes, and very large dogs. I am also scared of controlling people.
I am afraid of the wrath of premium members with a chip on there shoulder - Really, you guys scare the living pixels outta me.
There is only one creature or being i'm afraid of,
with a terrible fright.thats my stalker i have had up my
rump for over 7 years.he's a full blooded sang...and i
am terrified of him,only cause hes powerfull and rich
with money and friends.Cops can't catch him..and the
government can't kill him.
There is one thing i'm afraid of though..thats small.
i've always had a fear..that i would die a stupid
death..Like choking on my own spit or vomit.You know?
I am not sure of creature, But I am afraid of being alone for the rest of my existence.
Losing my dog, losing a family member, drowning, poisenous creatures.
To be perfectly honest the thing that scares me most is being bitten or eaten by animals. I am afraid of getting bitten because I almost got bit by a very vicious dog when I was very young and Ive seen too many movies about people getting eaten by fish XD
My worst nitemare is my ex- fiance he is the devils spawn reduced to a slug and sent back to earth.
The future.
The fact that I don't know what's going to happen scares me.
Also a painful death, wait pain itself scares me. I guess there's no really a reason behind this, pain is just negative.
Well I wouldnt say he is fearful, but he can cause me fear, SO I will have to say it is my ex, he is a monster and liks to suck the life and happiness right out me.
Mine would be fatal diseases and illnesses. I hate the fact that being sick can kill you and I like life too much.
I'm afraid of fear. That either makes me wise or boring.
One of my bigger fears in life is snakes. My brother used to chase me with them, granted he was getting just garden snakes, but I was little. Now that I live in OH, I've got some serious snakes to be scared of.
*shivers at the thought of a snake*
Even after reading through what everyone fears I still don't get why or how you can be afraid of things you have no control over.You can over come anything and rise above it...you can control the fear...and not let the fear control you.It is understandable that you "fear" the loss of someone close to you...but if you let it control you it will win.You should never fear death because that is one thing that everyone will face at some point.
Unknownbeuaty writes: I am not sure of creature, But I am afraid of being alone for the rest of my existence.
I suffer from the same, It is called Autophobia.
I think It stems from the alienation I felt at school
There is a much rarer form that manifests as a hatred or mistrust of oneself.
I'm not normally a fearful person, but my momma got some bad news and mostly likely has cancer...
I fear losing her to the disease...but at the same time...I'm optimistic that things will turn out ok.
Either way, there is fear...I love her with all my heart and it's only been 4 years since I lost my daddy....
I have to honestly say for me it is human... my father he is an evil man and I never wish to be associated with him again. I would be willing to move states, change my name, anything to stay away from him. He fills me with more fear than a spider or a shark.
I'm afraid of never finding a place where I belong, I sometimes fear that it's something wrong with me. I don't want to be hated by anyone, I'm afraid of everyone. I'm so afraid that i some times wish to disappear and never return, I fear death to my self and the pepole I care about because I can't avoid it.
I fear of any worm parasites that might infest the human body.
To explain better to everybody why I am afraid of this, I will post this short video so all can understand that I am not imagining things when I say that worm parasites are dangerous and should be afraid of.
Watch your health if you go got the jungle for the fuken tourist ausflug.
That was a disgusting video.
I fear spiders. And im not sure why. They are just a common fear, and i hate the feeling they give you when they crawl on yor skin.
I fear having a nightmare that I'll wake up to jerk in physical reaction as the memory dissolved into white hot pain that would seem to shoot right to my soul, and feel as if I were being devoured from the inside out.
Sometimes I fear the darkness inside my own heart.
Fear of losing my family and people that are close to my heart, because of something stupid that I do or say. I also fear my anger inside of myself, because If I get mad over something stupid then I might yell at something to take the pain away.
Aside from heights and enclosed spaces, and large crowds, I think my biggest fear is dying without having ever made a name for myself. I don't want to die and then be forgotten. I want to be written down in books, or at least have something of mine that thousands of people will handle/see, whether it be my art, or my writing. That...is my biggest fear.
My fears.....Be prepared for a list.
Humanity-It's never been the kindest of creatures to me
Heights-I fell out of a tree when I was 13 or 14
A hand resting too close to my face-Someone tried to suffocate me once.
Being alone-Grew up in foster care
Men-no need to go into why
Losing my mom-she's the only "stability" I've ever known
Busses-I tend to get lost on them
I'm sure there's more but that's enough for now. You have explanations and just because I have these fears does not mean I let them control me.
well to love someone and to not have the feelings returned
Schedule1 (my husband) dying before me.....I can't imagine life without him....he is my everything.
I am afraid of to never do ballet again. If my heel catches the top of a slightly pounce. If I hit the floor with a crash on stage in front of audience.
Do you know how it would send a stake through my heart if I ever hear the words ringing into my ears? “You must give up dancing.” That would be like accepting death, due to an injury.
I sometimes have stage fright....but very rarely.
-Losing my loved ones
-Wasps
-Drowning
-Worlds end
-Moths
-Heights
the thing i fear most is dying alone,(not by myself cuz i wouldnt want them to watch). . .not having someone in my life, someone to love and who'll love me. . .
I dont like fies or roaches i have the biggest fear of them
My biggest fear is dying before I find love. I know it is a big fear for a lot of people and it'll probably show up in this thread alot but that is honestly my biggest fear. Followed closely by the fear that I wont be a good mother...
3 things:
1. snakes (OMG - I'm not even afraid of being bitten by them. I'm just afraid of SEEING one!!!)
2. rats
3. I'm moving to the US from Canada and the health care insanity is pretty scary. My husband gets personal coverage through work..but for me and the kids?? $750 a month and that STILL leaves deductibles????
I only fear two things in this life losing my child and never being able to get pregnant again before it's my time to give up the ghost to menopause.
not to be loved and to lose my mind,not to be me anymore
mine is boring but....
i fear the current state of the economy (in america)
i fear what the govt is doing about it...(lets quadruple the debt)
i fear our children having to pay for this
i fear the inflation that according to every book of economics ive ever read says will now have to occur....
if you look at history, something similar happened before, it was called the weimar republic.
when things get bad enough..people look to the extreme left...and so you get
hitler...
and yes...that scares the puddle bugs out of me!
~W~
my most fearful thing in life is needles. i HATE needles. i would deal with them long enough to get a tattoo or piercing but thats it.
I would have to say at this time in my life its not a creature but poopy diapers.
umm spiders and cops give me the same feeling when i see them ..i know im not a spider snack or done anything wrong .i can deal with it most of the time but when they sneak up on you ..waaa...doh
I have been afraid of heights most of my life but I can control it a little.
I don't like to ride in a car when someone else is driving, I will almost jump out of my skin.
Spiders of course but if they are small they don't bother me.
OK with snakes unless I know its poisonous.
Baloons believe it or not. Has to do with an incident before I was in school. I literally cringe around them. Not the foil kind, the old fashioned ones.
Fear of dying by fire or drowning.
Homelessness
we have nothing to fear but fear itself if we let what we fear control us then we are lost forever, but if we learn to control our fear then we are truely free
I ain't afraid as more like just depressed about the feeling of losing my parents, or being killed and leaving my children parentless, fatherless, or something happening to my children.....
I don't think I would be sane ever again. I love my family and I love all who are my friends both on and off line.
I am so afraid of the dark I cant sleep with my eyes closed.
I'm not really afraid of a lot, but there is something I am terrified of...
Killer Penguins. Good thing I live far far away from any place that is cold enough for a penguin to live. I don't think that they have any in the Zoo near me, I think they are nice enough... If you have never seen a Killer Penguin, go to my profile, I have proof they exist.
I just got some bad news from 2 different doctors & I am afraid of what the results are gonna be for me. I live alone & have nobody to take care of me & they told me that I can't live alone. I will continue to lose my memory & my reflexes & basically my body is gonna shut down.
situation wise: I fear drowning in a car.
(I love sharks! I want to cage dive with Great Whites but it's 5000.00)
Otherwise: I fear myself. I am the only person that can truly have any power over what I do, say, feel or act. I fear that I won't let myself be the way I want to be. Therefore, I am very hard on myself and I am a perfectionist even though I hate it.
we have Timber rattlers here, very deadly. But lately Black bears are even worse and out of control.
Hands down - no question - the scariest thing on earth.......
CLOWNS
There is just something incredibly freakish about a grown man (or woman) in grease paint...
* shivers *
The worst fear I have is something happening to my husband and children
The next biggest fear is Spiders